Second Date Update - No Hurry
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00:00well let's get right into this second date update right now commercial free new country 99.5 qyk
00:04john reached out to us wants to see ashley again we want to try to set this date up
00:09make this happen for him kevin's got her on the phone right now she's agreed to talk to us
00:14ashley good morning how are you good morning i'm good how are you well we're good we're just a
00:19little confused i know you know that we're talking about a date you went on or several
00:24actually three dates that you've been on with this guy john and he wants to see you again for
00:28a fourth date but that has not happened yet what's going on ashley why are we not trying
00:33to set that up are you did you have fun on the first three dates so three really solid dates
00:41the only thing is it's like i i'm throwing myself out there showing him that i was interested and he
00:47has not made a move i mean not a kiss not even like a peck on the cheek and i don't know what he's
00:56waiting for you know so i'm really surprised that this is even happening because i never thought
01:04after the third date that he was even remotely interested in and anything more than just like a
01:09casual kind of friendship because he's just not moving forward like at all it's shocking to me
01:17so well i'm a little surprised yeah he is moving forward because he wants to take you out on another
01:22date so yeah he does like you and i'm sure he's probably wanting to get to that next level uh i
01:28mean well you know what let's do this let's actually bring him on and see what he has to say uh we've
01:33got john on the phone actually ashley he was the one who reached out to us so john why don't you um
01:39join us back on the phone here um why don't you say hi to ashley hi ashley it's good to hear your
01:45voice again um i'm a little shocked you know i just i take things a little bit slower than than
01:52most people you know i'm a little bit different that way i didn't know it was three days it's i
01:58don't i don't i'm really surprised john because i thought you liked me i thought you could tell that
02:03i liked you and you're not even like trying to hold my hand or you know i thought maybe you know you
02:11started thinking of more just like a companion or someone like you would go you know grab a drink
02:17with or like get something to eat i don't i don't know what else i could have done to throw the signals
02:23out to you that i wanted something you know past just hanging out no i i do too i i want something
02:30past hanging out too it's just you know i trying to be a gentleman i know in today's day and age it's
02:34you know people can get in trouble for being too aggressive or things like that so i just i just
02:38like to take my time and get to know somebody before you know holding hands to me is kind of
02:43really intimate so i i'm not going to do that yet but i just really like take my time yeah i don't
02:49know i i just felt like you showed like no effort into you know being interested in me like romantically
02:55at all i think there's a fine line between not rushing someone and not reading the cues that
03:01someone's into you and like wants to make out you know i thought we were having so much fun and then
03:06i'm like does he think i'm like his sister or something i don't think that but this is actually
03:12good news though because you both obviously want to move forward so you're on the same page when it
03:16comes to that so can we set up another date for you guys to go out i'm sorry but i i don't have time
03:23you know i'm at that point in my life where i've got other not to be like braggy but i've got other guys
03:28that are pursuing me and i'm not that type of girl so you know i was holding off for john thinking like
03:35okay after the third date this is going to go somewhere but i can't hold your hand through like
03:41pursuing me physically so no i'm i'm not going to go on a fourth date oh man i mean i'm ready to move
03:48forward i like usually with me after three days i'm ready to get physical and things like that it
03:53just takes me a little bit longer i want to get to know somebody no i i feel like if i have to put in
03:58so much more effort after that third date to almost convince you to be with me then it's just
04:04and and i can appreciate where you're coming from but it's just not my path all right so really ashley
04:10i mean he's obviously john is into you you guys have had three great dates go out on another date
04:14with him because it sounds like this could be the date i i gotta pass i'm sorry i know they were great
04:20dates and i'm sure you're gonna find somebody that's gonna really appreciate what you're doing but it's
04:25just not me and if you do come across somebody else that's like me john you know maybe communicate
04:30to them that you do have this process but i can't waste any more of my time trying to convince you to
04:37be with me i i stick to my guns on on things i kind of set these rules in my head just like your rules
04:43of like hey let's take it slow i just think that maybe we should have communicated better but i i can't
04:49believe you brought me on the radio to have this conversation but uh no i'm sorry i can't well
04:56all right um john i'm sorry this is not going to work out it just sounds like your process in dating
05:03is not her process in dating so i don't think you did anything wrong it's just not going to be a match
05:09i mean nothing i can do i mean wanting to go out again i thought showed enough interest but i guess
05:13well maybe uh you know maybe ashley can keep your phone number john and if something you know down
05:18the road if she you know feels and compelled to maybe give you a call again you know maybe
05:23at least you got that sure yeah okay they maybe down the road ashley maybe uh give john a call if
05:30maybe things don't work out maybe i mean i wish nothing but the best of luck just communicate with
05:36the next girl let them know what you're doing so that they don't get in their heads like i did
05:42all right guys we're gonna wrap this up uh i appreciate you both coming on with us you guys have a great
05:46day you guys have a good one all right take care guys bye bye bye winded being a gentleman not score
05:54you points i know that's kind of kind of shocking a little bit yeah and by the way the fact that that
06:00was uh the girl saying that i know that was very shocking to me man up and and give me a kiss wow
06:09okay uh all right i want you to weigh in on this i mean i feel bad for john so i'm sure he's going to
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