Second Date Update - Feeling Bossy
Category
😹
FunTranscript
00:00Right now, it is the second date update.
00:02We are trying to match Kyle back up on another date with his, a girl, I should say, that
00:06he's very confident about.
00:08Yeah.
00:08Her name is Maya, and they went out to eat.
00:11They actually met in line at Starbucks, the old-fashioned way, I guess you could say.
00:15Yeah, but he said he absolutely cannot think of anything that happened before, during,
00:20or after the date that would make her not want to call.
00:22So we need to find out what's going on.
00:24All right.
00:24So, Kevin, you have her on hold?
00:26Yes, I do.
00:26All right.
00:27Let's bring her on right now.
00:28Maya, are you there?
00:30Yeah, hi.
00:31Hey, Maya.
00:32Thanks for agreeing to talk to us this morning.
00:34We're going to try to make this quick, because I know you said you had to get to work.
00:37Maya, we just want to ask you about a date you went on, and we heard about this guy, Kyle,
00:41that you met at Starbucks and then went out to eat with, and he is very, very into you
00:48and really could see himself, I think he even said, see himself dating you and want to see
00:54you again.
00:55But he has had no luck in getting a hold of you since your guys' date, and we were just
01:00trying to figure out what's going on.
01:02You know, Kyle, he's really nice.
01:06He's very sweet.
01:07He's a perfect gentleman.
01:09I just think that somebody in his situation doesn't have time for a girlfriend, and I don't
01:15think I have time for somebody in his situation.
01:19Okay.
01:19Now I've got to ask, what is his situation?
01:22He's an assistant to his boss.
01:25Okay.
01:28She calls, like, in the middle of our date.
01:30He's like, oh, wait, hold on, like, let me just take this with my boss.
01:33He gets up from the table, takes a call, whatever.
01:36But then he's consistently, or constantly, texting him, and, like, multiple texts throughout
01:44our dinner, and he's like, hold on for a second, and he has to, like, you know, answer
01:49her, like, right away.
01:51And, like, I just don't think I could go out with a guy who's, like, being bossed around
01:56by this lady.
01:57I mean, it was, like, 8 or 9 o'clock at night.
01:59Like, what does he need to answer her for?
02:01Well, a lot of businesses are 24-7 sometimes, and we know things don't close just because
02:06it's 5 o'clock on a Friday.
02:07But I get it.
02:08He's on a date.
02:09He should have put his phone away.
02:11Yeah, exactly.
02:11And she should know better, I feel like.
02:14I mean, like, could he not have told his boss, like, hey, I'm on a date, so I won't be available
02:19from this time to this time or something.
02:21I don't know if I could tell my boss that.
02:23That is tough, because he is in a weird situation when it comes to, hey, I can't talk to you right
02:29now when it's his boss.
02:30I mean, I kind of get where he's coming from and where he kind of felt stuck, probably.
02:35And so this is the only reason you're not getting back to him?
02:37There was nothing wrong on the date other than this?
02:39No, I mean, like, he's a nice call, but, like, he's, like, at her beck and call.
02:43Okay.
02:44Or is that a problem because he has a female boss?
02:47No, it's just, like, he's being bossed around.
02:50What's his boss?
02:51I mean, I guess I'd feel the same if it was a man, but, like, yeah.
02:55I feel like he's being taken advantage of.
02:57All right.
02:58Well, listen, here's the deal, Maya.
02:59We have Kyle on the phone with us, and I can see how you would be annoyed that you're getting
03:06interrupted during your date.
03:07But you said it yourself.
03:09Kyle's a really nice guy.
03:10Let's bring him on real quick.
03:11Do you mind if we talk to him, too?
03:13No.
03:14Okay.
03:15Kyle, are you there?
03:16Maya, what's going on?
03:18How are you?
03:20I'm fine.
03:20How are you?
03:21I'm doing great.
03:22Hey, I heard what you were saying.
03:26I get it, but I'm a personal assistant to a person that's very busy, and I have to take
03:33their calls, texts, whatever it is, when it comes.
03:39I don't even know what to say.
03:41All I can do is apologize.
03:42It is what it is.
03:43I am so sorry.
03:46I would really love to see you again.
03:48Kyle, is this something that happens a lot?
03:50Do you get hit up later at night for things that she needs?
03:54No.
03:55It's kind of seasonal.
03:57You know, sometimes in the year, certain times of the month.
04:00It might be a certain weekday.
04:02I might be more apt to get those calls or texts.
04:05It's not all the time, but it just happened to be that particular time.
04:09But it's just one of those things where if she calls, you've got to pick it up.
04:13I have to take that call, yes.
04:15Okay.
04:16She's not a doctor or anything.
04:18She's, like, in sales.
04:18So, I'm like, you're at your phone.
04:21I feel like she's totally taking advantage of you.
04:24You know, it's a right now type of thing.
04:27I'm looking at a future position, either with this company or with another one.
04:32Within the next six months to a year, it's not something that's going to be forever that I'm doing.
04:37Sounds like there's a plan, and he recognizes it.
04:39And he's a hard worker, obviously.
04:41That's a huge thing right there, girl.
04:43So, I mean, Maya, would you be willing to give him another shot as far as, like, another date?
04:48I mean, hopefully you don't get interrupted a bunch.
04:50Maybe he can say something and set that up.
04:52I mean, I'm willing to go on another date.
04:56But if you pick up the phone once, like, I think it's, I'm not going to give you a third chance.
05:03Okay.
05:04If he strikes, you're out.
05:05I mean, Kyle, you heard what you had to say.
05:06Are you down for that?
05:07Uh, yes.
05:10Just don't answer the phone.
05:12Okay.
05:12I will make that happen.
05:13All right.
05:14Very cool, guys.
05:15Yeah, look at that.
05:16Make it some job happen.
05:18All right.
05:18Well, guys, listen.
05:19I'm going to put you both on hold.
05:20We're going to get all your info.
05:21We're going to set you up on another date, and we're going to pay for it as well.
05:24And we're wishing you luck, but keep us in the loop on how things go, okay?
05:28Great.
05:28Thank you, guys.
05:29Thanks, Maya.
05:29All right.
05:30Thanks, you guys.
05:31You got it.
05:31Hang on.
05:32Thanks.
05:33He's going to get another call.
05:35That's the problem.
05:36I think he is.
05:37And I think he's going to answer.
05:38He said he has to.
05:40I mean, if that's your job, to be a personal assistant, I mean, there's got to be some boundaries
05:43at some point, but you can't just say, hey, I'm not taking your phone calls right now.
05:47I mean, then you're going to be out of a job.
05:49I mean, maybe he could have a talk with his boss ahead of time that says, hey, listen,
05:53I've got an important meeting that I need to be at.
05:56You won't be able to, I won't be able to take your call for the next couple hours or something
05:59like that.
06:00All right.
06:00Well, we want to see what you think right here.
06:01800-992-1099, 800-992-1099.
06:07This is a good idea for them to be going back out.
06:09We want to know.