Second Date Update - A Childish Date
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00:00Trying to help out Eric here on the 715 Second Date Update.
00:03Interesting first date.
00:04Heather brought her son on the date, who is six years old.
00:08Yeah, but you know what?
00:10Eric was way cool with this.
00:12He said he was fun.
00:13It wasn't a surprise.
00:14It wasn't a surprise, but he really liked her son.
00:17He said he was really cool.
00:18He even took him to a steak restaurant, and it seems like he would...
00:21A steak restaurant, Lana?
00:23A steak restaurant.
00:24How about Outback Steakhouse?
00:25Come on now.
00:26D. restaurant.
00:27But no, I mean, he behaved.
00:30He said he was a really cool kid.
00:32He enjoyed hanging out with them, and he thought it went great.
00:35And for a guy to be okay with that, I think it's a big deal.
00:39It's a huge deal.
00:39He hasn't heard from Heather, though, since their date.
00:42We're going to try to call Heather right now.
00:57Hello?
01:04Hi, this is Heather.
01:06Yes, Heather.
01:07Hey, Heather.
01:08This is J.R., Lana, and Kevin over here at 995QIK.
01:11How are you doing?
01:13I'm good.
01:13How are you?
01:14I'm great.
01:15I know this is a random call this morning.
01:18Yeah.
01:19Do you think we could talk to you for a second on the air?
01:21It's actually about a guy that's really into you and wants to take you out.
01:25Oh, gosh.
01:28Just a couple minutes.
01:30Yeah, sure.
01:31I have a couple minutes.
01:31All right.
01:32Very cool.
01:32So I'll just lay it out for you.
01:34We heard from Eric.
01:35We know that you went to Outback Steakhouse with him, and you actually brought your son
01:40along because I guess your sitter canceled on you last minute.
01:43And he said he had a great time with you and that he really enjoyed getting to know
01:47your son a little bit, getting to know you a little bit, and was really looking forward
01:51to seeing you again and hanging out again and maybe doing something just you two or
01:55whatever.
01:56But he hasn't heard anything from you, and he's really trying to figure out what's going
02:00on.
02:00So we were hoping you could help us out and let us know your side of things.
02:07Yeah.
02:07I mean, it was a nice date, I suppose.
02:10But my son just wasn't a fan of Eric.
02:14Your son wasn't a fan of Eric?
02:16Yeah.
02:16He didn't get a good vibe from him.
02:18He didn't really like him.
02:19He's not really a pushy kid, but on the way home, he said, you know, I don't like
02:22this guy for you.
02:23Like, I don't like him.
02:25And he just didn't ask him why.
02:25Wait, he's six, right?
02:27Six.
02:27Yeah, he's six.
02:28Yep.
02:29And he said that?
02:31Yeah.
02:31He just didn't get a good vibe from him.
02:33And it's like, he said, I don't know about that guy.
02:36And, you know, to me, it's just important for my son to be comfortable with who I'm dating.
02:44Of course.
02:44So I just have to go with my son on this one.
02:46But as far as what you witnessed, did you feel like they got along?
02:51I mean, because he said they were talking and joking around and stuff.
02:55I mean, my child is pretty polite.
02:58So he'll talk to someone that I said I was introducing him to a friend, you know, that
03:02was going on a quick date.
03:04But I didn't think my son was like over the moon.
03:07He wasn't uncomfortable the whole time, but he wasn't, you know, his chipper self.
03:11He was drawing a lot.
03:12But he's six.
03:14What does he know about dating and relationships?
03:18I mean, he knows people.
03:19He's a good judge of character.
03:21And he's never said that to me before about anyone before.
03:24So maybe Eric had, like, you know, made an impression on him.
03:30I really didn't want to get into it because I didn't want to, you know, harp too much on it.
03:33It was just one date.
03:35Well, here's the deal, Heather.
03:36We actually have Eric on the phone with us.
03:37That's how we got your number.
03:39And I want to bring him back on.
03:41Eric.
03:42Yeah.
03:43Hi.
03:44I'm confused.
03:45So we're taking dating advice from a six-year-old now?
03:49I mean, you can call it dating advice, but he just didn't feel comfortable with you.
03:54And I have to make sure my son is comfortable with who I am spending my time with.
03:59I mean, he was literally coloring most of the time.
04:02So I don't understand, like, what did I do?
04:07I mean, to be honest, I really didn't ask him what it was about you that bothered him.
04:12He just didn't get a good vibe from you.
04:14He didn't think that you were a nice guy and a nice guy for me specifically.
04:18He didn't say that you were a bad person.
04:19He just didn't think that you were right for me.
04:22I was nothing but a nice guy.
04:24Like, I bought both your meals.
04:25Was a total gentleman.
04:26Like, I honestly, I had no idea what I did wrong.
04:31This was, like, I was super cool with him coming in the first place.
04:36Eric sounds like an awesome guy.
04:37Yeah.
04:37Heather, there was no follow-up question from you to your son.
04:40Like, hey, what was it about Eric that you didn't like?
04:42Yeah.
04:42Because, I mean, if your son wasn't there, did you have a good time, Heather?
04:46I mean, I had a good time.
04:47But, like, you know, I didn't ask my child what made him just not trust or, you know, dislike Eric.
04:57And, Eric, you're right.
04:58You didn't do anything wrong.
04:59I mean, I think, thank you for taking us out.
05:01It was a nice dinner.
05:03But, I don't know.
05:04I just have to really trust my son's instinct if he felt like you weren't a good guy.
05:08Do you take your son on all your dates?
05:11No.
05:12No.
05:12Kind of sounds like maybe you do.
05:15No, she said that he's never said anything like this before.
05:18Like, six-year-old saying he's not good for her?
05:22So, was he comparing this to other men?
05:24I don't know.
05:25What's going on here?
05:25We shouldn't probably get mad at a six-year-old right now.
05:27We're talking to Heather.
05:28Okay.
05:29So, anyway.
05:30Good God.
05:33Heather, is this going to be a deal-breaker for you, though?
05:37I mean, unfortunately, yes.
05:38I just, I don't know.
05:39I really have to trust my child's instinct.
05:44Without any fault.
05:45I have to respect his wishes, too.
05:47Like, if he doesn't want me to date you, then I'm going to listen to that.
05:53Okay.
05:53Well, first off, I can't believe I'm getting turned down by a six-year-old.
05:56But, more than that, yeah.
06:00I'm sure this won't be the last guy your son doesn't like.
06:03I'm sure, you know, no one's going to be good enough.
06:06So, good luck with that.
06:08All right.
06:08Well, I'm sorry it didn't work out.
06:09Eric, Heather, thanks for coming on with us today.
06:11You guys have a great day.
06:14All right.
06:14Take care.
06:15Bye-bye.
06:16I think Eric just dodged a bullet with that one.
06:18But what is Heather supposed to say?
06:20I mean, if her son says that to her, what is she supposed to do?
06:24I feel like she's in a tough spot, too.
06:25Well, you can tell by dating somebody if they're a good person, and then you can introduce them
06:31to your children.
06:33You've got to get to know somebody first and figure out the kind of person they are.
06:36You don't go straight from a six-year-old.
06:38All right.
06:38This will be interesting to see what you have to say.
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