Second Date Update - Surprise Visit
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00:00Second date update right now, commercial-free, new country, 99.5 QYK.
00:05Becca is confused because, well, she hasn't heard back from her date, Andrew.
00:09They kind of had an interesting interaction post-date.
00:12Well, yeah, they went out in South Tampa, and it sounds like they were getting along great because she said they were kissing.
00:17She said she left her sweater in his car, so he brought it.
00:20Probably on purpose.
00:21Probably on purpose, and so he dropped it off, but she said it was like a quick interaction, and she hasn't heard from him since, so something happened.
00:28Yeah, we don't know exactly what's going on, but we were able to track down Andrew.
00:32We have him on hold right now.
00:34Let's bring him back on and see if we can get him to answer some questions for us.
00:36Andrew, are you there?
00:38Yeah, yeah, I'm here.
00:39Hey, man.
00:40So you just heard us talking about your date, and it sounded like it went well, and obviously you were a gentleman and returning her sweater the next day,
00:48and things were kind of, sparks were kind of flying on the first date.
00:51Why haven't you set up a second date with her?
00:53I mean, yeah, yeah, the first date was great, and, you know, I am.
00:57I am the gentleman.
00:59I did bring her back her sweater, but when I brought her her sweater, she was there with another guy.
01:05She was at her place with another guy.
01:06So, I mean, how else would anybody react?
01:09I mean, obviously, I'm not going to be going on a date with somebody that's involved with somebody else.
01:14So you go over to her house to take back her sweater, knock on the door, and does he answer, or does she answer?
01:21She answered, but, you know, there was another dude sitting right there on the couch.
01:26She's, like, in her PJs.
01:28Oh.
01:28We had talked earlier in the day, and I was like, you know, she knew I had her sweater, and I was like, all right, I'll bring it by, like, you know, later, you know, in the evening.
01:37But I ended up being free earlier, so I texted her, hey, I'm free now, you know, I'm going to swing by, and she didn't text me back.
01:46And then I get there, and, like, you know, if I'm reading the room, she looks a little disheveled.
01:52She's in her PJs.
01:53This guy's sitting right there on the couch, right?
01:55Like, I'm just like, obviously, she was busy.
01:57So, you know, what else am I supposed to think?
02:00Come on.
02:00Ooh.
02:01Oh, man, this guy's juicy.
02:02Okay.
02:04So did you ask her who this guy was?
02:06I mean, who is this guy?
02:08No, I didn't ask her who.
02:09I mean, I honestly felt stupid, you know, for being there.
02:11I mean, we have a great date.
02:13We have a great time the night before we're kissing, and then the next morning, she's sitting on the couch with some other dude.
02:17I mean, like, I just got out of there as quick as I could.
02:20I was like, oh, there's your sweater.
02:22Bye.
02:23And that's it.
02:24Bye.
02:25Well, Andrew, let's give her a chance to kind of tell us what's going on, because we do have Becca on the phone with us as well.
02:31That's how we got your phone number.
02:32So I kind of want to give her an opportunity just to kind of tell us what's going on.
02:35Becca, are you there?
02:36Hey, that's my best, best, best friend, Matt.
02:41I wish you would have asked me, because, like, literally, he's like my brother, and he asked me to go to brunch.
02:47I went, and I was super excited.
02:49All I was doing was talking about you anyway.
02:51I wasn't in my PJs, guys.
02:53I was in, you know, leggings, like we all, all of us do.
02:57I mean, I've heard that a lot.
02:59We go out, and you're basically having a brunch date with some other guy the next morning.
03:04I mean, come on.
03:05But I grew up with him.
03:06That's the thing.
03:07I don't understand.
03:08Like, I really like you.
03:10This is my best friend.
03:13Like, he's like my brother.
03:14And literally all I was doing was, like, feeling about our date because I had such a good time.
03:20And I thought you did, too.
03:22No, I did.
03:23But, sorry, I'm not trying to, you know, be in some sort of polyamorous relationship or anything like that.
03:29That you're so insecure that you can't be dating somebody that has guy friends, especially just one?
03:37I mean, we've all seen this movie.
03:40This is weird, actually.
03:41That you're that upset, and you didn't even ask me.
03:44This is kind of weird on your part.
03:46Are you that naive?
03:47I mean, like.
03:48Are you that naive?
03:49Are you that insecure?
03:50He's clearly interested in you.
03:52How do you know you were there for two seconds?
03:54I have a question for you.
03:56Did Matt spend the night?
03:59No.
04:00We just literally, he went out on a date the night before, and he was like, hey, I got to talk to you about my date.
04:05And I said, oh, my God, me, too.
04:07Let's go to brunch.
04:07He said, yeah, let's go.
04:09And this was just our normal thing.
04:10We have grown up together since, like, elementary school.
04:13You probably maybe needed to clarify that when he came over, though.
04:18I mean, it doesn't really sound like you did a good job of explaining who he was.
04:22Why do I have to explain anything when he says, here's your sweater, bye?
04:25Well, we've all seen when Harry met Sally.
04:28Well, go get your woman that you only have one friend with, okay?
04:34She's only allowed, like, one friend, right?
04:36It's one thing to have casual acquaintances, like coworkers.
04:40It's another thing to go out on a brunch date and then be just chilling on the couch, you know.
04:45And then, obviously, like I said, you were too busy to answer my test when I was on my way to drop off your sweaters.
04:51Well, you were, like, a million hours early, too.
04:54So, who cares?
04:55I'm hanging out with my friend and didn't see your text.
04:57I think I got your bullet.
04:59I'm glad I called.
05:00Oh, okay.
05:00So, are you not interested in seeing Andrew again anymore now?
05:03No, definitely.
05:04This is over.
05:04Uh-huh.
05:05Okay.
05:05All right.
05:06There we go.
05:07Well?
05:07I have no interest in being the third wheel with you and Matt, so I'm good.
05:11All right.
05:11That's how you feel.
05:12Okay.
05:12Bye, guys.
05:13Well, I appreciate you both coming on, I think.
05:16And you guys take care, okay?
05:20I definitely will.
05:23All right.
05:23We'll see you.
05:24Man, I'm stressed out.
05:26That was a lot right there.
05:27Listen, I totally get where he's coming from.
05:29I mean, he takes this girl out.
05:31He goes over to her house the next day and he's got some other dudes in there.
05:33But then I get where she's coming from.
05:36It's a guy friend.
05:37She's not interested in him.
05:38So, girls have a lot of guy friends.
05:40Yeah, but she should have introduced him, like, right away.
05:42By the way, here's Matt.
05:44This is actually my friend Matt.
05:45Like, I explained the situation.
05:47This is the guy I went out with last night and how I've been talking about all morning.
05:50Yeah.
05:50And made it known that who...
05:52You have to make that man in the room know where he fits in that room.
05:56That's a good point.
05:57Yeah.
05:58All right.
05:58He didn't do that at all.
05:59Let's hear what you think about this.
06:00This has been a deal breaker for you.
06:02How would you have handled this situation?
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