Second Date Update - Creepy Comments
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00:00Well, Lana, would you say that Alec is pretty confident?
00:02Sounds like it.
00:03Yeah.
00:04He's like, nothing happened.
00:05He goes, I hear what you guys do on the show.
00:08And he's like, nothing weird.
00:10He's like, I didn't have an ex show up.
00:11I didn't post anything on social media.
00:13I haven't been on their dates.
00:14He's like, I don't know what it was.
00:16So he wants to go out with her and he likes her.
00:17All right.
00:18So Kevin was able to track her down and we have her on hold.
00:21She's been able to hear us talk about this a little bit.
00:24Let's bring her on, though, before we talk about it anymore.
00:27Brooke, you there?
00:28Hey, yeah, I'm here.
00:30Hey, Brooke.
00:30So like I said, you heard us talking about this guy, Alec, that you went on a date with
00:35to Rock and Brew.
00:36He said you guys met on Match.com.
00:38Thought things went well, you know, when you guys were talking on Match.
00:42And then you guys went to Rock and Brew.
00:44And he said the last time we talked to you was you were walking to your guys' cars.
00:49And he said, bye, let's do it again.
00:51And you said, yeah.
00:53But now, has heard nothing from you.
00:56We're just trying to figure out what's up.
00:57Yeah.
00:59I mean, this guy would think it went well.
01:01Um, I just he's just so inappropriate with some of the things that he said to me.
01:09And it's it kind of creeped me out.
01:11And I, I'm just not interested in seeing him again.
01:15Can we ask what those things were?
01:17I mean, we're on the radio, but what were those things that he said?
01:21So, I mean, of course, every woman loves being told they're beautiful.
01:25Right?
01:26Like, that is a nice thing.
01:28Um, but Alec just, like, he went on and on about every body part of mine.
01:37And, like, how attractive it was.
01:41Like, how, like, shapely my hips were.
01:45How perfect my shoulders were.
01:48Like, just kept talking about every part of my body in a way that was way, it was creepy.
01:56It was too much.
01:57And, okay, at one point, apparently, because we, we had met online, so he was kind of able to look up my social media from that, I guess, and did a little stalking.
02:09And so, on the date, mentioned my mom and was like, no wonder you're as beautiful as you are.
02:16Your mom's a dime.
02:18Like, she's so gorgeous.
02:20And it was just.
02:20What?
02:21That's weird.
02:22Yes, yes, like, everything was about my beauty, my family's beauty.
02:28He even, like, commented on my younger sister at one point, because I've posted pictures with her.
02:34And it was just, like, okay, so, like, ultimately, I am interested in being with a gentleman.
02:40And it just feels like that's not what this was.
02:43Okay, so, obviously, like you said, you like to be complimented.
02:47But, and the way he was complimenting you was not something that made you feel comfortable.
02:52No, I felt so, like, I literally felt like I was sitting across from him, and he was undressing me with his eyes.
02:59Oh, okay.
02:59It was so.
03:01He probably was.
03:02It was so.
03:03Oh.
03:04It sounds like he was.
03:06What?
03:07Oh, if he's saying all that stuff to her.
03:09Yeah.
03:10I'll be undressing your mom, too.
03:12All right.
03:12Someone's forearm, right?
03:14Like, oh, my God, your forearm.
03:17Forearms?
03:19What?
03:19She's got a set of forearms on her.
03:23It's kind of a weird compliment.
03:26It was so weird.
03:28I just felt so uncomfortable.
03:29And, like, I'm just not interested in being with someone who's going to, like, comment about how hot my mom is or talk about every body part on me.
03:37So.
03:37All right.
03:37We have Alec on the phone with us.
03:40Talk about uncomfortable.
03:41Yeah.
03:41Brooke to Jimmy.
03:42Wait, like, like, he's going to come talk, too?
03:45Yeah, he's on the phone right now.
03:47Alec.
03:48I mean, this is ridiculous.
03:51All I did, I was saying that you were attractive.
03:54You know, if I see a girl who's attractive, who's sexy, I'm going to tell them.
04:00Like, and you're the most attractive girl I've, like, ever seen in a super long time.
04:05Like, okay, but saying that is actually really nice and sweet and appropriate, right?
04:10But what you were doing to be so specific and, like, comments, like, there was one point, Alec, where you're looking at me, talking about my body parts, like, licking your lips.
04:20Like, it was just weird.
04:23Like I said, you're attractive.
04:25You didn't say that, though.
04:26You'd be like, oh, have you seen your hips?
04:31I can't even look at them without, like, feeling a kind of way.
04:34Like, it was weird.
04:37I mean, Alec, did you go a little bit too much detail here?
04:40I mean, did you get into it a little bit too much, you think, maybe?
04:42You got a little too excited?
04:43I think everything I said was fair and was accurate.
04:47I mean, and, yeah, the thing about your mom, well, yeah, your mom is sexy, and that's why you're sexy.
04:52It's like it runs in your family.
04:55I don't see why that's offensive.
04:58Like, you know, good for you.
04:59Everyone in your family is hot.
05:02All right.
05:04It's a good-looking family.
05:05Dude, you just can't talk about other people's moms that way, especially on our first date,
05:11and you're basically a stranger, and you're, like, objectifying my family.
05:16Like, it's just crazy.
05:17Oh, well, okay, I wasn't a stranger.
05:20We had already talked for a while.
05:23Yeah, talking for a while is different than seeing someone in person for the first time.
05:28I had never seen you in person.
05:30I mean, I know nothing about you.
05:32Brooke, I understand what you're saying, and if he said the things that you're saying that he said,
05:36I get where you could be a little uncomfortable about that.
05:39What he's saying now, you just said, was nice and sweet.
05:42I mean, is there a way you would give him another chance now that he knows what not to say?
05:47No, because he's defending all this.
05:50So, you know what, Alec?
05:52Good luck to you.
05:53Hopefully, you can learn how to talk to women, but it's not going to be to me.
05:58Wow.
05:59I guess it's not okay to compliment women anymore, or maybe it's just her being ungrateful.
06:06All right, guys, it's not going to work out, but we do thank you both for coming on with us,
06:13and wish you both luck, okay?
06:16All right.
06:17See you guys.
06:19That was weird.
06:21Yeah, okay, that's great.
06:21I want to get your perspective on this, Lana.
06:23From a woman's perspective, those things being said to you, would you have been uncomfortable?
06:28I mean, I guess it just really depends on how you feel about him.
06:30If you really, really like somebody, the hearer's just expressing, but...
06:33I mean, but it does sound like it got a little too detailed.
06:35Yeah.
06:36Okay.
06:36The thing about her mom and sister, that was really weird.
06:40Okay.
06:41All right, let's get your take on this.
06:43Where are you at?
06:43800-992-1099.
06:45800-992-1099.