Second Date Update - Wild Child
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00:00But right now, we are in our second date update, and we're trying to hook Kayla back up on another date with this guy, Mark.
00:05She's had no luck.
00:06We're going to see if we can help her out.
00:08We do have Mark on hold with us.
00:10Kevin and Scott, I'm on hold.
00:12Mark, you there?
00:14Yeah, I'm here.
00:15Hey, man.
00:15Appreciate you doing this with us and coming on there.
00:18I know it's a weird ask, but I do appreciate it so much.
00:21And we're just going to jump right into it.
00:23You heard us talking a little bit about this girl, Kayla, that's really into you.
00:27We heard you guys went to the Green Lemon.
00:28I guess it was a three-hour date.
00:30She said you checked all the boxes for her, but apparently she didn't check some box for you because you haven't talked to her since that date.
00:38So what's going on?
00:40Yeah, I appreciate it, guys.
00:42But, yeah, like, yeah, Kayla's just too much for me.
00:46Oh, too much?
00:47What happened?
00:49I don't know.
00:50Nothing exactly happened.
00:52But, like, at the date, like, she was telling me about this trip to Cabo with her friend she went on recently.
00:57And how she was in a wet t-shirt contest.
01:00Oh, my God.
01:02Oh, sorry, sorry.
01:03Hold on.
01:03I'm in the bed.
01:04Yeah, what's wrong?
01:04I mean, that's a bad thing?
01:07Well, I don't know.
01:09Like, I'm not judging her for doing it or anything.
01:11But, like, I don't know if that's, like, the type of person I want as a girlfriend or whatever.
01:15And so right away that kind of, like, you know, shook me or whatever.
01:19And then, you know, I went home and I was looking on her Instagram and stuff.
01:23And then just every post she's got, like, a beer in her hand and at a party doing shots.
01:28So she just seems, like, kind of like this wild and crazy girl that isn't exactly my type, I guess.
01:33Oh, too much of a drinker for you?
01:35It's not necessarily the drinking.
01:37It's just more of she just seems wild.
01:39Sometimes those are the fun ones, though.
01:43And the crazy ones.
01:45Yeah, it's not, like, you know, everyone, you know, has fun every once in a while.
01:48But, like, this girl looks like she's having a lot of fun a lot of the time.
01:53So she just told you that on a date that she was in a wet t-shirt contest?
01:57Yeah, and that's another thing.
01:58Like, it was the first date, you know, I get, like, getting to know each other and sharing stories and stuff.
02:03But, like, to be, like, I don't know, talking about how you're up on stage, you know,
02:07in a wet t-shirt contest in front of, like, who knows how many people.
02:11I don't know if, like, that's exactly appropriate to talk about on a first date, but I don't know.
02:15Probably not.
02:17That's cool.
02:17Quite the conversation.
02:19Yeah, serious.
02:19But, you know, you guys were hanging out for three hours.
02:21Sometimes you run out of things to talk about.
02:22There you go.
02:23All right.
02:24Well, Mark, we do have Kayla on the phone with us.
02:28And I want to bring her back on because we want to know more.
02:30There's no doubt about that.
02:31But she wanted to go out with you again.
02:33She likes you.
02:33Yeah.
02:34Hold on one second.
02:35Kayla, you there?
02:37I'm here.
02:38So was that kind of the conversation?
02:40And maybe not just specifically that, you know, topic, but are you kind of on the wild
02:46side a little bit?
02:48Not even.
02:49I'm really surprised.
02:50Like, I mean, I'm single.
02:53When you're single, you can have some fun.
02:55It doesn't mean that that's what I'm going to be like when I'm in a committed relationship.
02:59But if I'm single and I'm in a cabbo and they, you know, it was a dare from my friend.
03:05And so, like, what do I care?
03:07I'm in a bikini.
03:07I've won a thousand dollars.
03:09Hey.
03:10So much fun.
03:11Yeah.
03:12A thousand dollars.
03:14It was just stupid fun.
03:16And so, like, of course my Instagram shows me having fun.
03:19Like, I'm single.
03:21That's what you do.
03:22Well, I can't argue with you there.
03:23I'm single, too, but I don't go crazy every day of my life either, though.
03:28But how is drinking and partying going crazy?
03:32Like, it's just having a good time.
03:34I was in a committed relationship for five years.
03:37Now I'm, you know, having a bit of independence and freedom.
03:41I'm going to take it.
03:42I mean, you don't, like, have a good time sometimes?
03:46We have a good time sometimes.
03:47But also, I think, like, we're both kind of in our mid-30s right now.
03:50And, you know, I got other responsibilities.
03:52And, like, no.
03:53So I'm not going out doing shots, you know, every night and, you know, partying.
03:57And, you know, I definitely haven't been in a wet t-shirt contest.
04:01No, man.
04:01You haven't lived.
04:03Yeah.
04:04I don't know.
04:05Like, why would you think I go out and drink every night?
04:08I just have a good time.
04:10I mean, you kind of sound like a nerd.
04:12Oh, whoa.
04:13Well, let's take a try.
04:14You don't have to get personal.
04:15I'm not trying to offend you or anything.
04:17I'm just saying, like, it's not something I'm looking for, you know, in a, you know,
04:22someone I want to be in a relationship with.
04:25You seem like you're actively currently looking for someone, you know, to have a serious relationship in.
04:30And, like, when we go out on a first date, like, what do I have, you know, to gauge you by other than, you know,
04:35how you behaved before your relationship is kind of like where I'm at.
04:39I don't know.
04:40I think you sound pretty rigid and you need to let loose and live a little.
04:45And just because I have a few drinks or win a thousand dollars in a bikini doesn't mean I'm, like, a crazy wild child.
04:52It just means that I'm single, living life, loving life.
04:57Mark, she sounds like a fun person to be around.
04:59I mean, is this going to be too much, though, for you?
05:01Is this going to be a deal breaker?
05:02You're not going to want to see her again?
05:04Well, to me, it sounds like she really enjoys being single.
05:08So I think that's what's best for her right now.
05:10Like, I don't honestly think she's ready to settle down with someone.
05:13For me, when I was in that stage of my life, I wasn't ready to settle down and I was enjoying that kind of stuff.
05:18But now I don't enjoy that kind of stuff because I'm ready to settle down.
05:21And I think that's where I'm at right now.
05:24That makes sense, though.
05:25Two different places.
05:26I get it.
05:27Well, Kayla, you heard what Mark had to say.
05:29I'm sorry.
05:29It's not going to be another date.
05:31That's fine.
05:31He sounds a little too rigid and stuck up for me anyway.
05:35Oh, okay.
05:36Here we go.
05:37All right, guys.
05:37Well, you guys take care.
05:38Thanks for coming on.
05:39We appreciate it.
05:40No problem.
05:42I mean, she did sound fun.
05:44Yeah, she's not wrong.
05:45She's having a good time.
05:46She's single.
05:47She's just...
05:48But he's not wrong either, saying when you're single and looking for a relationship, you're
05:52kind of...
05:53You guys are both kind of auditioning for each other on a first date.
05:56And if you're bringing up, oh, yeah, by the way, in Cabo, I got a little wild.
05:59And here's what happened.
06:00Start telling Cabo stories.
06:01Well, she's been being truthful.
06:03At least he found out now, rather than a year down the road, like you were doing what?
06:07Two months before we were dating?
06:08All right.
06:08But I don't think she's doing anything wrong.
06:10All right.
06:10So this has been a deal breaker for you.
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