Second Date Update - On The Move
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00:00Well, this is interesting. This is different than normal. Second date update right now.
00:03Commercial free new country 99.5 QIK. They've been on four or five dates.
00:08Right. She's had him over to the house. She said they've talked.
00:11I mean, Taylor sounds super sweet and she sounds like a nice girl and she just needs our help trying to figure out why he's blowing her off.
00:18Now, they are still communicating, but it's like one word answers.
00:22It's not the long form communication they had before.
00:25And he hasn't asked her to go out again. So that's the problem. That's what she wants to know.
00:28So she's like, I know you guys can get people on the phone. And that is true. We do.
00:33Let's do it. We'll cold call pretty much anybody.
00:35And we did that with Alan and he agreed to talk to us. So I love that. Let's bring him on. Alan.
00:43Hello. Hey, Alan. Thanks again, man, for saying you're cool with this.
00:47You know, you just heard us talking right there. We want to know what's going on because like Lana just said, Taylor sounds super sweet.
00:53I get it. I know. I know. I mean, Taylor's great. I mean, I had a great time and she's been nothing but amazing.
01:01A really amazing girl. But I mean, she's going to be going away for a work thing for like a year and she leaves in three months.
01:09And, you know, I don't want to be mean, but I don't want to be heartbroken either.
01:13I mean, I don't know how to put it, but. Oh, so this she's leaving.
01:17Like she's going abroad or what? Yeah, she's leaving. She's going abroad for a year and three months.
01:22And then she leaves in three months. I just I think it's going to be too tough, you know, and I don't want to sign up for a long term relationship.
01:29Did she just tell you this? Well, over the course of the time I've known her.
01:33Yeah. I mean, I've known about it, but it's kind of like I just was thinking about it and I'm thinking it's just going to be too tough for me.
01:39You know, I mean, yeah, that's a that's a big thing. And she leaves in three months.
01:45Yeah. Three months into a relationship. That's kind of when things are like.
01:48So a little bit of a honeymoon phase. Yeah. Alan, let me ask you this.
01:52Why didn't you bring this up to her? Why don't you have a conversation about this with her?
01:55I don't know. I think it's it's just a tough thing. I know.
01:59It's like one of the things where it's like, you know, I don't want to be mean about it.
02:03You know, I don't know really the right way to bring it up and have this conversation.
02:06So I just kind of like trying to back off and just see if, you know, it would just kind of simmer out.
02:11And and you know what I mean? OK, because it's kind of tough.
02:14I mean, it's like she leaves for a year. It's like, where does that leave us?
02:17And then, you know, and then we have that conversation and, you know, it just it just makes it a tough thing for me.
02:23I will tell you this, Alan, you were wondering how to bring it up.
02:28Good news or maybe bad news.
02:30You brought it up because we actually have Taylor on the phone with us, too.
02:34So she got to kind of hear what you had to say. And I think your feelings are definitely valid, man.
02:39Like, I get what you're saying. Taylor.
02:42Yes. Ellen, I didn't know that this bothered you.
02:47Like, why didn't you say something when I listened to it?
02:51Well, I mean, I don't know. I think it's going to be too tough.
02:54You know, I think like, I mean, you're away for years.
02:57So where does that leave us? And, you know, it kind of makes it really.
03:01We still have time together. We still have like three months to like really like, you know, get things going and get to really, really know each other.
03:10You know what I mean? Like, I think you're just giving up on this.
03:13I know, but I've been hurt before and I'm not sure.
03:15I mean, I think it's like, you know, just stacking all the cards against us.
03:18And it's like, you know, it kind of puts us in a weird spot.
03:21Like, you know, it's like I think it's going to be too tough, you know?
03:24I just think you're giving up on it before it, before things can really begin.
03:27Like, you only live once, you know?
03:29I know, but I look at it like it's tough to see.
03:31I mean, give it a shot. Listen, if it works out, we can figure something out.
03:35I feel like it's tough because I feel like I'm getting involved and there's like an end date to it.
03:39You know what I mean?
03:40There might not be an end date, though.
03:42I mean, I might be going away, but it's not like I can't ever come back or you can't come visit me wherever I am.
03:48You know what I mean?
03:49I guess I should have been more open about it, right?
03:51Like, I can talk to you about it more.
03:53Well, yeah.
03:54Well, yeah, absolutely.
03:56We wouldn't be here right now.
04:01We've also gone up through all this trouble, you know?
04:05Well, there's no trouble, but I'm glad that you're being open about it and I get what you're saying.
04:10Would you be willing to hang out with Taylor again and you guys could talk more about this, like, in person, off the radio?
04:17Absolutely, yeah. I kind of forgot we're on the radio.
04:19Absolutely.
04:20Okay, so you're down?
04:24Absolutely.
04:25Okay.
04:26All right.
04:27Taylor, you cool with that?
04:29I mean, I'm sure he's going to have some more questions and some more concerns, but, you know, at least you're seeing each other again.
04:34Yes, yes, yes.
04:35I mean, that's a lot.
04:37You know, hey, let's start dating and then, oh, by the way, I'm going to leave for a year and then I'll be back and then we'll just pick up where we left.
04:42Well, they've got a lot to talk about, but we're going to make it happen and we're going to set the scene for you.
04:46We actually want to set you guys up at a nice place of your choice.
04:50We'll pay for it and hopefully you guys can work things out, but we're wishing you guys luck.
04:56Oh, that's awesome.
04:56Thank you guys so much.
04:57All right, hang on for me, okay?
04:59Okay.
05:00That's a lot to ask a guy to do.
05:02Hang on for a year when you just met him?
05:04Or a woman.
05:05Yeah.
05:05Same way.
05:07Yeah, I didn't mean it like that, but I mean, but like you said, like three months, you're like hot and heavy and things are, and then you're just trying to figure out, okay, what's going on?
05:14Where, because you haven't really put a label on it and then boom, she's going to be gone for a year.
05:17I don't know if I'd want to get into a relationship like that.
05:20That's a tough call.
05:21It is a tough call for sure.
05:22All right, what would you have done if you were Alan or Taylor?
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