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00:00Well, Joseph is confident in his date.
00:02They went to Cheesecake Factory.
00:03Great spot.
00:04And your favorite is?
00:06Avocado egg rolls.
00:07You love it.
00:08Unbelievable.
00:09But listen, they had a two-hour date, which is a good sign.
00:12That sounds great.
00:13They sat at the bar.
00:14So it's like they're hanging out, talking, and now he's kind of confused because they
00:19did talk about going on another date.
00:21Now, nothing.
00:22So we need to get a hold of her so we can find out for him.
00:26And you did get a hold of her, right?
00:28I did.
00:28Okay, we got her on hold.
00:29Let's bring her back on right now.
00:31Lisa, you there?
00:33Yes, I'm here.
00:34Hey, Lisa.
00:35Thank you for agreeing to talk to us on the air.
00:37I do really appreciate that.
00:39And the reason we wanted to talk to you was we heard that you went on a date with this
00:44guy, Joseph.
00:45You guys met online.
00:46You guys went to the Cheesecake Factory.
00:48He said the date was like two hours.
00:50You guys even talked about hanging out again.
00:52I guess since that date, he has reached out via text or phone call or whatever.
00:57Also reached out on Instagram.
00:58Hasn't heard anything from you and just is super confused.
01:02So we're trying to help him out.
01:04And any info you can give us of, you know, what happened or why you're not getting back
01:08to him.
01:09We'd love some.
01:09Yeah, so we did go to the Cheesecake Factory.
01:14The date was great.
01:15Afterwards, I was definitely interested in going on another one and I expressed that to
01:21him.
01:22Yeah, it was great.
01:24But then, like, he embarrassed me.
01:27Ooh.
01:27On the date?
01:29No, like, the date was great.
01:31I was willing to go on another one afterwards.
01:32He embarrassed me on social media, like on my Instagram.
01:35Uh, okay.
01:38Can we hear how?
01:39So, like, I posted some pictures and a friend of mine commented under it and he basically
01:46just said that, like, I looked pretty.
01:48He left a little heart.
01:49You know, friendship, love.
01:51And he, like, took to the comments and was like, she's taken, like, a back-off, you know,
01:58like, standoffish type of vibes under the comments.
02:02And I'm like, not understanding.
02:04That's my friend.
02:05We went on one date.
02:07Just one.
02:07And he's acting like I'm his girlfriend.
02:09It's just a little too much for me.
02:11Okay, so, wait.
02:13One of your friends commented on a picture of you and said you're pretty and left a heart.
02:18And then he responded to that comment?
02:19Yeah, he said she's taken, back off.
02:23Wow.
02:24Wow.
02:25Okay.
02:25Okay.
02:26I don't want to see this.
02:27Is that comment still there?
02:29Um, no.
02:29I took it down because it was embarrassing to me.
02:32Like, it's just, it's all moving too fast.
02:34I'm getting, like, a very possessive vibe after one date.
02:38And I'm just not sure that that's a vibe for me.
02:41Did your friend say anything to you about that?
02:43Um, he texted me and basically asked, like, who this person was, what was happening.
02:47He was very confused about it.
02:49Yeah.
02:49And you've never dated this friend?
02:51Is it really is a friend?
02:52No, it's really a friend.
02:53A genuine friend.
02:54Okay.
02:55Well, that would be a little bit possessive, I think.
02:57I would agree with that.
02:59It's creepy a little bit.
03:01Yeah.
03:01It's unnecessary.
03:03All right.
03:03So, I could see how you'd be embarrassed by that.
03:05Lisa, um, we actually have Joseph on the phone.
03:07I want to bring him back on because I just really want to understand where he was coming
03:10from on this.
03:10And, yeah, it does sound like a little bit too much too soon.
03:14Give me one second here.
03:15Joseph, you there?
03:16Yeah.
03:17I heard that.
03:18I mean, I don't, there's nothing creepy about it.
03:21I mean, it's not possessive.
03:22I was just showing interest.
03:24Like, you know, I don't know who that guy is.
03:26I mean, I, I don't know if you're dating around and the dude left a comment like, hey, beautiful
03:33with a heart, or you look beautiful with a heart.
03:36I mean, we all know what that means.
03:37I mean, that, you know, what does that mean?
03:38That looks pretty, like, pretty romantic, you know?
03:42I mean, I don't know.
03:43No, it was friendly.
03:44Like, he just said I looked good in the pictures.
03:46He knows all my friends.
03:47We're all friends.
03:48It was just a cordial thing.
03:50And it was just, you, you came off too strong.
03:53Like, I, I agreed to go on another date with you.
03:55Everything was fine.
03:56So, you could have asked me separately.
03:59Just commenting was just too far.
04:01Yeah, but he only mentioned your name, Lisa.
04:04And, like, and with the heart and the beautiful.
04:06I mean, I mean, I'm just showing I care and, you know, that I, that I'm interested in you.
04:12You know, it's like, and I, and you're not, like, appreciating him.
04:16See, like, the first red flag was just the possessiveness.
04:20And now the second one is, like, this manipulation that you have going on.
04:24Um, it was a friend.
04:26He's my friend.
04:27That's it.
04:28We could have spoke about it separately.
04:31Yeah, I mean, Joseph, regardless, friend or not, I mean, I feel like this is a little
04:35bit too soon and maybe not your place to say anything at all.
04:38I mean, you've only been on one date with her.
04:41But I don't know this guy.
04:42And I don't know her scenario.
04:43So I just, you know, I just didn't know.
04:45Well, instead of working it out on social media, when you go on that next date that she
04:49said that she would have gone out with you again, like, just talk to her about that.
04:53Talk to her about it then, or don't say anything about it.
04:55I mean, win her over.
04:56But I'm showing that I care.
04:58I don't know who it is.
04:59Okay.
05:00Lisa, do you, in any way, does that show that he cares or does that creep you out?
05:04No, it's scary.
05:06It's scary.
05:07Okay.
05:08Scary.
05:08So I think you trying to show her that you cared really kind of backfired on you, man,
05:13because that did come off a little strong.
05:15And I have to say that I do kind of agree with her on that.
05:19I mean, I don't know.
05:20This probably isn't worth fighting for.
05:22It's like, it's not worth it.
05:23Well, we're going to find out right now.
05:25Lisa, I mean, would you be willing to go on another date?
05:27Or have you said, no, I'm good?
05:30No, I think I'll pass.
05:32Okay.
05:32All right.
05:34Now you know what's going on, Joseph.
05:35And maybe don't come on so strong so soon.
05:39You see how she interpreted it.
05:41Do you, man?
05:42But it's just not going to work out between you and Lisa.
05:45Yeah.
05:46I totally get it now.
05:48Not worth it.
05:49All right.
05:49All right.
05:50Thanks for coming on, Lisa.
05:51Thanks for your time.
05:51You guys have a great day.
05:54All right.
05:54Bye-bye.
05:55I mean, first of all, Lisa sounded very timid.
05:58She did.
05:58So I could see how she would get freaked real quick just by her voice.
06:02I'm just saying.
06:03Yeah.
06:03And, you know, Joseph did seem a little bit more like, hey, what's going on?
06:07That was.
06:08That's bizarre.
06:09That was a little weird.
06:10Like, that's a lot.
06:12I would have.
06:12You haven't even been on a second date with the person.
06:14I would have.
06:15If anything, if I cared at all about that and I've been on one date, I might text her on
06:19the site like, hey, who's this guy?
06:21Is this someone that you're dating to or whatever?
06:23If I was really worried about it.
06:24That's fine.
06:25That's fine.
06:25But what he did is not fine.
06:27Not being public like that.
06:28It's time to ask you, QYK family, deal breaker, a little scary, or was he just doing his due
06:34diligence?
06:35We want to know.
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