Second Date Update - Brokenhearted
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00:00Alright, trying to help out Kara this morning. She sounds super sweet. She sounds like she's very confident in the fact that they had a good date and they actually went on two dates.
00:08Yeah, and they actually talked about going, I think, on a third and she's like, everything was a go. I was looking forward to going out with him.
00:15But then she said the text messages just started getting shorter and shorter and now he's not even contacting her at all.
00:21So, sounds like he lost interest or something.
00:24Yeah, so we're going to see what happened here. We're going to try to call him right now and get him on the phone.
00:30Hello?
00:40Hi, good morning. Is this Alex?
00:41Yeah, who is this?
00:42Hey Alex, this is J.R. Lonnie and Kevin over here at 99.5QIK. How you doing?
00:47Good morning.
00:49The country station?
00:50That's us.
00:51Yeah.
00:51Well done.
00:52Okay.
00:53Yeah, man.
00:54What's up?
00:55Well, do you have a couple minutes to talk to us?
00:57We actually wanted to see if we could ask you a couple questions about a lady in your life.
01:02Sure.
01:03Oh, is this a second date update?
01:06That's us.
01:06Yeah.
01:07All right.
01:08And I know who this is about.
01:11All right.
01:12Well, hopefully you're going to say the right name.
01:13What name?
01:15Kara, right?
01:16Yeah, it's Kara.
01:18All right.
01:19So you know how this works.
01:20What happened on the date?
01:22Yeah, it's just it's Valentine's Day is coming.
01:25And I kind of like try to avoid dating during this time just because, you know, it's it's kind of a scam.
01:33And you spend so much money on just one day.
01:37And like that's like a month away.
01:38Yeah.
01:39Yeah.
01:40But it starts off low and you start, you know, seeing somebody just around that time.
01:48It's just so happens to be around that time.
01:50And it just seems like every year I waste a lot of money and it never goes anywhere.
01:54So I try to kind of avoid it's not Kara.
01:57She's great.
01:58And if I, you know, can, I'll talk to her again after Valentine's Day.
02:02But I'm trying to avoid.
02:06Wow.
02:06You've really sat down and thought this through.
02:09And to your point, if you keep dating her, it would be more and more serious when you got to Valentine's Day.
02:15Sure.
02:16Right.
02:16And like the restaurant we went to was like already promoting.
02:22And I know she didn't probably mean anything by it, but she was like, oh, that'd be a, you know, a fun time to come back and, you know, take advantage of that special.
02:30Oh, she brought it up.
02:31Oh, God, it's already starting and I'm just, you know, I'm just going to avoid it if I can.
02:36And so after it just saves me a lot of money and a lot of heartache, you know, feeling a lot of heartache.
02:43Yeah.
02:43She sounds super sweet.
02:45And she's obviously really into you, man.
02:46I don't know if you're going to have a lot of heartache.
02:48Yeah, I mean, she's good.
02:49She'll probably get disappointed because I'm not a big Valentine's Day guy as it is.
02:54And she'll want to do something and I won't.
02:56It just it starts off innocent and feelings get hurt.
03:02And I just rather avoid it.
03:03She just wants to skip over the whole Valentine's thing and then just start dating her again on the other side.
03:08That's not going to happen.
03:09Yeah, I don't know if that's going to work.
03:10I mean, usually they're OK with it if I don't really like plan it out, like mention it to them.
03:16Like they're fine, though.
03:17Oh, you know, this is the single guy telling us.
03:20Yeah.
03:20Well, easy.
03:22Well, so let me let me ask you this.
03:25I know you said you don't usually tell them, but I do want to let you know.
03:29And, you know, this is the second date update.
03:30You know how this works.
03:31We have her on the phone with us.
03:33OK.
03:34Hi, Kara.
03:36Oh, my gosh.
03:38I hope I didn't express that I was expecting anything.
03:42But I guess I really I'm not expecting anything from you from Valentine's Day.
03:48I'm not expecting for you to spend a lot of money.
03:53I mean, I'm just like so surprised right now and shocked because I really like you and I saw you like me, too.
04:00Like we had a really good time and I can't believe you're like not.
04:05We did.
04:05We did.
04:06And like I said, we had a good time.
04:09You're great.
04:10You're super sweet.
04:11You're gorgeous.
04:12You're funny.
04:13But that's just like a leading into a more serious thing.
04:19And Valentine's Day just kind of crushes it for me.
04:23I just rather avoid it.
04:24We can like go out in the spring and like after Valentine's Day.
04:28And, you know, those are good dates when the when the weather is warming up and stuff.
04:34When the weather is better.
04:37Come on, dude.
04:38I mean, but are you expecting that I'm going to wait for you until like after Valentine's and you're going to give me a call?
04:46Yeah, I was planning on calling you after Valentine's Day.
04:49I didn't expect on, you know, sharing my whole plan to, you know, you and everyone else.
04:57But yeah, if I can, I'll call you after Valentine's Day.
05:01It's just don't worry.
05:02I'm not going to be calling anybody during this time.
05:05It's an avoidance of everybody.
05:07It's not you.
05:07I'm sorry.
05:09I'm not going to sit here and wait.
05:10I mean, I was already like so disappointed and crushed thinking what happened.
05:16What did I do?
05:17So I don't think it's fair.
05:19I'm sorry.
05:20I can't.
05:21I'm not going to sit here and wait for you to call me.
05:24We could have kept dating and getting to know each other.
05:27You know, I know.
05:29Yeah, you're missing out on possibly like a girlfriend or whatever.
05:34I mean, this could be the start of something good.
05:36And you could be missing out on it because you're worried about Valentine's Day.
05:39Yeah.
05:40Yeah.
05:41Okay.
05:43I mean, if.
05:45Is that worth it to you, man?
05:46Yeah.
05:47If it's meant to be, it'll happen.
05:49And, you know, I'm definitely going to call you in a month, you know, so.
05:54Wow.
05:55Maybe you'll see.
05:56Don't worry about it.
05:57You'll feel different then.
05:58This is crazy.
05:59Don't even worry about it.
06:01All right.
06:02I mean, you say that now, but I'll call.
06:05Confident.
06:05I know.
06:06All right, Alex.
06:07Well, it's very interesting reasoning why not to call somebody back and kind of a bummer
06:12for Kara.
06:12But Kara, I mean, it's nothing that you did.
06:15So that's good news.
06:16And I say all the power to you.
06:18Just do your thing, Kara.
06:20Yeah.
06:21All right.
06:21I appreciate that.
06:22Absolutely.
06:23Thanks, Alex, for your time.
06:24You have a great day.
06:25Bye.
06:26That guy is a complete jerk.
06:28What is that about?
06:29I have never heard anybody.
06:31I mean, I understand that Valentine's Day could get expensive.
06:33Like, let's say if you just first started dating someone.
06:36But you can obviously.
06:37You can do dinner and flowers on the cheap.
06:39I mean, come on.
06:41I'll call you in a month.
06:42I'll call you in a month.
06:44I can't believe it.
06:45Something happened to that guy on Valentine's Day at some point.
06:48Agreed.
06:49Something happened to him.
06:50I would block his number.
06:51For sure.
06:52I mean, what a jerk move.
06:55Yeah, I get it.
06:56We got Lana in a mood this morning.
06:57I mean, that's just.
07:00I don't disagree with you.
07:01Let's see what people think.
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