Second Date Update - Can't Take It With You
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00:00All right, Samantha has reached out to us.
00:01Something she said that stuck out to me was,
00:03I'm not used to not getting calls back.
00:06She did say that.
00:07Second date update right now.
00:08Commercial free new country, 99.5 QIK.
00:12Jacob was her date, and she was not able to get a hold of him.
00:16However, we were able to get a hold of him.
00:18We have him on hold.
00:19We want to bring him on right now with us.
00:20Let's do it.
00:22Jacob.
00:23Hey, guys.
00:24How's it going?
00:25Good, man.
00:25Thanks for agreeing to come on with us.
00:27I know that's a weird request, especially at this time in the morning.
00:31All good.
00:31Hey, man.
00:32We just wanted to ask you about this girl, Samantha.
00:34We heard you guys went to Kona Grill.
00:36She said a lot of nice things about you, from the way you dress to your job
00:40to the fact that you guys have a lot in common when it comes to your families
00:44and things like that.
00:46And now I guess she's been trying to set up another date with you,
00:49hasn't heard anything.
00:50So we were hoping you could maybe fill us in on what's going on.
00:54Yeah, I appreciate all the nice things.
00:56She said about me, but there were, like, a couple of things that she kind of
01:00let slip that were alarming to me, and she just started to kind of reveal
01:06some financial, like, irresponsibility that I, like, I didn't even ask her about.
01:13Wait.
01:14You guys are talking about finances?
01:16Yeah, we got to talking about finances.
01:18I'm in finance, so it's something that, you know, I take pretty seriously,
01:23and I like to invest.
01:25I like to save.
01:27And she was basically like, well, you know, I don't save at all.
01:31Like, I'm actually, I'm totally in debt.
01:34Why would you guys bring this up on a date?
01:37What a line.
01:38How did this get even started?
01:40She was basically like, well, you know, you can't take it with you.
01:43So, like, I like to have nice things, and she showed me her, like,
01:47Louis Vuitton purse, and she was like, you don't want to know what I,
01:50what I, like, went into debt for after I bought this.
01:55And, you know.
01:57Well, they're expensive, yeah.
01:59This is not the way I live in my life.
01:59So, I just found it, like, a little, a little crazy.
02:03Okay.
02:04And then, I, you know, I was walking to her car, and she drives a Mercedes,
02:11and she just had, like, on really nice jewelry and really nice clothing.
02:17So, to me, like, that was just a red flag.
02:20Like, that's just not what I'm about.
02:22And I just thought, you know, not a good situation to continue for me.
02:28So, she's a spender, not a saver.
02:29Yeah.
02:30Exactly.
02:31Of all things, to find out on a date, find out somebody's spending habits.
02:36Well, if you're carrying around a Louis Vuitton purse and wearing expensive,
02:39you know, jewelry watches and driving a Mercedes, I mean.
02:42Yeah, but it's a weird thing to say.
02:44You either have money or you want people to think you have money.
02:45Sure.
02:46Okay.
02:47She was, like, almost proud that, like, she spent her money the way she did,
02:51which I found kind of, like, bizarre.
02:53Okay.
02:54Well, here's the deal, Jacob.
02:55We actually have Samantha on the phone with us, too.
02:59Great.
02:59Bye.
03:01Hey, Samantha, I just got to ask, I mean, straight up,
03:04were you talking about being in debt?
03:05Like, did you bring that up?
03:07Well, yeah.
03:08I mean, I'm not ashamed of it.
03:10Like, everybody has debt.
03:12That's what credit cards are for.
03:14And I'm going to eventually pay it off.
03:16You know?
03:17I just thought it was funny and relatable.
03:20And I like nice things.
03:22You know?
03:23I want them when I want them.
03:24So, that's where I spend my money.
03:26Listen, Samantha, you know, like, that's, like, not real money, like, credit cards or, like,
03:31You're not real money?
03:34I think I know how money works.
03:36I don't think you do.
03:39Well, if you're talking about, like, that European vacation you're going to take with your friends,
03:43like, that's, like, a whole month in Europe.
03:45Like, how much is that going to cost?
03:47Okay, that is none of your business.
03:49And I'll handle it.
03:50I'm a big girl.
03:51I can handle my own finances.
03:52Thank you very much.
03:53I don't think you can.
03:55Oh, man.
03:56Okay.
03:57Like, you're so worried about this.
03:59And I don't even understand what my debt has to do with you.
04:02Like, you're just, you sound like you're just being cheap.
04:05I'm not cheap.
04:07I'm just responsible.
04:08Like, I mean, I like nice things, too.
04:10I just generally pay for them.
04:13Generally.
04:14It's not that big a deal.
04:16It's not that much debt.
04:17It's, like, what, a few thousand dollars?
04:19That's not that much.
04:21You let it slip.
04:22It was, like, 20 grand.
04:24Okay, it's 20 grand.
04:26Okay?
04:27It's not that big a deal.
04:28I'll pay it off.
04:29It's payment plans.
04:31Stuff like that.
04:32That was, like, a red flag to me.
04:34Like, you know, I think you're just going to get more and more into debt.
04:37And, you know, that's just not what I'm about.
04:40Okay.
04:40Well, I think we can all agree that you sound pretty shallow right now, Jacob, if all you care about is money.
04:47Well, that's not how I agree.
04:51I just don't want your debt to become my debt, which is how relationships work.
04:56So, you know, more power to you.
04:58I'm sorry it didn't work out.
05:01I wish you all the luck.
05:02But it's just, yeah, I just choose to live my life a little more responsibly than you, that's all.
05:10Okay, well, I'm going to go take my Mercedes to the cleaner.
05:13To the cleaner.
05:14Okay.
05:15All right.
05:15Well, Jacob, I appreciate your time this morning and being honest with us and letting us know what's going on.
05:21Samantha, as far as this debt thing goes, I mean, you brought it up.
05:23You said you're not ashamed of it, right?
05:25Yeah, I was open about it.
05:27Okay.
05:27All right.
05:28Well, Jacob, thanks for your time this morning.
05:31And, Samantha, I'm sorry we couldn't make a second date happen.
05:34That's okay.
05:34Thank you very much.
05:35All right.
05:36Sorry.
05:37See you, Jacob.
05:37Sorry.
05:37Thanks, guys.
05:38You got it.
05:39See it?
05:40I mean, did she say, I'm not ashamed of it?
05:43That's what credit cards are for?
05:44Did she say that?
05:44She did say that, yeah.
05:45That was crazy.
05:46Yeah.
05:47It didn't seem like she cares about the value of money just having what she wants to have now.
05:53Yeah.
05:53She's on her timeline.
05:54Yeah.
05:54Not her bank account's timeline.
05:56Right.
05:56All right.
05:57So, I guess my question is, is this something that he should have concerned himself with or worried
06:01about?
06:02Was it his business?
06:03Or did he have a point?
06:04We want to know 800-992-1099, 800-992-1099.
06:09Whose side are you on?
06:10Okay.
06:16Mm.
06:16Okay.
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