Second Date Update - Gone Fishing
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00:00But right now, we are trying to help out Elizabeth, and we want to set her back up on another date with Todd.
00:05They've been out one time, and she has not heard from Todd since that date.
00:11No, but she's like, you know, it seemed like he was into me because after the date, she said that went fine.
00:16He walked into her car, and she said that there was a little kiss.
00:21Yes, there was a kiss at the end of the date.
00:23So, seems like a good sign.
00:26We're going to bring him on with us right now.
00:28We got his permission to talk to him on the air, so let's do that.
00:31Todd, are you there?
00:32Yeah, I'm here.
00:33Hey, how's it going?
00:34Hey, Todd, thanks for your time this morning.
00:35Let's just get right to it.
00:37We want to ask you about this girl, Elizabeth, and she is just smitten with you.
00:42Had a lot of great things to say about you.
00:45You're well put together, and she was very impressed by you.
00:50But she hasn't heard from you since your guys' date, and he kind of wants to know what's going on.
00:54And we're hoping maybe we could help out as well.
00:56Well, yeah, I mean, it's nice to hear those nice things from her.
01:00I mean, I think she was pretty great when I met her, and I was very, you know, yeah, I felt something there.
01:08But, you know, honestly, there was something that really freaked me out.
01:14And, yeah.
01:15What was it?
01:15That's kind of why.
01:18Yeah, she's got this plan, right?
01:21Like, she's got her whole life plan all, like, planned out.
01:25Like, goals and, like, one of those vision boards or whatever?
01:30Yeah, yeah, exactly, exactly.
01:32Well, she said about a vision board that was, like, more for her career.
01:35Okay.
01:36But she has, like, these other goals, like, biological goals.
01:41Like.
01:41Oh, how old is she?
01:43Yeah, yeah.
01:44So, she wants a kid, right?
01:45She wants a kid.
01:45And, again, like, that's not.
01:47I mean, again, like, we were all putting it out there, I guess, in the first date.
01:50She just kind of kept going, and she went into great detail.
01:53Like, she is going to have a kid straight up in the year 2025.
01:58Well.
01:59Well, she better get going.
02:00Yeah, and I'm like, okay, well, okay, you're like, really?
02:04Like, that's a, I guess it's going to be, like, a big year for you.
02:07She says, oh, well, that's what I'm seeing.
02:09That's what's going to happen.
02:10Like, she was very, like, confident.
02:12Not, like, creepy dreamy, but, like, she's like, no, it's going to happen.
02:15Okay.
02:16That's where you come in?
02:17Yeah.
02:18So, that kind of freaked you out?
02:20Yeah.
02:21It just, it just puts a, it's pressure.
02:24Like, I mean, I don't know, if you're looking, if you're fishing for a father, it's, I don't know,
02:28that's not a good bait.
02:29Like, that's not, that's not, that's not how it's going to get me.
02:31Like, that's not me.
02:33I get that, like, you want to be ambitious.
02:35You have plans for your career, for your family.
02:37But, like, I don't know, like, meeting somebody out of the gate like that with that kind of
02:41path, like, planned out, like, yeah, it's a lot of pressure.
02:44Hey, Todd.
02:45Todd.
02:46Oh, okay.
02:47Well, I just want to let you know, Todd, that Elizabeth is on the phone with us as well.
02:51Oh, yeah.
02:52Hey, hey, hey.
02:54Hey, Todd, like, is it that big of a deal that I have goals for my life?
02:58I mean, what's so bad about that?
03:00I don't know.
03:01No, it's, it's cool.
03:02I mean, I said it then, like, it's, it's, it's cool.
03:04You have, like, a vision board, you have goals, like, if things, like, planned out, you know?
03:08I mean, that's, that's cool.
03:09It's, that's your goals.
03:10Like, that's, that's for you.
03:12Okay?
03:13Okay.
03:13But, like, what's the big deal in having a, just because it's a kid, that makes it bad?
03:17Like, I don't understand, just because I want to have a good guy next year.
03:20Oh, I'm, look, I'm not, like, against kids.
03:23Like, I, I'm just, I'm not sure, I'm not sure if I'm going to be a dad, right?
03:29I don't know.
03:30Well, you didn't say, I mean, first of all, we were on our first date, okay?
03:33And, and you didn't say anything against my goals, like, anything, you know, on the date, like, like, it was bad or anything.
03:41And women have a biological clock, like.
03:45I, I heard it all.
03:46I heard, I heard it out.
03:47I was, I was, look, I was a good listener.
03:49I wanted you to just say what you wanted to say about, like, you know, learn about you, your goals.
03:54But when you kept going into your, um, your biological clock kind of deadlines and all that, like, it just, um, it put, like, a lot of pressure on me.
04:02And if it's 2025, I mean, it's going to be a, it's going to be a big year for you.
04:06And I'm excited for you.
04:07But I, I just don't think, um, I don't think I'm going to be, I'm not going to be, I probably have to be part of that.
04:14Yeah, I do.
04:15I want to, I do want to have a kid.
04:16I want to be a young mom.
04:17I don't want to be old, like, old when I finally have a kid.
04:20I have goals for myself.
04:21It's like, you could have let me know and been up front with me that you had those initial thoughts, like, right then and there.
04:27So I didn't have to waste days trying to figure out if you were going to contact me back or not and waste even another moment thinking about you.
04:36Wow.
04:36Well, honestly, that's why, I mean, okay, well, here it is.
04:38I mean, this is it.
04:40I mean, I was processing.
04:41To be honest, like, it was a lot to put out on a first date.
04:43I got to say, I was, uh, yeah, I appreciate your, your, your courage, your, um, willingness to want to connect, you know, with me, like, in all those ways.
04:50But, uh, we're not going to connect on this one.
04:53This is, this is, that's a tough one for me.
04:55A lot of pressure.
04:56So you're saying this is a deal breaker for you, Todd?
04:59Ah, yeah.
05:00Wow.
05:01I'm being honest with you right now.
05:02Elizabeth, listen, I'm being honest right now.
05:04This is.
05:04It's okay.
05:05Yeah.
05:06I'll find, I'll, I'll have a kid, whether, you know, in one way or another in 2025, whether
05:12I have.
05:13I believe you.
05:14Yeah.
05:14So is that what you're doing?
05:15You're just kind of dating guys and seeing if they'll help you out?
05:20No.
05:20I mean, like, I, I would love to have a relationship.
05:22Sure.
05:23I'm just saying, I'm not going to let anything stop me from having a baby.
05:28Okay.
05:29Here.
05:29All right.
05:30Well, it's not going to be with Todd and I'm sorry that we couldn't make another date happen
05:34for you.
05:35Um, I wish you luck, Elizabeth, and I appreciate you coming on with us and Todd, thanks for your
05:40time as well.
05:41All right.
05:42Bye.
05:43I mean, that would be a lot to hear on a first date and it does sound like she's looking for
05:48kind of one thing.
05:49Oh, right.
05:50There's, there's women out there though, that they, they are just dating for one reason.
05:55They want a baby.
05:57They don't even want anything to do with the guy afterwards.
05:59They just want to have a baby.
06:01Well, I don't know if that was Elizabeth or not, but, uh, she wants to have a baby in a
06:06year.
06:06It's already July.
06:07All right.
06:08It's already July.
06:09Get on it.
06:10Um, all right.
06:11We got to hear what you have to say about this.
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06:28Okay.
06:29Yeah.