Second Date Update - No Photos Please
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00:00Well, they went for sushi in Newport, Ritchie, talking about Kyle and Rebecca, who are on our 715 second date update this morning.
00:06Kyle is going insane because he's been playing this date over in his head over and over.
00:11He's like, I'm not somebody who would ever call you, but here I am.
00:15Yeah.
00:16Well, she's a teacher.
00:17And I said, is she out of town because it was spring break last week?
00:20And he's like, no, I'm completely getting ghosted.
00:23Yeah.
00:23So he definitely has reached out, heard nothing.
00:25But we've heard something because Kevin has her on hold.
00:30I do.
00:30Thank you, Kevin.
00:31Appreciate that.
00:32Let's bring her back on right now.
00:34Rebecca.
00:35Hi.
00:35Hey, thank you for taking the time to talk to us.
00:38I know you only have a couple minutes, so we're just going to take a couple minutes of your time.
00:42We want to talk to you about Kyle.
00:44We know you guys went on a date, got some sushi, and he thought you guys really hit it off.
00:50He kept talking about how you guys were laughing a bunch, enjoying each other's company.
00:54He really respects the fact that you're a teacher and thinks you've got a great career and now really wants to see you again but doesn't know where you've been and why you haven't been responding to him.
01:05So is there maybe a reason for that?
01:08Well, I appreciate the nice things he said, and I appreciate that he respects my career.
01:14I don't really respect his career that much, so that's why it's not really going to work out with us.
01:20What does he do?
01:21Yeah, I was going to say we didn't ask him what he does.
01:22Well, he's a photographer, but it's not like a wedding photographer or kids' school pictures.
01:35It's not anything family or that nature.
01:39Okay.
01:40What is it?
01:41He takes pictures of women and, you know, women that just don't really leave much to the imagination, if you know what I mean.
01:53Gotcha.
01:53He does?
01:54He doesn't sound like a guy that would do something like that.
01:56What does a guy like that sound like?
01:58I don't know.
01:58He just sounded so sweet and nice.
02:01I don't know.
02:01Well, he can't be sweet and nice.
02:03I mean, so he specializes in maybe, like, online photos is what you're talking about?
02:08Yes.
02:09It's like Instagram models.
02:11I gotcha.
02:12I'm talking, like, adult content.
02:15Got it.
02:16And how'd you find this?
02:18Have you, like, looked up his photos, or what happened here?
02:21Well, yeah.
02:21Well, he was showing me.
02:23Oh.
02:23Oh.
02:24That's smart.
02:24Yeah.
02:25He claims it's classy and stuff, but I know what it is, and it's not normal.
02:31And I just, I don't want a photo like that on my phone.
02:35I don't want the man that I'm with having pictures like that on his phone.
02:39It's just not for me, and it's not good for my career.
02:43I mean, I'm a teacher.
02:45Right.
02:46Oh.
02:47I can't live like this.
02:48So he's got a lot of these photos on his phone.
02:50Wouldn't he take a professional camera?
02:52Well, no, no.
02:53No, I think he takes the photos with his camera, but he has them on his phone to show, like,
02:59some of his work.
03:00You see what I'm saying?
03:01That's a little shady.
03:03Come on to my studio.
03:05Snap, snap, snap.
03:06Because you don't take your camera everywhere you go.
03:08You know.
03:09All right.
03:11Well, Rebecca, we didn't know that about Kyle, but this obviously seemed to bother you quite
03:15a bit.
03:16Yeah.
03:17And we have him on the phone with us.
03:19I want to bring him back on.
03:20Kyle, are you there?
03:22Yeah.
03:22Uh-huh.
03:22I'm here.
03:23So is this kind of what your profession is?
03:25Is this what you do?
03:26Absolutely.
03:27I'm a professional photographer, and this is my area of expertise.
03:31I have no shame about that.
03:33I make a really good living, and I'm very proud of the work I do, which is why I shared
03:39it.
03:39You know, there's nothing I'm going to keep a secret about or be ashamed of.
03:43You know, look, this is an area where these are women who are very strong.
03:50They're self-employed.
03:51They're small business owners.
03:52And I've created a reputation where I create a safe space.
03:57They trust me.
03:57And it's been really good for me.
03:59So I'm not ashamed of that.
04:02And I do believe that my photographs are artistic.
04:05I believe they're classy.
04:06I have data that shows that it really helps these models with their careers.
04:14Do they have an online business?
04:17Is that what we're talking about?
04:19Yeah, absolutely.
04:21These are Instagram models.
04:24Those are my principal customers.
04:26My concern is, like, what if we were to have kids?
04:29I don't want our kids going around telling their friends in school, their elementary school,
04:36saying, this is what my dad does.
04:38I mean, I just, I'm very big on modesty.
04:41Show and tell.
04:41Be interesting.
04:42I mean, I just, I just don't think it's right what you do.
04:45And, you know, I just don't want this kind of temptation on my boyfriend's phone or even my husband's phone.
04:52And this is just not going to work for me.
04:56I have been doing this for a number of years.
04:59Like I said, I have an established career and reputation.
05:03And the reason I have that is because I am very trusted.
05:06I create an incredibly safe space, which means I don't act in any way that isn't in the utmost professional manner.
05:15You could reach out to any of my customers to hear what they would have to say.
05:21I'm not going to reach out to your customers.
05:24Yeah, that would be great.
05:25So thank you for that offer.
05:26And I need to get back to my kids in my class.
05:30So thank you guys for calling.
05:33Oh, okay.
05:33This is just not going to work.
05:34All right, Rebecca.
05:35I appreciate your time.
05:36I know you got to get back to work.
05:37Thank you so much.
05:39Yeah, you're welcome.
05:39All right.
05:40Have a good day.
05:41Well, Kyle.
05:42Do you have a hard time dating women when they find out what you do?
05:45Yeah, I don't know if showing all your photos on the first date would have been the greatest approach.
05:49But I'm proud of what I do.
05:52I don't want to.
05:53I don't.
05:53It's not a secret.
05:54I'm not ashamed of it.
05:56That's tough.
05:57Well, it is tough.
05:58I don't know if I could date a guy with pictures like that all over his phone either.
06:02I know you're not the only guy in this business.
06:03And I know you're not the only photographer that does this.
06:05I think you're just going to have to find someone who's cool with it.
06:08It was definitely not Rebecca.
06:10I'm sorry about that.
06:11But now you know.
06:14Now I know.
06:14And you know what?
06:15I don't have the itch.
06:17So that's it.
06:18Okay.
06:19All right.
06:19Well, I appreciate you coming on.
06:21And you have a great day, Kyle.
06:23Okay.
06:23Thanks.
06:24Bye.
06:24Sorry it didn't work out.
06:25Lon, would you have been cool with that if Paul was a photographer like that?
06:28Nope.
06:29It is what it is.
06:30How can you?
06:32You're surrounding yourself with...
06:34You're putting yourself in temptation.
06:36Temptation every single day.
06:37I get it.
06:38And, I mean, one of these times it's going to...
06:40Yeah, no.
06:40Uh-uh.
06:41One of these times?
06:42Are you starting to play it out in your head?
06:44It's going to happen.
06:46I don't know if everybody would back up Rebecca on this, though.
06:50So I want to know.
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06:53800-992-1099.
06:55Hit us up.
06:55I want to know what you think.