Second Date Update - Not My Kinda Party
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00:00Ilana, I think you said it best.
00:01A lot of moving parts going on here on the second date updates.
00:04Commercial free new country, 99.5 QYK.
00:07Jack has reached out to us, wants to talk to Samantha and set another date up with her.
00:11But there's a lot that went on.
00:13Well, he took the second date was a kid birthday party.
00:15It was his nephew.
00:17Yeah.
00:17She said she'd she'd go.
00:19And, you know, obviously we're asking a bunch of questions like, you know,
00:22does she get stuck with the kids the whole time?
00:23Does she even like kids?
00:25I mean, what was going on at the party?
00:27And he's like, no, she had a good time.
00:28So who knows?
00:30All right.
00:31So he was pretty confident that things were OK.
00:34But we're going to call Samantha right now and see if we can get her on the phone.
00:52Hello?
00:53Hi, good morning.
00:54Is this Samantha?
00:55Yeah, speaking.
00:56Hey, Samantha, this is actually J.R., Lana and Kevin over here at 99.5 QYK.
01:02How are you doing?
01:04Radio station?
01:06Yeah, that's us.
01:07OK.
01:08How can I help you guys?
01:09Well, if you would have a couple of minutes, do you think we could talk to you on the air for a second?
01:14I know that's a big thing to ask you.
01:17But like there's a couple of minutes.
01:18I'll be honest with you, we got a call from a guy named Jack who went on a date with you and told us about your first your dinner date.
01:26And then also the fact that you went to his nephew's birthday party.
01:30And he had a lot of nice things to say to say about you and said that you handled kind of maybe an awkward situation really, really well.
01:38But he hasn't been able to get a hold of you since.
01:39So we're all just kind of wondering why that is.
01:42I mean, you know, Jackson Wright's guy, his family is cool.
01:46But I just kind of find it a little strange that, you know, the nephew was turning eight, right?
01:53Little kids party.
01:55Why was everyone going so hard in the drinking?
01:58Like, it was just it just felt very weird to me.
02:03And I didn't know really how to process all of that.
02:06Oh, they're the parents were partying.
02:08Yeah.
02:11Let's make sure the eight year olds were sober at the same time.
02:14No, no.
02:15Yeah, no.
02:16Let's let's clarify that.
02:17The eight year old is cute.
02:18Fine.
02:18It was all the parents and all the adults.
02:21It felt more like some kind of like rave.
02:24You know, it's like I just find it was a little inappropriate.
02:28And I didn't think it was fair to the kids.
02:30You know, I'm sure they had bouncy houses.
02:33But then they also had, like, you know, probably for apple shot games and, like, you know, bear palm things and all.
02:39I mean, they went in so hard.
02:42So did you partake?
02:44No, I did not.
02:45I, you know, I was cool.
02:47I smiled.
02:47You know, I hung out.
02:49And at first I kind of started, like, counting how many shots Jack was taking.
02:53But after a while I just stopped counting.
02:55There's so many.
02:56So let me just set the scene.
02:57So in your mind, you get there and you just see these parents just going really hard as far as the drinking goes.
03:04And it's kind of not about the kids anymore.
03:06It's more about the parents having a good time.
03:08That's right.
03:09I think a lot of times, though, parents, you know, they do, like, play dates and they do those kinds of things so that all the kids can play together.
03:15So they do kind of get a break from attending to their kids, especially if they have a very needy age.
03:21Nothing more dangerous than a mom with a Yeti tumbler.
03:23I'll tell you right now.
03:24She shows up loaded and ready to go.
03:27Okay.
03:28Well, we do have Jack on the phone with us, Samantha.
03:32Want to bring him back on real quick?
03:33Hey, Jack.
03:35Yeah.
03:35Does that sound like the party that you had for your nephew?
03:39I'm not saying it's out of the ballpark of what happened, but I want to say, like, I don't really see the problem.
03:45We're all neighbors.
03:46Nobody was driving.
03:48We were hanging out.
03:49So there's so many times you can watch a kid in a bounce house.
03:53You know what I mean?
03:54Like, I'm there with my friends.
03:55I'm having a good time.
03:56I don't get it.
03:58But it felt more like a New Year's Eve party rather than an eight-year-old kid party.
04:04I just feel it was inappropriate.
04:05And I'm glad that you guys are neighbors so there's no drunk driving involved.
04:09But, I mean, my gosh, does that mean that now I could drink, like, 50 times more than I normally would?
04:1550 is, I think that's an exaggeration.
04:18But I don't know.
04:19I just, we get together all the time.
04:21There's never been an issue where someone was being unsafe.
04:24We make sure everyone's safe, like all the responsible adults.
04:28I mean, I can see a couple of beers, but shots, yeah, that's at a birthday party.
04:32Shots?
04:32I just, I felt very uncomfortable.
04:36And I felt really bad for your eight-year-old nephew.
04:38I'm sorry.
04:39I don't know what to tell you.
04:41Everyone was safe.
04:42We're all responsible adults.
04:43It's not illegal.
04:44I'm not doing anything.
04:46No one's ever said anything before.
04:47So I'm not sure what the problem is.
04:49Well, let me ask you this, Samantha.
04:51I mean, what if Jack were not to, you know, drink as much, like, on another date and tone it back?
04:56Because, obviously, you went on a first date.
04:58He didn't do that.
04:58But would you be willing to go on another date with him where it didn't involve a party?
05:04Honestly, absolutely.
05:05I definitely would not.
05:07Because I just don't, I would not want, like, let's say we had, you know, got married, had kids.
05:11I don't want that for my kids.
05:13Like, I don't want any of that.
05:15I don't want, you know, my children to be around any of that.
05:17But so if that's who he is and what he's about, I'm going to pass him in the next day.
05:21He's just not good.
05:22I'm not with it.
05:23All right.
05:23Look, I can respect that.
05:25Obviously, we're not on the same wavelength.
05:27So, you know, if that's not her scene or vibe, then I guess maybe it's better that we pull off a Band-Aid now.
05:34All right.
05:34Gotcha.
05:35Well, guys, thanks for both coming on today.
05:37You guys have a great day, okay?
05:39All right.
05:40I mean, that sounds like it could have got a little out of hand.
05:43I mean, for an eight-year-old's birthday party.
05:45I think doing shots is probably a little bit much.
05:48But, I mean, at kid birthday parties, you serve alcohol.
05:52You serve beer, usually.
05:53I mean, it's...
05:54Yeah, absolutely you do.
05:55Yeah.
05:56So, I mean, it's not uncommon.
05:58Maybe they just...
05:59Went a little hard?
06:00Maybe went a little too hard for her, maybe.
06:02I don't know.
06:03I don't know.
06:03All right.
06:03Let's hear what you think.
06:05It's been a deal-breaker for you.
06:06Are you with Samantha?
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