Second Date Update - Suspicious Minds
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00:00Eric Church tickets at 740 for you. Commercial free new country 99.5 QYK. All right it's the
00:06second date update right now. We've heard from Leslie. She's a little upset because she has not
00:10heard back from Paul since their date. We're about to find out what's going on because in her mind
00:15they had a great conversation. She was impressed by the fact that he talked about his family. He
00:19seemed like a great dude. Well we're gonna find out right now because we have him on hold and he's
00:24agreed to talk to us. So let's just ask him straight up right now. Paul you there? Hi yep.
00:30Hey Paul thanks for agreeing to talk to us. I know you're kind of confused on what's going on. Let
00:34me just lay it out real quick. We heard that you went with a girl named Leslie for happy hour at Bar
00:40Louie and she just was raving about your date and really wants to see you again. And I guess she's
00:48even texted you a couple times but hasn't gotten anything back from you. What's going on there?
00:52Uh yeah well the date was fine you know but uh I she said some things that just led me to believe
01:02that it you know it was probably not a good situation to be a part of. Like what? Um I just
01:09got a sketchy vibe like in relation to you know her like previous situation with her ex. It led me to
01:19believe that she wasn't faithful basically. Oh why were you guys talking about exes and she legit said I
01:26was not faithful to my ex? She didn't outright say that but it was pretty obvious to me. Uh I mean
01:33she did go into some details just straight out told me um you know she mentioned that um you know
01:40that was her longest relationship which was like a couple years whatever um and it ended uh with her
01:46ex kicking her out and and changing the lock. Um so the stuff that she was saying was just like okay
01:54obviously like you you cheated you weren't faithful to your to your boyfriend. That that's a conclusion
02:01that you drew from. Did you say that to her? Um I didn't say anything no. I just uh you know in my
02:07head I was like yeah I don't really want anything to do with that. That seems like a like a big red
02:11flag you know what I mean? Okay gotcha. And she didn't say anything more about it? No that was the
02:18extent of it just she she went on about how you know how uh it kind of blew up into this thing and
02:24yeah this kind of sketchy vibe. So you guys were talking about past relationships and that's how
02:30this came up and then she she laid all that out for you? Yeah we're talking about like longest
02:36relationships and stuff like that yeah. Okay well Paul I would be very concerned about that as well
02:42if I heard those words um I do want to tell you that we have Leslie on the phone with us
02:47and I want to bring her back on. Okay. Uh Leslie? Hi yeah I'm here. Um the way you're describing
02:54that if that's exactly what you said that does sound a little sketchy. I mean that is what I
03:00said that's what happened. I was being honest about what happened with my past relationship.
03:04I don't know why he's jumping to all of these conclusions. I didn't say anything about cheating.
03:08I didn't say any of that. I don't know where he's getting that from. Well from what you told him
03:13it kind of sounds like. I don't yeah it ended badly it ended abruptly it was not it did it was a bad
03:20breakup for sure for sure but this isn't about my last relationship you know this is about me and
03:25him. This is about me and you Paul. You got you got kicked out of the house right? Your ex kicked you
03:31out? It was it yes yeah. Okay and he locked and he locked he changed the locks? He did but you also
03:38don't know him and that what kind of guy he was so it doesn't that I told you that stuff just as
03:45kind of like in a throwaway I was just kind of telling you a little bit about my past but that
03:50that doesn't mean that I cheated or that I'm a cheater or anything I didn't say any of that
03:56that you're just jumping to these conclusions. Well you also said that you screwed up so you know
04:02what does that mean? I don't I don't think that like we need to get into all of my baggage on
04:08the radio I just don't understand why you wouldn't call me back because you think you maybe
04:13know something about my past that has nothing to do with you really. I mean if I'm dating you then
04:19that has everything to do with me. No it doesn't what happened in an old relationship has nothing
04:25to do with my new relationship if that were to ever have to ignore red flag. It's not a red flag I was
04:30telling you about my past a little bit but like that I don't think that that should be a red flag and
04:36how paranoid are you? Leslie if we flip the script though and he said this to you how how would you
04:41take that? Exactly. I would I would think that like hey that sounds like that was a really painful
04:47breakup and maybe you don't want to talk about it right now. Well I guess it's up to Paul I mean
04:52he did she had a lot of nice things to say about you Paul I mean would you be willing to see her
04:56again? I mean if she's not willing to even be forthright about like what actually happened then
05:02yeah I'm not so sure that's a great idea. Okay I am but I am being forthright I told you all of
05:09that like obviously I'm not trying to hide anything but you're jumping all over me and like thinking
05:13I'm a terrible person you're just jumping to these conclusions you have no information. I didn't say
05:17you're a terrible person I'm just saying like it's not a situation that sounds not worth dating though
05:21you know especially like maybe if you were more open about it like you know I'd be I'd be willing to
05:28well would you be willing to go out with her again and then maybe she could talk more about
05:31this off the air? I'd be willing to talk to her you know if she wants to like come clean and tell
05:37me like what the deal really is but if she keeps on you know like trying to hide stuff and pretend
05:44like it's not a big deal then I don't know. I mean honestly to me this is kind of a red flag
05:50like are you this kind of insecure? I'm a red flag? Like this yeah a lot. Because I'm cautious about
05:57who I date? All right guys let me jump in here. I think we're going kind of back and forth. Why don't
06:02you guys just do this? Why don't you guys just kind of communicate through text or a phone call and
06:06then you guys can kind of decide if you want to go back out again all right? Yeah. All right. All
06:11right. All right. Good luck guys. Take care. Thanks. Take care. Something happened. No doubt about it. Why would
06:19she even bring that up in the first place? Well I think he asked like what's your longest
06:22relationship was and she answered it and then he probably did a follow-up question of well
06:27you know why did it end? They shouldn't have been talking about exes but that happens all the time.
06:31All right. Would you trust her? Would you be willing to get her another shot or would you do what Paul
06:37did and kind of back away? 800-992-1099. 800-992-1099.