Second Date Update - Puzzled
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00:00All right, a lot of things going on here on the second date update as we try to match Ray back up with Krista on another date.
00:06They have hung out a few times.
00:09Yeah, and the second time, she stayed overnight at his house.
00:12That's right.
00:13So there could be anything going on at this point.
00:17Yeah, but nothing happened between them.
00:19It was just because they had been out late and, you know, been drinking.
00:23Yeah.
00:23That'd be a safer move, and that's what happened.
00:25That could be it, though, too.
00:26Could be.
00:28But we were able to get Krista on the phone, right, Kevin?
00:31Yes, we have her on the phone.
00:32All right, cool.
00:32So let's talk to her and see if we can get her side of things.
00:35Krista, are you there?
00:37Yes, I'm here.
00:38Hey, Krista, thank you for agreeing to talk to us.
00:40Appreciate that.
00:42We want to talk to you about your date with Ray, and we heard about you guys having hung out a couple times.
00:49Last time, he was at the Tarpon Turtle, and I guess he did stay the night at his place.
00:54He's been reaching out, though, to hang out again.
00:56Had no luck with that.
00:58What's going on?
01:00Oh, my God.
01:02Well, let me tell you something.
01:05Like, I had the weirdest thing to stay overnight at his place.
01:12Like, I mean, I agreed because we were having fun, you know, we had a couple of drinks, and, yeah, it was the safest thing for me to stay at his place.
01:25But the thing is that I woke up in the middle of the night around 3 a.m., and he wasn't there.
01:34Like, he wasn't sleeping with me.
01:37I went to the bathroom, and I saw him in the kitchen, like, putting together a puzzle, like, at 3 a.m. in the morning.
01:49He's putting together a puzzle?
01:51Yes.
01:52And I was like, hey, what are you doing?
01:55Like a jigsaw puzzle?
01:56How random.
01:58Yes.
01:59That was so weird.
02:01And it was huge, like a thousand pieces, you know?
02:05And I was like, what are you doing?
02:08Like, I'm sleeping in your bed because you asked me to stay with you, and you're here in the kitchen.
02:163 a.m. in the morning, like, putting together a puzzle, like, it's crazy.
02:21And he was like, oh, yeah, because, you know, like, sometimes I have insomnia and I can't sleep.
02:27And I was like, come on, dude.
02:30Like, I'm here at your house, your bed, and you're in the kitchen, like, putting together a puzzle.
02:39Who does that anymore?
02:40You know, like, that is so nerdy.
02:43His name is Ray, yeah.
02:47Oh, my God, I couldn't believe it.
02:50Okay.
02:51Yeah, next thing, you know, like, I woke up early that morning at 6 a.m., and I left because, you know, like, I don't want to be with someone that doesn't, you know?
03:02Takes a puzzle over you.
03:04Doesn't take a hint?
03:05Exactly.
03:07Exactly.
03:07Like, I felt, you know, kind of, yeah, no, I didn't like that.
03:12I get it.
03:13All right.
03:14Well, awesome description, by the way, Krista.
03:17Thank you for that.
03:18Wonderful.
03:19We do have Ray on the phone with us as well, though.
03:22I want to get his side of things, and I'm very excited to do that.
03:26If you don't mind, do you care?
03:28No, of course.
03:29All right, great.
03:30Ray.
03:31Hey, Krista.
03:33Hey, how are you?
03:33Dude.
03:35So is that kind of how things went down, Ray?
03:37Well, hear me out.
03:39So I have, like, a lot of anxiety, and I'm an insomniac.
03:43Okay.
03:44And, like, usually, like, in the middle of the night when I can't sleep, I like to just do puzzles, just to, like, calm myself down, just to not think, and just, like, you know, be one with everything.
03:56One with puzzles?
03:57Yeah, yeah.
03:58I mean, I don't know.
04:00When I do puzzles, it just, like, makes me feel chill.
04:03Okay.
04:04I get it.
04:04So, yeah, I was kind of, like, in that zone, and I thought you were, like, kind of tired or whatever using the restroom.
04:12I didn't really pay attention.
04:14So, you know, don't get offended by that.
04:17I didn't, you know.
04:18No, yeah, I get it.
04:19You didn't pay attention at all, of course.
04:22I was there in your bed, and you were in the kitchen, like, oh, my God.
04:28I wish you the best, really, like, get over your anxiety.
04:32Like, I hope you will, because, yeah, I don't have time to talk.
04:36But that was the deal breaker?
04:40I mean, I was just, I didn't know.
04:42Yeah, I'm so sorry, but no, I can't.
04:45Like, no.
04:45What?
04:46No, I wish you the best, but you know what?
04:49Like, it's better for us to not talk again.
04:53Oh.
04:53I mean, yeah, she just told me, like, if you just went straight up, hey, you want to, I could have snapped out of it, you know?
04:59I don't, I don't have to.
05:01I don't have to tell you things.
05:02Like, I was there.
05:06You there?
05:08Oh, we lost her.
05:10Oh, we lost her.
05:12That may be a good thing, though.
05:16Are you there, Ray?
05:18Yeah.
05:19That was, I'm sorry, man.
05:21We lost her.
05:24I don't know what to say.
05:25It sounds like she's going to pass on another date.
05:27Yeah.
05:28I mean, I don't, I mean.
05:30I get it, man.
05:30If it calms you down and you have insomnia, I get it.
05:34I get all that, but.
05:35On the other hand, you got a girl, you asked her to stay the night, and then you don't, like, lay in bed with her, and you're up doing puzzles.
05:42I mean, I just want to be respectful, you know?
05:44Yeah, I get it.
05:45You know, it wasn't the right time.
05:47It just didn't feel like the right moment.
05:49The vibe didn't work.
05:51Okay.
05:52I understand that.
05:53Totally.
05:53All right, man.
05:54Well, I'm sorry it didn't work out.
05:55We appreciate you coming on.
05:56You have a great day, okay?
05:58All right.
06:00I mean, I feel bad for him, and obviously, Krista was looking for something that she did not get.
06:06She did not get nothing.
06:08But, man.
06:11It's awkward.
06:12I feel bad for him.
06:13Big time.
06:14All right, if you want to weigh in on this, let's do it.
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