Second Date Update - Kid Zone
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00:00Commercial free new country 99.5 QYK it is the second date update right now where we try to match two people up on another date and Lisa has reached out to us and I'll be honest with you they took a big step in their dating life.
00:12Yeah they both have kids and so they decided to go to main event which has all that really cool stuff for kids to play and that way their kids could play together and they could still you know spend some time together but I mean I like it they said they had a good time and the kids enjoyed themselves.
00:27Now this was their third date they've been on so two dates it was just them and then third date let's introduce the kids so everything went great in her mind let's go ahead and try to call Rick though because she has not heard from him since his last date.
00:57Hello?
00:59Hi good morning is this Rick?
01:02This is Emma who's this?
01:04Hey Rick sorry to bother you this morning this is actually J.R. Lana and Kevin over here at 99.5 QYK.
01:10Hey what's going on?
01:13We're probably catching you off guard a little bit this morning we do want to talk to you if you're okay with it on the air actually about a date you went on and this girl Lisa that you've been hanging out with.
01:24Oh yeah I know Lisa I know her definitely yeah what's up okay well we heard about you guys's uh your dates and this last date being one where you guys both brought your kids to main event and they kind of played together and you guys hung out and she thought everything was awesome and wants to see you again but hasn't heard from you since that last date what's going on?
01:48Yeah I was hesitant after the main event situation because she was just you know berating her kid and just going off on him I mean the kid spilled her child spilled some you know soda on herself and basically just went ham on her and I was like yo this is not this is not what I want around my child she was cursing she was causing a scene I was like yo
02:08oh gosh this is not the type of person I want around my child I don't want my child to be seeing you know seeing that type of you know anger rage around from adults basically so I was like yo I was kind of hesitant after that uh main event event.
02:20Oh wow yeah I mean I don't blame you because so you felt like she created a little bit of a scene when she was what disciplining her child yeah create a scene is an understatement I mean she was going off I mean I don't think adults should be treated like this.
02:35Oh okay oh especially in a place like that where there's a bunch of other parents and kids and stuff that's kind of surprising that she would you know go all out like that especially in front of you and your kids yeah.
02:45Right exactly I don't want my child to see that as well as I mean it wasn't it wasn't that major where she should go off on that she was like showing so much rage and so much anger I was like jeez this is not the type of person I want around my child.
02:56So they say you shouldn't you know cry over spilt milk and this was what spilt soda.
03:00Oh my okay Lana.
03:02You're nice.
03:03All right well Rick I can understand your concerns I want to let you know that we do have Lisa on the phone with us and I want to bring her back on just to kind of get her side of this because she sounded very sweet to us we didn't hear this side of her at all.
03:19Lisa you want to respond to Rick?
03:21I mean I don't have much of a response other than I think he should keep his nose out of other people's parenting to me is how I discipline my son is my business and I don't I don't comment on the way that he disciplines his daughter I know what my son responds to I don't think it's fair for him to try and dictate the way that I talk to my son.
03:44I mean I'm not trying to dictate the way you talk to your son but I mean we're out in public you're causing a scene your child is your son is crying I mean you're berating him in public I mean everybody's staring at us it was a whole lot going on so I mean I'm not saying the way you're not berating my son in public.
04:01I mean your child was crying everybody was staring at us everybody kind of like it's one of those moments in the movie where everybody kind of stops and stares at us that's one of those moments.
04:08Kids are going to cry it's they don't have to be happy all the time just ecstatic and through the roof sometimes they need to learn that if they don't always get what they want right their way in that moment and that's the lesson that my son needs and I don't understand why that wasn't interfering with your daughter it's not like I was yelling at her.
04:27Okay well let me ask you a question guys obviously your parenting styles are a little different but you guys did have two good dates together that's why you guys went on a third date and introduced your kids sounds like the kids got along well.
04:40Yeah no one's ever going to agree on parenting I mean parents argue about that all the time.
04:45Yeah so Rick I mean is this going to be a deal breaker for you or would you be willing to see Lisa again if you guys could kind of settle this?
04:53I don't know I think this is a deal breaker for me parenting is real important to me so you cursing and you this one incident shows something that might be a big problem to every down the line so I'm going to have to pass on this one.
05:06Oh okay gotcha.
05:08But it's important I mean he's got to do what's right for his kid.
05:11Yeah well Lisa I'm sure that's not the answer you wanted I'm sorry but.
05:16Well I mean at this point no I'm pretty satisfied with that because I don't think this is something we're going to be able to get to to get to agreement on.
05:24Okay gotcha.
05:25All right Lisa well I appreciate you reaching out to us.
05:27Rick thanks for your time as well you guys have a great day.
05:30All right.
05:32Everybody has the right to bring their kids around certain type of people.
05:38I mean if you don't want your kids around a certain type of person you've got that right.
05:42That's true.
05:43Mm-hmm.
05:43And I do think you have to agree on parenting in some way shape or form you know like even if it's just a little bit.
05:49Yeah.
05:49You know if you're disciplining your kid in a way that the other person does not discipline their kid that's always going to be an issue.
05:56Well especially that yeah.
05:57So.
05:57I mean there's times you know you need to discipline a little bit more but maybe.
06:02It sounds like it was a scene though.
06:03Yeah it sounds like it was a scene you know nobody wants to you know have a scene around them.
06:09All right should this have been a deal breaker though 800-992-1099 800-992-1099.