Second Date Update - Rebooted
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00:00All right, Vanessa's reached out to us today for the second date updates, commercial-free
00:03new country, 99.5 QYK.
00:05Obviously, she is very disappointed that she has not heard back from her date, Ryan.
00:09Yeah, they went out to some Mexican restaurant in Newport Ritchie, and things are going so
00:14well, he went back to her place, and she said, not like he stayed over or anything, but they
00:19had a really good time, and she wants to see this guy again, and she doesn't really understand
00:22because she thought he was really into her.
00:24All right, so we have him on hold right now.
00:26Let's talk to him directly right now.
00:28Ryan, you there?
00:30I am.
00:30Hello.
00:30Hey, Ryan, you know what this is about, and you just heard us talking about your guys'
00:35date.
00:35What's going on, man?
00:36Why are you not getting back to this girl?
00:38Well, I'm not sure if she looked me up somehow or found out what I did before she asked me
00:44on the date, but I'm an IT.
00:46I do IT work, and it seems like all she really cared about was me fixing her computer, to
00:51be perfectly honest with you.
00:52Like, yes, we went out to dinner, and then we're at dinner, and she invites me back to
00:56her place, and we get there, and instantly, like, within a minute of being there, she's
01:01got the laptop in my lap asking me if I could take a look at it.
01:05Okay.
01:05So, you know, like I said, at that point, I thought the date went pretty well so far,
01:09but, you know, all right, whatever.
01:11You know, this happens kind of often.
01:13So, any of my friends, anybody that I know that has a computer always asks me to look
01:17at it, so it wasn't that big of a deal.
01:18So, I look at it thinking maybe it'll be a quick fix.
01:21It's not.
01:21I spend the next three hours trying to fix this computer that has no storage space, that
01:27has, you know, malware.
01:29It's just, her computer's a wreck.
01:31She should probably throw it out and get a new one.
01:33Three hours?
01:34About three hours I spend working on this stupid computer.
01:37That's not a fun date.
01:38And the whole time, she's just kind of, you know, fluttering about her apartment and talking
01:42on the phone to friends, and then she comes back and sits down with me for a minute and
01:46then goes off and does other things, and I'm basically just there working.
01:50It's not a date at this point.
01:51I'm working.
01:52I can totally understand that.
01:54When I told her, you know, after three hours of working on it, that it needed more work
01:59still, and I'm not going to be able to get it all done tonight, she pretty much just wrapped
02:02up the date.
02:03Like, oh, okay, well, maybe we'll just do this another time then.
02:07All right, you know, have a good night.
02:10So, once you were done working on the computer, the date was over?
02:13Pretty much, yeah.
02:14Okay, gotcha.
02:15So, you're feeling a little bit used in this situation, huh?
02:18A lot of it used.
02:19Okay, gotcha.
02:20All right, and now she's been reaching out to you, right, to hang out, and has it been
02:24about the computer, or?
02:26She hasn't said anything about the computer.
02:28She's doing everything under the guise of another date, but I'm not going on another date,
02:32because I know what's going to end up happening.
02:33She's going to bring her back to her place.
02:35It's going to be another night of playing on the computer, and I don't want to do that.
02:37All right, well, I get it that you felt a little used here, Ryan.
02:42We do have Vanessa on the phone with us as well, so she did reach out to us to hang out
02:47with you again.
02:49So, Vanessa.
02:51Honestly, I'm kind of shocked.
02:53It's like, why would I have contacted you and gone through all this trouble if all I wanted
02:58was just for my computer to be fixed?
03:01Because I haven't fixed it yet?
03:05I actually already got it fixed since the last time you were there.
03:11I didn't look up any people in IT to go on a date with them, and then just have them
03:18come over and fix my computer.
03:20I genuinely liked you, and your profession is just, it's a bonus.
03:26You know, it was convenient in the moment, but it certainly isn't the reason why I wanted
03:31to see you or want to see you again.
03:33I had a good time.
03:35Then why did you spend so much time not even with me when I was working on it?
03:39Because you were working on it.
03:42And for the record, you also didn't try to talk to me during it, so I didn't know that
03:47if that was your method, you needed quiet.
03:50I don't know.
03:51But it certainly wasn't, I certainly didn't ask you, I didn't go out with you just because
03:58you're able to fix a computer or because you work in IT.
04:01I'm sorry that you felt that way, but that certainly wasn't the intention.
04:06I wanted to see you.
04:08All right.
04:08Well, the computer's fixed, so that problem's out of the way.
04:11So you don't have to worry about it anymore.
04:12Yeah.
04:13So what do you think, Ryan?
04:14Would you be willing to see her again since, you know, that's not the issue anymore?
04:18She's not about that.
04:19Yeah.
04:19No, she still has an iPad that's broken, just so you know.
04:23And a phone.
04:26Yeah.
04:26No, I'm not.
04:27I'm not interested.
04:28It wasn't a date.
04:29It was me going to work and a meal that I paid for.
04:32If I'm being honest, I think he's probably right.
04:35I don't think that this will work out now that hearing him on the call, I think that
04:40this isn't the right fit if this is the reaction.
04:43You know, I wish you nothing but the best, but, you know, I'll just use my fixed computer
04:49to go on another app and meet another person.
04:53But I do wish you nothing but the best, truly.
04:56I hope that your future person doesn't ask you for help with anything.
05:02Okay.
05:03You know?
05:03Well, that took a turn.
05:04Yes, it did.
05:05I hope that my future person doesn't invite me out on a date to work on their computer, too.
05:10You asked me out on a date.
05:12I didn't ask you.
05:14So, I'm asking, I was asking you for another year, but now I agree with you and I think
05:19this isn't the right fit and we should just cut our losses and, you know, and move on.
05:24All right.
05:25Let's do that.
05:25It wasn't for me.
05:27So, sorry, guys.
05:28This is not going to work out, but it sounds like you guys agree on this and everybody's
05:31good with that.
05:32So, I wish you both luck.
05:33You guys have a great day, okay?
05:35You, too.
05:37All right.
05:37Bye-bye.
05:38It's actually kind of smart when you think about it if you are looking for something to help
05:41with your computer.
05:42Yeah, when you're looking at their dating profile, what field do they work in?
05:45IT.
05:45I'll date this guy.
05:47I mean.
05:48I don't know.
05:49I mean, the fact that she went and got it fixed after they went out.
05:52Yeah.
05:53That says something.
05:54Kind of shows me that she wasn't all about that.
05:56So, maybe he missed out on something great.
05:58I don't know.
05:58That's your second date update.