Second Date Update - Fancy Like
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00:00Right in the middle of the second date update right now, we're trying to match Sam back up on a date with this girl, Pamela, that he went out with.
00:06And it sounded like they had a pretty romantic date.
00:08Yeah, they went to the Davis Island Yacht Club.
00:11How fancy.
00:12Have you been there before?
00:13I have, actually.
00:14Really?
00:14Well, my girlfriend's husband was a member.
00:16Okay, gotcha.
00:18So, we do have Pamela on the phone with us.
00:21She's on hold right now.
00:22Let's bring her on.
00:23She's agreed to talk to us.
00:24Pamela, are you there?
00:26I'm here, yeah.
00:27Hi.
00:27Hi.
00:28Yeah, I know this is probably confusing this morning, and I know you talked to Kevin off the air, but we want to talk to you on the air about this guy, Sam.
00:36And we heard you guys went to the Davis Island Yacht Club, had a great meal there.
00:40He thought it was a great date, had a lot of nice things to say about you, and really wants to see you again.
00:47But you have not gotten back to him since the date, and we're trying to figure out why.
00:51Oh, my gosh.
00:53Just hearing that they brought up again, just, I'm already stressed out.
01:00Oh, really?
01:00What happened?
01:02It was very stressful for me.
01:05That is not my, I don't know, that's just, like, not my scene, you know?
01:11The yacht club, you know what I mean?
01:13Like, it was very, like, fancy, and, you know, I've never been to a yacht club before.
01:22It was, I just, I didn't know what to wear.
01:26You know, I had to Google, like, what do you wear for dinner at a yacht club?
01:29Like, I'd probably quote.
01:31Well, you must have done all right, because.
01:33Yeah, he likes you.
01:35He likes you quite a bit.
01:36That's really sweet.
01:37He's a really nice guy.
01:39I don't know, I just think his lifestyle is, and mine, like, they're very different, you know?
01:45Like, on a Sunday, let's say, I wake up, I put my hair on top of my head, I put a sweatshirt on.
01:52Maybe I don't even, like, on a Sunday, maybe I don't even feel like showering.
01:56And I'll just go, you know, somewhere, like, local and just chill and hang out with a girlfriend.
02:01And, you know, like, it's just not my, I'm just not, like, the fancy, formal sort, you know?
02:08He reminded me of, like, Thirsten Howell the 3rd, you know what I mean?
02:13So you don't want to get all dolled up and dressed up to go to the yacht club for Sunday brunch, huh?
02:19No, it's stressful for me.
02:21Like, there's too many, I don't know, all that silverware, all these little forks and stuff.
02:26Like, it's just not my thing.
02:28Did you feel pressure by him?
02:30No, I didn't.
02:31But I just, oh, well, he knew everybody in the place.
02:34And, you know, it was, like, it was, like, Norm from, like, he's, you know, and everything.
02:41Well, you know what I mean?
02:42Like, and there was, like, sort of an air of, like, kind of, like, a snooty kind of air in the whole, like, I'm formal.
02:50Like, I'm just not a formal girl, you know?
02:53Well, I mean, that makes sense, I guess, you know?
02:55Yeah.
02:56I'm still trying to figure out what the problem is, but here's the deal, Pamela.
03:01We do have Sam on the phone with us as well.
03:04Oh, okay.
03:06Oh, geez.
03:07Sam.
03:09Yeah, I can't, I mean, I don't even know what to say.
03:12Like, you were kind of freaked out by the setting, the yacht club and everything.
03:17Um, I don't know what to say.
03:19That's, like, I don't, I've never heard that before.
03:22Like, I mean, it's pretty, you know, a nice place.
03:26I thought, I thought it'd be a nice place to take you, you know?
03:29I mean, I'm surprised it really freaked you out that much, you know?
03:32Are you a member there, Sam?
03:34It has to be, right?
03:35Oh, yeah.
03:35I've been a member, like, pretty much my whole life.
03:37Oh, okay.
03:39See, just hearing you talk about, like, stuff like that, just kind of freaked, like, it's just, it makes me nervous, because I don't, I don't, I'm not used to that setting.
03:48I don't know how to behave in that kind of setting.
03:50I, you know, like, minding my P's and Q's, like, I'm not used to that, you know?
03:55It's very formal.
03:58Well, you definitely, you get used to it, you know?
04:00I can kind of show you the ropes, and you can get used to it.
04:03It's, you know, it's nice, nice stuff, and you get used to it, you know?
04:09All right.
04:10What?
04:10We got it.
04:11We got it.
04:14I don't know if I would get used to it.
04:17It's, like, it's too nice, you know what I mean?
04:20Like, it's, I like to, like, lay back.
04:23I like to sort of, you know, just chill and be casual and, like, drink a beer out of the bottle, you know what I mean?
04:31I like it.
04:32Well, what if you guys did something more casual on another date?
04:35You know, Sam, I'm sure you don't only hang out at the Yacht Club.
04:39Yeah, we can do something more casual.
04:41Okay, so, Pamela, what about that?
04:44Something maybe you get to pick the spot this time.
04:46That makes me nervous, too, because, like, what spot, where am I, what am I going to pick?
04:50Like, that this guy's going to feel like, are you going to be comfortable, you know, drinking a beer and playing darts?
04:55Like, I don't think so.
04:57You know?
04:58Oh, I like beer.
05:00I like darts.
05:01There you go.
05:02Okay, so would you be down, Pamela, to go on another date with Sam?
05:05Sam, you're, like, you're a really nice guy.
05:08I just, we're two different worlds.
05:11You know what I mean?
05:12And I think that's just the reality of it.
05:15Hmm.
05:16Okay.
05:19Sorry.
05:19All right.
05:20Well, I'm sorry, Sam.
05:21We're not going to be able to make another date happen.
05:24I don't think you did anything wrong, though, man, obviously.
05:26You were trying to show her a good time, and it just wasn't for her.
05:30So, I appreciate you coming on, both of you guys.
05:32Thanks for coming on, and you guys have a great day, okay?
05:35You too.
05:37Sorry, it didn't work out.
05:38Sorry.
05:39Wow.
05:40You know, normally you wouldn't have a girl complaining about a guy having too much money.
05:44She couldn't make a decision at all.
05:46I mean, I don't think it mattered what he did or where he took her.
05:49I mean, she was just, she was backing out of that for another reason.
05:53She had to be, because you don't get mad for going to a nice place.
05:58Yeah, I'm like, so he's taking you out to a nice place, and you get to get dressed up,
06:04and wow, and she doesn't want that?
06:06That's weird.
06:07It just wasn't for her.