Second Date Update - Sweet Child Of Mine
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00:00Lana, you said it best. Eric knows what he wants.
00:02Yeah, I mean, they went out. He said he's been dating, and he said this is like the first girl who's not crazy.
00:09Which is great. I said, be careful with that.
00:12Commercial free New Country 99.5 QIK. It is our second date update.
00:16So, the girl that he did go on a date with is on hold with us.
00:19She has agreed to come on the air just for a couple minutes, because she's in a hurry, she said.
00:24So, let's just get her on as soon as possible here.
00:26Jamie, are you there?
00:27Yeah, hey.
00:28Hey, Jamie. So, we learned a little bit about your date with this guy, Eric.
00:32I guess you guys went to G Peppers.
00:34He said it's the best date he's been on in a long time.
00:38You're hilarious. You're beautiful.
00:40You checked all the boxes for him, but he's having a problem getting a hold of you, and he wants to see you again.
00:45So, what's going on?
00:47Yeah, I mean, I don't really know what more of a hint I could give him that I'm not interested,
00:53but by not responding, I thought he'd get the hint.
00:56Can we ask why, though?
00:58Well, I mean, yeah, okay.
01:01I found out that he has a kid, a 12-year-old son.
01:07I did not know this before the date, and he has, like, no contact with his son.
01:14And I can't believe that he doesn't even seem to think that it's a problem, that he has nothing to do with his child.
01:23He told me he hasn't seen him in, like, over seven years.
01:27Oh, okay.
01:28And I just, me, I don't know all of the background of the details, of course, but at the end of the day, you're this child's father,
01:40and I don't agree with the way he's handling it.
01:44And I want to have kids.
01:46Okay, I was going to ask you that.
01:47You're cool with kids.
01:48Of course.
01:49I want kids, but not a father to my children that's going to act the way he's acting.
01:54And what kind of a, like, what does this show about what kind of man he is in general?
02:00I don't agree with it.
02:02And I think it's a reflection on who he is as a person, and it's a bad reflection.
02:09And I tried to do the, I tried to actually be a little bit more respectful and just not respond to him to show him that I'm not interested.
02:18But now he's doing this.
02:20I don't know.
02:22I need to go to work.
02:24No, I totally get it.
02:26Listen, there's a lot of factors here, obviously, probably, that goes into this.
02:30We have Eric on the phone with us, Jamie, and I just want to bring him back on real quick.
02:34I know you're in a rush.
02:35Eric.
02:37Yeah.
02:37I would just respond to Jamie because she's got to go pretty quick here.
02:41The only thing she said that was correct is that she doesn't have any of the background information.
02:47She doesn't know anything about the situation.
02:49She's making a bunch of assumptions and judging me on it.
02:52Like, I don't see my son because my ex, I don't even like calling her my ex, my son's mother doesn't want me to see him.
03:01She doesn't even want me to pay child support.
03:04I would love to see him and have a relationship with him, but his mother does not want that.
03:08And it's really surprising me that Jamie didn't bother to ask.
03:12Hmm.
03:13I don't, I just, there are ways.
03:15So get on a plane.
03:16Go.
03:17And go to Jersey?
03:18You don't have her, like, he's 12 years old now.
03:21He's old enough.
03:22I don't know.
03:23Like, have a presence in his life.
03:26You have responsibility in that, too.
03:28She doesn't have 100% of the say.
03:31She has 100% custody, so she does, actually, legally speaking.
03:34I don't agree.
03:37I'm sorry.
03:37I think there's a way to fight harder for your child.
03:40And I'm not a lawyer here, but you still are this person's father and have visitation rights unless you did something so horribly wrong that a judge would say you can never see your child again, which then what does that say about you?
03:58So, and I'd like to think that you didn't do something so holistically wrong.
04:04So you saw your child five years ago, you said, Eric?
04:08It's been about seven, yeah.
04:09It's been about seven years.
04:11Okay.
04:11Yeah.
04:11So obviously you are allowed to see him, right?
04:15I mean, seven years ago I was, but since then my ex-wife has said that she doesn't want that to happen anymore.
04:22Got it.
04:22And, you know, I don't want to give you my life history.
04:24No, I got it.
04:25I got it.
04:25I think she's being unreasonable.
04:27But this is life.
04:29You know, you can disagree with it if you want to.
04:31I personally disagree with it.
04:33I don't like it, but this is the life I have to live.
04:35So here we are.
04:37Wow.
04:37That's a lot.
04:38I know.
04:39And I think there's probably more to this story, but we don't have really time to get into.
04:42Yeah.
04:42I did not expect this at all.
04:44Wow.
04:45Jamie, let me ask you a question.
04:46Is this going to be a deal breaker for you, though?
04:48I mean, it sounds like there is a lot of details to this that you may not know about.
04:52I mean, would you be willing to hear him out on a second date?
04:56No.
04:57No, I actually...
04:58Honestly, that's okay for me, too.
05:00Okay.
05:01Oh, wow.
05:02All these assumptions and judgments that are completely off base, big red flags.
05:06All right.
05:06Thanks, though.
05:06I appreciate your help.
05:07Okay, Eric.
05:08Wow.
05:08Thanks for coming on.
05:09Jamie.
05:10Thanks.
05:10Have a good day at work.
05:11You guys have a great day.
05:12Okay.
05:13You too.
05:13Man, that was difficult.
05:16That's a lot.
05:17Well, we don't know.
05:18I mean...
05:19We don't know his whole history and what his history is with his ex.
05:22Yeah.
05:22Why doesn't he saw his kid and then all of a sudden he's not allowed to?
05:26I mean, there's something.
05:27What happened last time you saw your kid?
05:29Now, I could see why Jamie might be like, okay, that's a little alarming.
05:32But at the same time, she is making a lot of assumptions.
05:34Right.
05:35So that may be a little fault of hers.
05:38He has a kid and he doesn't have any...
05:41He doesn't see it.
05:42That's, I think, the whole...
05:43He doesn't see his son.
05:46All right.
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05:50800-992-1099.
05:53I would love to know where you're at on this and whose side you're on.
05:55Hit us up.