Second Date Update - No Fly Zone
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00:00We're in the middle of our second date update.
00:01We're trying to help out Alex this morning.
00:04Yeah, Alex and Justine, they went out.
00:06Says it's been 10 days.
00:07He hasn't heard from her.
00:08He's called.
00:08He's texted.
00:09Said the date went great, but for some reason, she ain't getting back to him.
00:13All right.
00:14Well, Kevin has her on hold.
00:15Let's just talk to her right now.
00:16Justine, you there?
00:18Yes, I'm here.
00:19Hey, Justine, thanks for agreeing to come on with us.
00:21We do want to talk to you about a date you went on.
00:23Is that cool?
00:25Um, sure.
00:27Okay.
00:27Um, we want to talk to you about this guy, Alex.
00:30We heard you guys just went for coffee, had a nice little date.
00:33He thought you were very smart, very pretty, thought you were kind of the complete package.
00:38Wants to see you again, but I guess it's been 10 days since you guys have talked or seen each other.
00:43And he's just a little confused by that because he felt pretty confident that things went well.
00:48Um, I mean, things did go well and Alex is really a nice guy.
00:53Um, and like, I don't, he said something that was just, I feel like would be a problem.
00:59Um, like, if things progress, the more I thought about it, like after the date, I was like, you know, I was really sitting on it.
01:06It was kind of bugging me.
01:07Um, so what'd he say?
01:09I mean, I don't want to embarrass him.
01:12He said that, you know, he's afraid to fly or that he has a fear of flying.
01:17Like, but you know, he has like anxiety.
01:20Um, but it basically comes down to the fact that like, he will not get on an airplane ever again.
01:26Like he just has no desire to ever fly.
01:29Did something happen?
01:31Uh, he, he kind of alluded to something like he really didn't get into it.
01:36He kind of just said it sort of in passing because I love to travel.
01:40So that's kind of where it sort of came about.
01:42Like I was talking about like where I had been, like I had just, um, did this like big Europe trip with one of my friends and I was kind of telling him all about it.
01:50And he kind of just like nonchalantly said, he was like, Oh, like I never fly.
01:53He's like, I'll never fly again.
01:55Um, and I didn't, and I impressed him for it because, um, like I didn't want to overstep because if it was something traumatic, I didn't want to bring that up.
02:04You know, like, you know, like boundaries with everyone's a first date.
02:08Um, but I just really love to travel.
02:11I plan to continue to travel.
02:13It's like one of my passions.
02:15Um, you know, I, my family's not local.
02:18They live in New Jersey.
02:19So like I travel to go see them.
02:20I also have family all over the country.
02:23And dating somebody that doesn't fly, that could pose a problem.
02:27Exactly.
02:27And it's like, I just, as much as, you know, you enjoy somebody's company, something as silly as that, it really can be a deal breaker because like I can't be grounded.
02:36Um, oh, gotcha.
02:38Hey now.
02:39Hey.
02:41She's got jokes.
02:43All right.
02:44That's kind of where I'm coming from.
02:46Okay, Justine.
02:47I get where you're coming from.
02:49Um, Alex is selling a really nice guy.
02:51You said that yourself, that he's a nice guy.
02:53Uh, we do have him on, uh, the line with us.
02:56He actually got to hear what you had to say and why you're not getting back to him.
03:00Yeah, that's, um, I guess I can understand it.
03:04I don't, I don't, I have a fear of flying.
03:06It's just, it's, it is what it is.
03:08You know, I get, I get very nervous.
03:10I went on a few bad flights, shaky turbulence.
03:14One, we barely landed.
03:15It's just, I just, I don't really fly.
03:18Um, is this something you will not do?
03:21I really, I haven't in years and I really can't see myself flying again.
03:25I don't think I will.
03:26What if you had to though?
03:28Dude, I've been in that situation.
03:29I did not like to fly for a lot of years and then I discovered the bar.
03:36Helps you fly.
03:37Liquid courage.
03:38Helps me a little bit.
03:39But I, but I get what you're saying.
03:41Like I've, I've had that complete fear of flying.
03:44So this is something that you just cannot see yourself doing.
03:47I can't see myself doing.
03:48I mean, we can do, I mean, there are other ways, especially to travel to New Jersey.
03:52I mean, that's, you know, probably a day and a half drive.
03:55We can do that.
03:56I mean, I'm willing to, I mean, I know it's longer, but.
03:58Okay, a day and a half drive and I can just hop on a plane and you're two hours away.
04:02I mean, like, I don't want to be in a car for like a day and a half when I could literally
04:06take a two hour flight to New Jersey.
04:09Like, that's just so hard.
04:11Like, and I hate me, like where he hates flying.
04:14I hate being in cars for like long periods of time.
04:17Yeah.
04:17I'm with you there.
04:18I hate road trips.
04:20It's just so hard.
04:21It's a nice bonding experience though.
04:22You know, you get to know each other and talk.
04:24Sure.
04:25For like a couple of hours.
04:26Like if it's like a three, four hour road trip, that's one thing.
04:28And day and a half, I just can't do.
04:31Plus, have you ever driven in Jersey?
04:32Yeah.
04:33You don't want to drive in Jersey.
04:34No, you do not.
04:35Because something can, as easily that's like 20 minutes away could take you two hours to get to.
04:40So, Justine, this is really going to be something that's going to cut you off from getting to know him at all?
04:45I mean, like I said, you were talking about what a nice guy he is, but you just feel like this is going to be a problem?
04:51I mean, it really is.
04:52Because I just don't want to get in too deep and then like something like a trip comes around or I want to go visit my family.
04:57I want him to come meet my family and he just can't get on a plane.
05:01I just don't want to get, I don't want to jump in now for it to explode into something worse.
05:08Like, I feel like we got to know each other, things were, like, we're not serious, it was a date.
05:13You know, it would be different if it was a year from now.
05:15Like, I just feel like it's better to get out quicker, you know, at this point where there really isn't too many feelings being hurt.
05:22Okay.
05:23Well, she's got something there.
05:24All right, Alex.
05:26Well, is there anything else you want to say, Alex, to Justine?
05:28It sounds like she's not looking for another date.
05:30I'm sorry, man.
05:31No, I mean, I can understand what she's saying.
05:34Like, it's a deal breaker, it's a deal breaker.
05:36You know, I got mine too, it's just, I like, there was the first girl I kind of liked in a long time.
05:40And it's, I mean, nothing I can do.
05:42I can't fly.
05:43I just, I can't do it.
05:44All right, man.
05:45Well, I appreciate you reaching out to us.
05:47I'm sorry this isn't going to work out.
05:48And I wish you both luck, okay?
05:51Thanks.
05:53Sorry it didn't work out.
05:55I feel bad for him.
05:56I mean, he's such a nice dude.
05:57And, you know, there's just something for him.
05:59That's his fear.
06:01And everybody has something.
06:02Yeah, and it probably wouldn't be that much of a big deal, but she really likes to travel.
06:07I mean, you can date a lot of people that don't really want to leave the country or just travel, you know, within the country or just travel around close proximity.
06:15But it sounds like she's, like, flying overseas and stuff like that.
06:18It ain't going to work.
06:19All right.
06:19Well, this has been a deal breaker for you, though.
06:21We want to know that.
06:22800-992-1099.
06:25800-992-1099.
06:27Amen.
06:27Amen.