Second Date Update - Girls Girls Girls
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00:00well mark has reached out today for the second date update and this is where we try to set
00:03somebody up on another date they've already gone out mark has hung out with katie one time but has
00:09not heard from her since their date so um we were able to track down katie yes and we got her on
00:16hold right now let's just get into this katie you there yeah i'm here hi hi thanks for agreeing to
00:22do this um i know it's awkward and weird um but we wanted to talk to you about mark we heard you
00:29went on a date to uh bar louis for lunch it was a lunch date i guess you guys work kind of close
00:35to each other or close to there and he said that he had an awesome time with you was really into you
00:41was hoping to do something maybe more formal for a second date like you know dinner or something like
00:46that but reached out got nothing back kind of been in the dark here and we were just trying to help
00:51him out is there uh is there a reason you're not getting back to him honestly i just saw some red
00:58flags and marks on our dates that i had a problem with um like i i feel like i've met guys like him
01:05i've been down that road and it just doesn't end well wow oh wow okay what was the glaring red flag
01:11yeah well it's that like every time he was telling a story about his life or his friends there was
01:18always a girl involved like all of his friends are girls every time we talked about something it would
01:25like remind him of stacy or lisa or something and and i was just i was like put off by that i was
01:32like all you have are girlfriends he has no guy friends and i just feel like there's there's got
01:38to be something going on behind the scenes in that kind of situation when you only have girlfriends like
01:43either they dated or like he wants to date or they want to date him and i just don't want to be
01:47involved in that i just figured i'd cut my losses and move on okay now when he was talking about these
01:53other girls did it seem like you know that he was just referencing them or did it seem like he was
01:58into them i mean like he was telling stories about them like they were his close friends but like
02:04there was there were never any guys mentioned it was only girls and so i just figured like there
02:09must be something going on okay i just don't trust that kind of situation all right gotcha well i mean
02:16he shouldn't be talking about other girls i guess would be uh the smart move on that even if it's
02:20i agree but if they are his friends i guess that is could be harmless but let me just tell you this
02:27we do have mark on the phone with us as well katie right now oh yeah yeah yeah yeah so i want to bring
02:36him on that's how we got your phone number mark you there yeah hey wow oh oh my oh my god like
02:44are you kidding right now that that's the reason i mean hi i yeah that that is the reason that that's
02:53a huge red flag to me i mean i'm sure yeah i i have a lot of friends that are girls but that doesn't
03:00mean i have a history with them that they're just my friends but i don't know maybe maybe i just get
03:05along better with girls than dudes like okay i have a couple of male friends but yeah it's always
03:12been this way i i and i work with a bunch of girls i don't know nothing you need to worry about i'm
03:18sorry i don't buy it they're like you're telling me there's not anything going on with any of those
03:23girls i would if we were together i would never stop worrying about it no i i i don't hang out with
03:30my exes i i've dated other people uh obviously but not my friend circle i i don't like to keep
03:36that negativity around well like do you know how much girls judge other girls if we were together
03:43i'd be like i i don't need to be meeting all your girlfriends and getting judged by them you know
03:48what what judged by them they're not they're not gonna judge you if i bring you around that's my
03:54stamp of approval and even if they did judge like who cares if like it's what i think
04:00trust me i know the situation i just do not buy it you can't tell me that you haven't dated one of
04:07those girls i i honestly like none of those girls that i've mentioned or that i hang out with i have
04:13no dating history with any of them no nothing not even like uh you know not even like a too much
04:19wine and made out situation i i keep it separate that can happen yes it can yeah you see i just don't
04:26believe that i'm sorry i don't i mean it it just sounds like you've had some issues before and
04:32you're not giving me the benefit of the doubt but but there's you can interview them all i don't i
04:38don't care like i tell you i don't like like at one date i'm not why start lying now i don't know
04:45i've seen this situation play out many times and it's just it's not it's not going to work for me
04:52really i mean he sounds like a great guy and he's obviously reaching out to us to see you again
04:57katie i mean maybe it really is what he says it is maybe they are just friends i mean are you just
05:02not cool with him you know him having this many girls that are friends yeah no it's a deal breaker
05:08i'm sorry i just i feel like if it didn't work out with me he would have a line of women ready to date
05:14and that is unsettling okay well mark um i'm sorry we're not going to be able to make another
05:21date happen yeah i mean i i guess i got my answer i guess good to know it's nothing i
05:27specifically did but but that i mean that's a lot of insecurity there but okay all right well katie
05:35thanks for your time this morning mark thanks for your time i wish you both luck okay all right thank
05:40you well i got a feeling you may have a few things to say about that one uh we want to hear from you
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