Second Date Update - Mama's Boy
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00:00Well, Tracy's confused, and I would be too, because you go on three dates, and that third date was actually her going to dinner with Chris and his parents.
00:10Obviously a great sign.
00:11Yes, I would think so.
00:13She was invited by them, and she said it went great.
00:17Now it's a mystery why he's not calling her back.
00:20Right.
00:20You were able to track him down.
00:22He took our phone call.
00:23He said he'd talk to us on the air, so let's do it.
00:25Chris, you there?
00:26Yeah, hey, how's it going?
00:27Good.
00:28So you just heard us talking a little bit.
00:30We obviously wanted to ask you about this girl, Tracy.
00:33We heard that you guys went to Flemings.
00:36Actually, you, her, your parents all did kind of a group date.
00:41Now, since that date, she hasn't heard anything, and I guess that was your third date you'd been on,
00:45so something went right on the first couple for you guys to even hang out, and especially with your parents.
00:50So what's going on now?
00:52Why are you not getting back to her?
00:54It's just that Tracy was a little bit rude, if I'm being totally honest.
00:57How so?
00:58Like, didn't say thank you, or?
01:00No, she did say thank you, but listen, like, my parents, they invited her out and took her out,
01:06and we all drove together, and it's just that she came empty-handed, and in my family,
01:12that's just, like, not something you do.
01:13If you get invited out, you bring something, whether it's a bottle of wine or a box of cookies
01:17or anything at all, and just the fact that she came empty-handed to me was a big no-no.
01:22Oh, so she showed up at your parents' house empty-handed, you're saying?
01:26Yes.
01:28Is that something that happens on other dates, people show up with stuff at your house?
01:32I understand, I've heard the thing of not showing up empty-handed, I get it, but you guys were going out.
01:37It wasn't like you were having a party at your house, right?
01:40It's not that it was just a regular date, it was that my parents invited her out.
01:44So, to me, the classy response would be that you bring something, a gesture, some sort of thank you,
01:51and she just didn't do that.
01:53All right.
01:54She said she did offer to help pay for dinner, though, right?
01:58She did offer to help pay, yes, but obviously my parents were not going to let her do that.
02:03But she's obviously thinking about being polite, you know what I'm saying?
02:06Yeah, I don't know.
02:07If she was thinking about being polite, I think she would have brought something to say thank you.
02:11Wait a minute.
02:12So, this is the reason you're not calling her back?
02:14Did your parents say something?
02:16Yeah, my parents did mention it.
02:18You know, listen, my parents are very classy people.
02:20They've been together for 40 years, and they mentioned it to me, and, you know, it really got to me.
02:26And I just think she's not the right person for me, because that's the true telltale sign of who you are, I think.
02:32Wow.
02:33All right, well, let me tell you something, Chris.
02:35We actually have Tracy on the phone with us as well, and she got to hear what she had to say.
02:38That's how we got your phone number, and she was confused on why she hadn't heard from you.
02:42Tracy.
02:44Oh, my gosh.
02:44I'm just so taken back.
02:46I just didn't even think of it, and oh, my gosh.
02:49I'm very sorry.
02:50I'm sorry if your parents thought I wasn't being classy.
02:53I was just kind of nervous, you know?
02:55I was very nervous about the date already.
02:57It was our third date, and I was already meeting your parents.
03:00And so I think the nerves just got to me, and I'm sorry.
03:05I just didn't think of it.
03:06I would hate for that to be the reason things don't work out with us, though.
03:10I thought everything else went very well.
03:13Yeah.
03:13You know, it is unfortunate, but it's just how I feel, and I just, I think it showed me that you're just not the right gal for me.
03:22Man, that is so harsh, dude.
03:25I mean, I can get them something like a thank you card.
03:28I can send them a little something, drop something off as a thank you for dinner.
03:33Like, would that make it up?
03:34I mean, I think it's kind of harsh to be like, hey, you know, you didn't bring a gift, so I can't date you anymore.
03:40I mean, I can definitely try to make it up with, you know, a card or, you know, maybe some flowers or something.
03:46I just think it's a little too late for that.
03:48I think that they made their first impression.
03:50You made your first impression.
03:51So is this more about what your parents think, dude, or is it more about what you think?
03:57I think it's a little bit of both.
03:58I mean, I want you in my life.
04:00My parents have to be big fans of you.
04:01It's just how it is, and I have to be a big fan of you, too, and it just doesn't seem like either are really going in the right direction for you, Tracy.
04:09Oh, my God.
04:10Wow.
04:11I can't believe you're, like, summing me up just because I forgot to bring something to our date.
04:16Like, I'm really, like, we had really good dates.
04:21Yeah, you guys went on, like, three dates, and just because she didn't bring a gift, I mean, you're going to throw all that away?
04:27No, I think it's just it should be, like, common knowledge to do something like that, and I don't want to have to teach her how to do other things to be a classy person.
04:34Oh, my God.
04:36Oh, I can't believe this.
04:38Yeah, I really can't either, actually, Tracy.
04:42Chris, is this going to be an absolute deal-breaker for you?
04:45Yeah, I'm done.
04:47Wow.
04:47All right.
04:47Well, thanks for coming on with us, man.
04:49I'll let you go.
04:50Have a good day.
04:51Take care.
04:52Hey, Tracy.
04:54I wish you could see my face right now.
04:56That's ridiculous.
04:58That is totally ridiculous.
04:59I think this is a good thing that you guys are not going back out because that's way too harsh.
05:05I've heard the expression, don't show up empty-handed.
05:07I get it.
05:07It'd be one thing if you guys were having dinner at their house, but you weren't.
05:11You guys were going out.
05:12I totally would have brought a bottle of wine if it was dinner at their house.
05:16I 100% just didn't think about it because we were going to a restaurant, and this is
05:21our third date.
05:22I was already nervous.
05:24I thought it was a little soon, but I was like, who am I to turn down an invite if it's
05:28something important to them?
05:30Oh, my goodness.
05:31I just can't believe it.
05:33All right.
05:34Well, listen.
05:34I'm sorry it didn't work out with him, but I'm kind of glad it didn't.
05:37Yeah.
05:37Yeah, I guess me too now because what kind of guy just, I don't know.
05:42Wow.
05:42I got to call my girlfriends because they're not going to believe this.
05:46All right.
05:46Well, hey, appreciate you reaching out to us.
05:48I wish you luck in your dating life, and you have a great day.
05:51Thanks for your help.
05:52Bye.
05:52You got it.
05:53See ya.
05:54Okay.
05:54I got a lot of thoughts on this, but I'm going to kind of throw it out there for everybody
05:57else to kind of sound off.
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