Second Date Update - Cruel Intentions
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00:00Aaron, very confident about his date with Tanya.
00:02This is the second date update.
00:03We want to set them back up on a date.
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00:08She's on the phone with us.
00:10So let's just talk to her.
00:11Let's see if we can get her side of things and see what happened.
00:13Tanya, are you there?
00:15Yes, I am.
00:15Hey, Tanya, you talked to Kevin off the air,
00:19and we know that you are familiar with who Aaron is, right?
00:22Yes, I am.
00:23Okay, cool.
00:24So we heard that you guys hung out and went out to the pier.
00:29You guys walked around, grabbed a drink,
00:31and since that time, he has not heard from you,
00:35and he's been trying to set up another date with you
00:38and can't seem to get a hold of you.
00:40So what's going on?
00:41Well, you know, I didn't really consider it a date.
00:45You know, we had a great time.
00:47He's an awesome guy, very funny, like super gentleman,
00:52and just sort of like a nice introduction to St. Pete.
00:55I'm new in town.
00:56And so, yeah, so we had a great time.
00:58We hung out, but not looking to date.
01:03Okay, but you're on a dating app because you guys met on Bumble, right?
01:08Yeah, we met on Bumble.
01:09I mean, you know, my friends had said, you know,
01:11you should go on it just to meet people.
01:13So, you know, like I said, I'm new in town,
01:15so it is a nice way to like make friends.
01:18And yeah, of course, to date at some point.
01:20But yeah, just kind of looking to just meet some friends right now.
01:25Okay, well, I think Aaron got the wrong impression then about the time you guys hung out
01:31because he definitely thought it was a date, Tanya.
01:34I do have him on hold.
01:36I want to bring him back on.
01:36That's how we got your phone number.
01:38Aaron, you there?
01:40Yeah.
01:40I mean, I don't know how it's not a date.
01:43Why would you be on Bumble if you're not trying to like, you know, date?
01:47Like, I mean, it makes no sense.
01:48It's not called like Friendster or something.
01:50I'm like, I don't get it.
01:51Honestly, it's just that I'm new in town, like, you know, just got out of a relationship.
01:56So I thought I was kind of clear with you.
02:00But, you know, I mean, I had a great time with you for sure.
02:03We had like a really nice walk and everything.
02:05But it's just not something that I'm looking to do right now, a date.
02:11I mean, I think that should be in your profile.
02:12I mean, it just seems like maybe you just wanted some free food or drinks or whatever
02:16you happen to be in the mood for that day.
02:18And, you know, no consideration for the other people.
02:21I was so appreciative.
02:22Like, you know, I definitely I thank you for for paying and everything.
02:27I just you know, it's just not something I'm looking to do.
02:29I think you're a really cool guy.
02:31And, you know, I would love to hang out with you again, but just not in that way.
02:36But can you see how he would be a little confused, though, Tanya?
02:39I mean, you kind of go for a walk.
02:41You guys are watching the sunset.
02:43You're on the pier.
02:44You grab a drink.
02:45I mean, that's kind of a date setting.
02:47Do you see why he can be confused?
02:49I feel like I was pretty transparent with him, but maybe not.
02:54I just it's not like, you know, I'm new to the area.
02:58I'm just kind of getting my my two legs or whatever, you know, and I'm just trying to meet people.
03:04But like not really wanting to date.
03:08Just crazy.
03:09Just crazy.
03:10Like, I just don't get it.
03:11I mean, I don't know why, you know, wouldn't be more clear, like in the profile.
03:15Like, I don't know why she wouldn't say this when we're together for like an hour and a half, two hours.
03:20You know, and now all of a sudden I'm like, oh, I just want to be friends.
03:22And, you know, I'm new to the area.
03:24Like, I mean, you know, she mentioned she was new to the area, but not like, you know, hey, just go right to the friend zone, buddy.
03:29You know, it just seems like just trying to take advantage of people's money and emotions.
03:34I just don't get it.
03:35Oh, my gosh.
03:36I'm so sorry.
03:36I really didn't mean to do that.
03:38I mean, I just got out of a relationship, not like something that I'm looking to do.
03:42But I I'm so grateful for, you know, I mean, I'll Venmo you if you need.
03:47I mean, it's just I'm I'm not trying to take advantage.
03:50No, it's just a matter of principle, like, you know, wasting people's time.
03:54And, you know, I don't know.
03:56It's just crazy.
03:56I've never heard of such a thing.
03:57But OK, I don't really know what else to say.
04:00I mean, I thought you were really cool.
04:03I guess I could change my profile.
04:05Well, let me ask you this, Tanya.
04:06Is Aaron someone that you could see yourself maybe dating down the road?
04:10I mean, sure.
04:11Down the down the road.
04:14I mean, come on.
04:15I mean, you know, like, there's no way.
04:17Like, so now I just been supposed to, like, wait around until, like, maybe one day she changes her mind.
04:22I mean, this is just kind of crazy.
04:23You know, guys, I'm sorry.
04:25Like, you know, I put you through this.
04:26You know, good luck to you, Tanya.
04:29You know, enjoy, you know, going on, you know, non-date dates, getting free stuff and, you know, whatever that may be for you until you feel ready to date somebody.
04:37But, I mean, I don't know.
04:39I feel you should have changed your profile before meeting me.
04:42And now I'm just moving on.
04:44So, thank you guys for clarifying this.
04:47It's crazy town.
04:48And I'm good.
04:49Okay.
04:49All right.
04:50What a bummer.
04:52That's so sad.
04:55All right.
04:55I don't know if I believe that, Tanya.
04:56I know.
04:57All right.
04:58Well, I appreciate you guys both coming on with us today.
05:01And I'm sorry we had to end this way.
05:03Yeah.
05:03But you guys have a great day.
05:05Okay.
05:06Okay.
05:06Thanks.
05:06Yeah, you too.
05:07That's weird.
05:08Being on a dating app and then only looking for friends.
05:11Eh, that's, I don't like that.
05:13That's sending the wrong message big time.
05:15Yeah.
05:15You're on a dating app to date, not to meet friends.
05:18That's what Facebook is for.
05:20Well, and she kept saying that I thought I made it clear.
05:23Well, I don't think she ever said, hey, this is not a date.
05:25I just want to hang out as friends.
05:26She never said that.
05:27No way.
05:28Because he would have known.
05:29Right.
05:29He wouldn't have called us.
05:30All right.
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05:38Or did she not do anything wrong?
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