Second Date Update - Baby Talk
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00:00It's your second date update right now.
00:01We have Amanda who has reached out to us and we're trying to help her out because she has not heard back from Drew since their date.
00:07Now, she says they actually talked about going out on another date, which you would seem like, all right, well, it's going to happen.
00:13Right. Yeah.
00:14If you talk about it.
00:14And she said she even reached out to him, texted him, but she has heard nothing.
00:19And we asked her, did you go out with somebody else?
00:21Did he possibly see you post anything on social media?
00:24And she was like, nope, not at all.
00:26All right.
00:26So we have gotten a hold of him.
00:28We have him on hold.
00:29Let's bring him on right now.
00:30Hey, Drew, you there?
00:31Yeah.
00:32Hey, Drew, we really appreciate you agreeing to talk to us.
00:34You just heard me kind of recap everything we know about you and Amanda.
00:39But we want to know why this second date hasn't happened with you guys.
00:42Is there something going on?
00:44Oh, yeah.
00:46It's pretty, pretty complicated.
00:49Well, can you kind of try to break it down for us?
00:52So she's going on this big trip to Italy and going to have a great time.
00:58And she's doing that because she's decided to be the surrogate for her sister for the pregnancy.
01:06And that's awesome.
01:08I'm like, I think that's like the most selfless, amazing, wonderful thing.
01:12But, you know, I started thinking about it over the weekend and I talked to my friends about it.
01:18And that's just, it's just too much for me.
01:20You know, I can't wrap my head around it.
01:22It's, you know, there's going to be the hormone situation.
01:27And, you know, and then if we go out and like hang out with my friends, they'll be like, wow, like, how did you, you're having a baby already?
01:34And then I'm going to explain all this stuff about, well, it's not mine, it's her sister's.
01:40That's kind of weird.
01:41I can see that.
01:42Yeah.
01:42There's so much about it that I, and I feel like I am definitely the jerk in this situation, but I can't, I can't get around it, you know?
01:51Yeah.
01:51You know what?
01:52For once, I can see why you didn't get back to her right away.
01:54Because that would be a hard thing to say to somebody because they are doing something that's very selfless.
01:58It's so hard.
01:59Yeah.
01:59And I'm not saying that anything about it is terrible or wrong.
02:03I'm just saying I can't handle it.
02:05Like, I don't know.
02:06I wish that, like, we had met afterwards or something, you know?
02:10I guess it's crazy, but, you know, it just all, it was like an avalanche hit me.
02:16Like, over the weekend, I was like, wow.
02:18And trying to wrap my head around it, you know?
02:20Okay.
02:21Hmm.
02:22That's a lot.
02:22That's a lot to put on something on a first date.
02:25100%.
02:25All right.
02:26Well, listen, Drew, we do have Amanda on the phone with us as well, because that's how we got your number.
02:31Okay.
02:33Amanda?
02:34Hi.
02:35First of all, I think it's an amazing thing that you're doing for your sister.
02:38I think that's great.
02:40I just, I feel like, I mean, nervous to go on those dating sites anyway, but, like, you know, when I texted you, we had such a good conversation.
02:48Like, I wish you would have just reached out and said, like, you know, it's not the right time.
02:52I mean, this is something that I'm doing, and I shared with you, it's such a selfless thing, and I thought you were kind of on board with it.
02:59We had such a great conversation about it.
03:01So it's kind of a bummer that you would have just, like, let me go and not even reached back out.
03:06Yeah, absolutely, and you're right about that.
03:08I should have reached out, but this, I've never been in a situation like this before, and when you first said it, because it's such an awesome thing that you're doing, I was super excited.
03:16I was like, yeah, I can do that.
03:17I can handle that.
03:18That sounds great, because you're an awesome person for doing it, and I'm probably missing out and losing on this situation because I can't handle it.
03:28This is just not, it's not in my wheelhouse, you know?
03:31I was thinking, like, we'll be going out, and, you know, then you can't drink for a while, so there wouldn't be, like, that beginning, you know, going out and doing all this stuff, and, you know, it's just, and then there's all the hospitals.
03:42Yeah, but we could still have fun.
03:43The doctors.
03:44We could still have fun.
03:44I mean, yeah, but it's such an exciting, like, weird journey, and, like, we could even, you know, pretend it's our baby, like, you know, even though we're just dating.
03:56It's not, like, it's weird, but it's good.
04:00It's different.
04:01I, you know, I, it's definitely a journey, but it's just not one that I'm ready to go on at this point, you know?
04:08You're such a nice guy.
04:09I don't want to miss out on you either.
04:11No, no, don't do that.
04:12Well, I mean, I don't know, because I really like you, too, so I'm not saying that maybe one day down the line we couldn't hang out again.
04:21You know what I'm saying?
04:21I just say this is too much for me right now.
04:24Yeah, exactly.
04:25Like, I think.
04:26Okay.
04:28Amanda, this is an amazing thing you're doing.
04:29I want to say that again and make that very clear, but you have to understand that he is signing up to be a part of this as well, and you've got to have someone who's on board with this as well.
04:38You know what I'm saying?
04:38So if he's not on board, then.
04:40And it's a bummer, because he just sounds like such a great guy, and we had such a good time.
04:45I mean, you know, I have to do this.
04:47I live for my sister, and, you know, it's such a rough time for her.
04:50So going on this journey with her is amazing.
04:53And, I mean, you know, nine months can go by in a blip.
04:58Maybe he'll still be around.
04:59Maybe.
05:00But it's a bummer.
05:00Maybe.
05:01Yeah.
05:02But, Drew, as far as the second day goes right now, you're not interested.
05:05Right now, I'm not.
05:07I can't.
05:08I'm so sorry.
05:09All right.
05:10Well, Amanda, now you know what's going on.
05:12And we appreciate you coming on with us.
05:15And, Drew, thank you for your time as well.
05:17You guys have a great day.
05:19Don't lose my number.
05:20All right.
05:21All right, guys.
05:22Bye.
05:23That's tough.
05:25He didn't sound like a jerk, though.
05:26He actually sounded really mature.
05:28That's my point.
05:29It's like, he's not doing anything wrong.
05:31You really have to be like, oh, yeah, I get it.
05:33And you just met somebody.
05:35And they said, hey, by the way, I'm going to be pregnant in the next amount of months.
05:38That's tough.
05:39But, yeah, think about it.
05:39He's, you know, he's doing stuff with her and taking her out and going places with her.
05:44And people are automatically, you think it's his baby.
05:45And he has to explain it every time.
05:47It's not my baby.
05:48It's her sister.
05:49And let's make it very clear that what Amanda's doing is really cool for her sister.
05:54Agreed.
05:54Yeah.
05:54But as the guy, like to, yeah, I mean, he's going to have to be there with all the hormone
05:59changes and all that, too.
06:02I mean, that's.
06:03It's just, it is a lot.
06:04So let's hear what you think about this.
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