Second Date Update - I Spy
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00:00Right now, though, it is the second date update, and we talked to Ben, who is a talker.
00:04Ben is a talker.
00:05Well, he was explaining the date to us, and I asked him, what do you think it could possibly be?
00:11And he's like, no, we got along great.
00:12He goes, it was a good, good date, so.
00:15All right, so we're going to try to call Renee right now and see if we can get her on the phone.
00:30Hello?
00:36Hi, good morning.
00:37Is this Renee?
00:38It is.
00:39Hi, Renee.
00:40This is JR, Lana, and Kevin over here at 99.5QIK.
00:44How are you doing?
00:46I'm okay.
00:48Is this a radio channel?
00:51Yep, this is us over here at 99.5QIK.
00:54Good morning.
00:56Am I on the radio?
00:57Well, if it's okay with you, can we talk to you on the air?
01:02Okay.
01:04All right, thank you.
01:05We promise we'll make it quick.
01:07Yeah, we'll make it quick.
01:07We want to talk to you about a date you actually went on, Renee, and it was with this guy, Ben.
01:12You guys went to the Yard House in downtown Tampa.
01:15He said that you guys had a great time, and even were talking after the date about maybe hanging out again,
01:21and you seemed down, but he hasn't been able to nail down plans with you,
01:24and just kind of trying to figure out why.
01:27Yeah, he's just, I don't know how to say it nicely.
01:31He's really annoying.
01:34Yeah, annoying and kind of rude.
01:38What gave you that impression?
01:40So, pretty much, like, throughout the entire date, he's, like, people watching, which is fun, but, like, rating the people that are walking by.
01:54And, like, what girls, you know, would you rate them a nine or a five?
01:58And then, like, he's rating other women in front of you?
02:02Yes, in front of me.
02:04And then, and being, like, really negative about it as well.
02:08Like, oh, okay, she's a four.
02:10Her hair is weird.
02:11But it was just really quite a turn-off.
02:14And it's gross.
02:16Wow.
02:17Why is he checking out other women when he's on a date?
02:19I don't understand that.
02:20Right?
02:21Was he trying to be playful and play along with you?
02:24Or was he just, this is just his thing?
02:26I don't know.
02:26He was laughing.
02:27I would try and laugh, too.
02:29But, like, after a while, I'm, like, this is gross.
02:32Like, I, yeah, it's really negative.
02:35And, like, and it was just female.
02:37It was just really annoying and not what you want on a first date.
02:41It wasn't, it wasn't fun.
02:43I can't imagine that would be a fun first date.
02:45No, it wouldn't be.
02:46Well, Renee, I got something to tell you.
02:48We do have Ben on the phone with us.
02:51And I want to bring him back on to get his side of things, because this sounds really strange.
02:54Do you mind if we bring him back on?
02:57I mean, why not?
02:59What else do I got to lose?
03:00Okay.
03:01Well, Ben, you there?
03:03Yeah, I mean, I don't see what the big deal is.
03:05It's, like, we're kind of doing it together.
03:07I mean, you know, they were kind of, like, you know, it's busy.
03:09They want to be noticed.
03:11I mean, I didn't think it was any kind of big deal.
03:13I mean, we're just people watching.
03:14We don't want to be rated.
03:16I thought it was just a game.
03:17I thought it was, like, in good fun.
03:19I mean, I thought, you know, it's just more like people watching than anything else.
03:22It's not really, like, you know, harming anyone.
03:23It's females, not men.
03:26I mean, I guess if you want to rate a guy, I would want to stop you.
03:30I don't know.
03:31I mean, I didn't really think to want to rate a guy.
03:33But, I mean, I guess if you wanted to, you could have done it.
03:36I don't know.
03:36I wasn't stopping you.
03:38How would you feel if women were doing that to you?
03:41Well, I mean, I don't know.
03:42I mean, to me, it was just playing, and we were having fun.
03:44It just seems like you're a little uptight now.
03:46I don't know.
03:47You didn't seem so uptight, you know, then.
03:49It seemed like we were having a good time.
03:51I'm very uptight, yep.
03:53They just rating me some more.
03:55What else?
03:56No.
03:57I mean, it just seems like, you know, I don't know.
03:59It's like you were, you know, you seemed relaxed, and, you know, now you seem just kind of uptight and defensive.
04:04But, like, then it just seemed fun and cool and good.
04:06Yeah, I shouldn't have been laughing.
04:07I don't know.
04:08Yeah, it was really awkward, and I didn't know how to.
04:11I should have said something, honestly, but.
04:14Yeah, I mean, I didn't want to, like, you know, offend you.
04:17I thought we were having a good time.
04:18It seemed like we were.
04:19I mean, I don't know.
04:20Ben, let me ask you a question, though.
04:22Like, you've got to be able to see this, dude, that looking at other women when you're on a date
04:26and then commenting on those other women when you're on a date is not a good look.
04:31Yeah, I mean, I guess it probably wasn't the smartest, but I think, like, I don't know.
04:35Oh, yeah, I only thought it, like, happened once or twice.
04:37I thought she was, like, in on it and thought it was kind of funny.
04:40Yeah, I thought she thought it was funny, but, like, now it's like, whoa, can't see anything.
04:45I don't know.
04:46It's not funny.
04:48Were you trying to make her feel better about herself by cutting other women down around her?
04:53No, I mean, she's a beautiful lady.
04:55I mean, you know, she should feel great about herself.
04:57I mean, I thought we were enjoying ourselves, and then I think there was just a couple comments here or there,
05:03and, you know, I thought her time was fun.
05:05Renee, were you enjoying yourself?
05:07No, I can't imagine what he would rate me, you know.
05:11You would get a great rating.
05:13I mean, I liked you.
05:14Oh, God.
05:15That's, you know, when you called, I mean, I didn't know what happened.
05:18I mean, I don't know.
05:18This just all seems very weird to me now.
05:20Like, I don't know.
05:22Now you do know.
05:23Well, Renee, is this going to be a deal-breaker for you, or would you be willing to see Ben again?
05:28Oh, my God, yes.
05:28It was a total turn-off.
05:30Okay.
05:31All right, Ben, well, I guess this is kind of an interesting tactic on your part.
05:34Maybe not play that game next time you're on a date, but you do you, and I'm sorry.
05:39It's not going to work out with Renee.
05:41All right.
05:41Well, I guess, you know, moving on to the next one.
05:44Oh, okay.
05:46All right.
05:46Thanks, guys, for coming on.
05:49We appreciate it.
05:50Bye.
05:51All right.
05:51All right.
05:52Thanks.
05:53I mean, I get it.
05:54We all people watch when we go out, and if there's somebody that kind of stands out,
05:58you're like, whoa, look at that person.
05:59But to sit there and rate girls that are walking by, I don't blame her.
06:04I would want to sit there and listen to that either.
06:05Why?
06:05Yeah.
06:06Of all things I do on a first date.
06:08Well, all you're doing is staring at everybody else.
06:10You should be staring at your date.
06:11There you go.
06:11I agree with you 100%.
06:13You should be staring at everybody else.