Second Date Update - Thank You Come Again
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00:00All right, we're trying to help out Shelly this morning on the second date update.
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00:06She went on a date with a guy named Tom.
00:08She wants to see Tom again, but has not heard from him since the date.
00:13So we have Tom on hold right now.
00:15We are going to bring him on right now with us and see if we can get some answers out of him.
00:19Tom, you there?
00:20Yeah, I'm here.
00:21All right, man, thank you for hanging on.
00:23I know we had you on hold for a little bit there, and I appreciate you hanging on.
00:26You just kind of heard us talking about this girl, Shelly, that you went on a date with.
00:29We know you guys went to Pop Stroke.
00:31You actually were kind enough to invite her daughter because she was having trouble finding somebody to watch her during your date.
00:39So that was kind of cool.
00:40Yeah, really cool.
00:41And they had a great time with you.
00:44They would love to see you again.
00:45I think she kind of wants to do more of a one-on-one date this next time around.
00:49But they haven't heard from you at all, and we're trying to figure out what went wrong here and what happened.
00:54Well, I mean, I'm glad they had a great time.
00:57I'm sure they had a great time.
01:00Everything was on my dime.
01:02It's not necessarily about the money thing, but they were just the rudest people that I have ever met.
01:08Wait, Shelly and her daughter?
01:11Yeah.
01:11I mean, I've just got this thing with people that don't say thank you and just have horrible manners.
01:17And so, like, her daughter wasn't saying thank you.
01:20And, I mean, I know it's where she got it from because her mom's the same way.
01:24We went and got food, and then after we got food, they just walked away.
01:28They didn't offer to pay.
01:29Like, I didn't even get a thank you.
01:31Like, they didn't even say thank you and walked away.
01:33Like, they just grabbed the food and walked away.
01:35I mean, I get the guy paying for stuff, and, I mean, it's not really about that.
01:40But, like, generally you get, like, a thanks, like, after doing it.
01:44And then her daughter doesn't even call her mom, calls her by her first name.
01:48And it's just, it was not a good situation.
01:50I just, I didn't get a thank you.
01:52I didn't get offered anything.
01:53I just, like, I was treated like I was just, you know, a commodity.
01:58Okay.
01:59But it was your idea, right, to have her and her daughter go with you, right?
02:03Yeah, no, her daughter being there wasn't the problem.
02:05It was the manners that were the problem.
02:07Gotcha.
02:08Well, we actually have, this is going to be interesting.
02:11And you said that her daughter calls her by her first name, calls her Shelly?
02:16Yeah.
02:17Okay, and that struck you weird, obviously?
02:19Yeah.
02:20That is a little weird.
02:21Well, I don't want to pass judgment.
02:22I mean, maybe there's something going on there, or maybe they were joking around or something like that.
02:25So, listen, Tom, we actually have Shelly on hold with us, and I want to bring her back on,
02:31because she got to hear what you had to say, and why you were not getting back to her.
02:36Shelly?
02:37You cannot tell me how to parent, Tom.
02:39That is unbelievable.
02:41Well, I mean, I'm not trying to criticize anybody's, like, parenting or anybody's kid.
02:45Like, I mean, I'm just calling it like I see it.
02:47Your kid was rude and unappreciative, and you were the same way.
02:50So, I mean, sorry.
02:52I'm not trying to tell you how to parent.
02:54But, you know, like, parent better.
02:57You're criticizing me for something that is none of your business.
03:00You are not a father.
03:01You do not know what it is like to raise a child.
03:04You're right.
03:05I know what it's like to be a human being and have manners, and that was kind of absent at our date.
03:10And so, I didn't want to go on another one.
03:13Was there anything else that happened besides the fact they just didn't say thank you?
03:16I mean, they were just rude the entire time.
03:20I'm sorry if you felt that way.
03:22Okay.
03:22I do.
03:23I call it like I see it.
03:25You just kind of maybe felt like you weren't appreciated, huh?
03:28Appreciated.
03:29Yeah, I wasn't appreciated.
03:31Okay.
03:32Well, look, she just said, I'm sorry you feel that way.
03:35You, she did have a lot of nice things to say about you and said that you were a complete, you know, gentleman and that you were a great guy and all that.
03:44I mean, would you be willing to see her again?
03:46Maybe she just forgot to say thank you.
03:49No, I'm okay.
03:51I'm sorry, guys.
03:53No, I'm sorry for wasting all the time, but there's no way I'm going back out with that man again.
03:57Oh, wow.
03:58So, you've changed your tune now as well.
04:00No, anybody that criticizes my parenting, no right.
04:04He has no right.
04:05I mean, I'm just calling it like I see it.
04:07I don't mean to tell anybody how to parent their kid, but I just don't want to be in this situation full of rude people.
04:12I'm good.
04:13I don't like being treated like that.
04:15Yeah, eight-year-olds aren't really the easiest sometimes, and nor do they remember to thank people all the time, so, I mean, but.
04:23But it's up to you guys, and it sounds like Shelly is not interested anymore either.
04:27Well, Tom, I appreciate you coming on with us and telling us what your thoughts were about this and your side of things.
04:35And, Shelly, thank you for your time.
04:36I'm sorry it didn't work out, and I wish you both luck.
04:40Thank you, guys.
04:43All right.
04:44Take care.
04:45Well, that was quick.
04:46I mean.
04:47Yeah.
04:49Gosh, she sounded like he was, like, the most amazing guy ever.
04:53Like, you would have no idea, but.
04:55Well, I mean, listen, like you were saying, an eight-year-old can forget to say thank you.
04:59But if she is forgetting to say thank you, I think that would bother me a little bit.
05:03Yeah, I really wish they would have had a chance to go out, just the two of them, maybe without.
05:07Because, I mean, you know how it is when you're with your kid.
05:10You're not really yourself, because you've got a parent.
05:13Yeah.
05:13So.
05:13All right.
05:15Would this have been a deal breaker for you?
05:17Do you think that they handled this correctly?
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