Second Date Update - Ex Marks The Spot
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00:00Right now, it is the second date update where we try to match two people up on another date.
00:04We're trying to help out Lisa this morning, who sounds very sweet, very nice.
00:09It sounds like she's thought the date through that she had.
00:11And I kind of believe that things were normal on the date.
00:15Yeah, I mean, I asked her, you know, anything weird?
00:17Did she wear anything revealing or any of that stuff?
00:19And she said no, so we'll see.
00:20What's the problem with that?
00:22Some guys don't like it.
00:24Oh, okay.
00:25Some.
00:26Some.
00:26Few.
00:27All right, well, we do have her date, Danny, on hold right now.
00:30Let's bring him on and see if we can get some answers from him.
00:34Danny, are you there?
00:36I am, yeah.
00:37Hey, Danny, I know you talked to Kevin off the air, and he kind of gave you the rundown of what we're doing here
00:42and kind of let you know that we wanted to talk to you about a date you went on,
00:45and I'm sure you've kind of probably figured it out.
00:47This is about Lisa.
00:49Yeah, I did, yeah.
00:50Okay, so we just want to talk to you about it.
00:52We heard about your date at Kona Grill.
00:54She said that you're kind of an old-fashioned gentleman.
00:57And do all the right things and say all the right things and just kind of were a great guy to be around,
01:03and it was an easy date, and it was a good time.
01:07And now she really wants to see you again and go on another date with you,
01:11but you have not reached out, haven't responded to any of her texts,
01:14and she's really confused by that, and she was hoping that maybe we could help you out
01:18or help you guys out and get you set up again.
01:20So what's going on here?
01:22Why are you not getting back to this girl?
01:23Yeah, well, you know, it's complicated.
01:29I did have a good time with her, and yeah, she is a sweet girl,
01:35and the date was going well.
01:38It's just a messy situation, and I just can't go down that road.
01:45What's so messy?
01:46Why do we not understand?
01:49Well, okay.
01:50During the conversations that we were having,
01:53I found out that she works at the same place as my ex.
02:01Interesting.
02:03Does she know your ex?
02:04Well, this is the issue.
02:06I didn't really go into it with her.
02:09I'm pretty sure she must in some way,
02:14but, you know, it's the same insurance company,
02:16and yeah, it's just a bad, it's a really bad look.
02:21Okay.
02:22So what are you worried about?
02:23They're going to talk, or what's going on?
02:24Well, my ex, you know, we didn't exactly have the sweetest breakup,
02:29and if there's any contact with them or if they know each other or anything like that,
02:34it would just be a very bad situation.
02:36Okay.
02:37Well, I can see how that's kind of weird.
02:40Yeah.
02:40How long were you and your ex together?
02:42Two years.
02:44Okay.
02:44Okay.
02:45Well, let me just say this, Danny.
02:48Lisa sounded very sweet when we talked to her,
02:50and we actually have her on the phone with us as well still.
02:54She wants to go with you.
02:55Yeah, she got to hear what you had to say.
02:56Would you care if we brought her back on right now
02:58and just kind of all talk together here?
03:00I guess it's too late to just say no to that.
03:04Okay.
03:05Well, Lisa, you there?
03:07I am.
03:08Hi, Danny.
03:09Hi, Lisa.
03:10Hi.
03:12You didn't mention anything about your ex,
03:15but it wouldn't matter to me.
03:17Like, I just think you're a really great guy.
03:19I thought you were just wonderful,
03:22and yeah, your ex doesn't have to have any bearing
03:26on anything that we do.
03:29Yeah, I mean, I understand that perspective,
03:32but, you know,
03:34I know who she is,
03:38and she'll find out.
03:40There's no way that she wouldn't find out.
03:43It would eventually exist,
03:45and there'd be a conversation,
03:46and, you know,
03:47she would say certain things about me
03:48or just attempt to sabotage.
03:51Lisa, do you know her ex?
03:53Yeah, do you know who he's talking about?
03:55No, I mean,
03:56I mean, it's also...
03:58What's your ex's name?
03:59No, don't do that.
04:00Don't do that.
04:00I would keep that private
04:02if I were you, Danny.
04:03Yeah, I don't want to say her name at all.
04:05Well...
04:06I just know that, you know,
04:08the breakup was what it was,
04:10and her personality type,
04:12she would really work hard
04:15to get involved
04:17and to influence whatever it is
04:19that would be going on with us,
04:21and it's just complicated.
04:23It's messy.
04:23It's a, you know,
04:24it's just a no-no for me.
04:26I just wish you'd sort of
04:28given a little faith in me
04:31that, like,
04:32our business could stay private
04:34between us,
04:35and I'd love for you
04:37just to think about it,
04:39because I would really love
04:40to go out with you.
04:41I really thought you were
04:43someone of quality,
04:44and it's sort of hard to find.
04:47Danny, is she one of those
04:48crazy, like, psycho exes?
04:50Like, is she going to do
04:51some weird stuff
04:51when she finds out about Lisa?
04:53That's what it sounds like.
04:54This is what the thing is,
04:56you know, like, I mean,
04:57my ex is,
04:58she's a little extreme,
05:00and yeah, 100%.
05:01If she has any idea
05:03or any concept
05:04or found out through social media
05:06or anything,
05:07she would do some ballistic,
05:09unfortunately, you know,
05:10and I'm not,
05:11I just know,
05:12because I was in it.
05:13I was in the relationship,
05:14and it's like you learn
05:15and you say,
05:16okay, well,
05:16I need to stay out
05:17of that whole zone.
05:19Yeah, you're smart.
05:20You got to keep yourself
05:21away from all that kind of stuff.
05:22That is the smart thing to do,
05:23but.
05:24So, Danny,
05:24is this going to be
05:25your answer then?
05:27Is this going to be
05:27a deal breaker for you?
05:28You're not going to
05:29want to see Lisa again?
05:31It really sucks.
05:32It really hurts my heart,
05:33but, you know,
05:34I already know,
05:35like, I got to say no.
05:37It sucks.
05:37Okay.
05:37Darn.
05:38All right.
05:39Well, Lisa,
05:39you did nothing wrong
05:40whatsoever.
05:41This is the bad situation.
05:43I'm sorry this is not
05:44going to work out,
05:44and now you know
05:46what's going on,
05:47and I appreciate you
05:48coming on with us,
05:49and Danny,
05:49thanks for your time as well.
05:51Well, thank you.
05:51I appreciate it,
05:52and Danny,
05:53I wish you the best of luck.
05:55Aw.
05:56All right.
05:56Well, thanks, Lisa.
05:57All right.
05:58Take care, guys.
05:59Take care.
06:00Yeah, it's tough.
06:01I mean,
06:01I don't think Lisa
06:02should have been punished
06:03for the fact of where she works,
06:05but I can totally see
06:06what Danny is saying as well,
06:08because that would be
06:09an awkward thing.
06:10Like, oh, she's going to work,
06:12and I know my ex works there, too.
06:13Well, and like he said,
06:15he needed to remove himself,
06:16and this is only going to put her
06:19back into his life.
06:21I totally get it.
06:21Lisa sounded so nice, though.
06:22I know.
06:23That was a bummer.
06:23That stinks.
06:24Okay, I want to know
06:25where you're at on this,
06:26and maybe this would not
06:27be a deal-breaker for you.
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