Second Date Update - A Gray Area
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00:00Well, Jake is trying to figure out why he has not gotten a second date yet, because the first date sounded great.
00:04He said they went to Dats in Riverview, which is a great place to eat.
00:08And of course, he said he did all the things right, you know, like making her feel like a woman, like paying for the meal and holding the door and all those kinds of things.
00:15And he said he went back and forth and he has no idea what happened on the date.
00:19This is what we hear all the time.
00:21Absolutely.
00:22Well, Brooke is on hold with us right now.
00:25Kevin tracked her down.
00:26Let's bring her on with us.
00:27Hey, Brooke.
00:28Good morning.
00:29Good morning, Brooke.
00:30Hey, listen, no, it's a random phone call.
00:32Let's just jump right into it.
00:34I don't want to take up too much of your time, but we heard about a date you went on with this guy, Jake.
00:39And dude was really into you, is really into you.
00:43And he's kind of confused on why he has not heard from you since your guys' date.
00:47And we were kind of trying to figure out what the reason was.
00:49You just heard us talking about it and it sounded great to us, too.
00:52So is there a reason?
00:54Yeah.
00:54You know, Jake is a he was a great guy.
00:58Um, I mean, we had a good time and I feel kind of bad that this is the reason.
01:05And, uh, I guess it is like a little shallow, but he's just, he's really gray.
01:11He showed up and his hair was so gray.
01:15And I'm like 31, you know, I, I'm pretty young and I'm just, he's not that much older than me.
01:22Like, you know, like six or seven years, but it just kind of felt like I was on a date with my dad's friend.
01:30I'm not ready.
01:34Okay.
01:34I'm dating someone who looks like that old.
01:37Wait a minute.
01:38Isn't it the expression like the silver fox?
01:40Like girls are into that?
01:41I was going to say, there's a lot of very sexy men with gray hair.
01:46You know, but the other thing is like, I mean, we met on match and all of his pictures, it didn't look like that.
01:52And I even like, you know, looked him up on Facebook.
01:54We're not friends, but I like saw a few images, no pictures with gray hair.
01:58So it was, it was a big shock when he came in and I don't know, I just, I really can't picture myself with someone that gray.
02:07Okay.
02:07So he's just look, he just looks a little too old for you.
02:11Yeah.
02:11Oh, well, Brooke, I could see why that might be a weird text or phone call to make, but I'm not sure it's the greatest reason not to call somebody back.
02:20But here's the deal.
02:21We actually have him on the phone with us.
02:22He heard what you had to say.
02:24So Jake, that's the reason she's not getting back to you.
02:27I just can't believe that's the reason.
02:29I can't believe it's the color of my hair.
02:32I'm sorry.
02:34It's the truth.
02:36It's just, it's a lot of gray, not just some gray streaks.
02:39It's a lot of gray.
02:40And I just like, I have a lot of friends that are in their young twenties, early thirties.
02:45And we go to the beach and we sit at the bar and just, it just would look so out of place.
02:50And, you know, what would they think of seeing you with this gray man?
02:53I don't know.
02:53I just can't do it.
02:54I just can't, honestly, I can't believe this is the same person I was on a date with.
03:00I mean, you were so mature on the date and now all you care about is my hair color.
03:06It's just weird.
03:07Okay.
03:07I mean, how gray is it, Jake?
03:10Like, is it all gray?
03:12No, it's not all gray, but it's, I would say salt and pepper.
03:15That's how I would describe it.
03:17Yeah.
03:17That's like Richard Gere.
03:18That's a good thing, right?
03:19Well, I mean, Richard Gere's a very attractive man.
03:25He's not my favorite thing, though.
03:28It's just like, I don't know what to tell you.
03:30I mean, you know, trying to dye that much hair, you know, it's just a lot of work to try to keep, you know, I just wanted to be like myself.
03:37I didn't want to have to deal with doing that all the time, and I just, I was happy to just, you know, be the person that I am.
03:44I just can't believe that that's, you know, you just seem kind of, I know you said, I hate to sound that shallow.
03:49You said that before, but it kind of sounds like you are.
03:52I mean, you're just, we got along great, but you're just worried about my hair color.
03:56It's just weird.
03:58It's everything that goes with it.
04:00Like, I'm in my, I'm young.
04:01I'm still young.
04:02I'm like 31, and I'm just not ready to date someone that kind of looks like an older man.
04:08Okay.
04:09Well, Jake, would you be willing to go back to maybe coloring your hair or start coloring your hair?
04:15Not really.
04:15It was a pain.
04:16I mean, if it was like one little, maybe little part of your hair that was gray, you know, I could see that.
04:22But it was, you know, just kind of salt and pepper throughout.
04:24You don't have to dye my entire head.
04:26All right.
04:27So, Brooke, I mean, a color of somebody's hair really shouldn't make a difference.
04:32It's more about what kind of person they are, if they're kind, they make you laugh, they make you smile, that kind of stuff.
04:38You can't look past the hair color?
04:40No, I can't look past the gray.
04:42It's just too much gray.
04:44Sorry.
04:45Okay.
04:46Well, Jake, it doesn't look like another date's going to happen with Brooke, but I kind of think that's a good idea and a good thing.
04:51I think a lot of women are going to be just fine with your hair color, so keep rocking it, man.
04:56Yeah, thanks.
04:57Yeah, I want to date someone who likes me for me and not my hair color.
05:01Right.
05:02Well, Brooke, thank you for coming on with us today.
05:04And, Jake, thank you for coming on with us as well.
05:07You guys have a great day.
05:08Thanks.
05:09All right.
05:10See ya.
05:10Come on.
05:11I mean, we try to make these dates happen, and you're talking about hair color?
05:15Yeah, and that's ridiculous, because gray on a man is sexy sometimes.
05:20I mean, that's a good look.
05:22Now, Paul's bald.
05:23Yes.
05:24No, but absolutely right.
05:26Yeah.
05:27I mean, think of all the older actors that all have gray hair and all the distinguished men that have gray in their hair.
05:34Well, I said it earlier.
05:35I mean, the term, the silver fox.
05:36That's a thing.
05:37There you go.
05:38Come on.
05:38You guys got to weigh in on this and let Brooke know how you feel.
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