Second Date Update - Too Emotional
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00:00Second date update right now, commercial-free New Country 99.5 QYK.
00:03We are trying to help out Blake this morning, and he seemed nervous with us, which I understand.
00:10Yeah, but he said they had a great date.
00:11They went downtown to Red Mesa Cantina, and he said that they got along really well.
00:16They both have been divorced, so they're both out dating and stuff again.
00:20So I kind of like that, that they're on the same page with that kind of stuff.
00:24He said he's out of practice a little bit, so he was kind of worried about what was going on.
00:28But, you know, she probably is a little bit, too.
00:30Yeah, but he said he can't figure out what happened or why she's not getting back to him.
00:35Okay, so let's call her.
00:52Hello?
00:53Hi, is this Jessica?
00:56Yes, who's this?
00:57Hey, Jessica, this is actually J.R., Lana, and Kevin over here at 99.5 QYK.
01:02How are you doing?
01:02Good morning.
01:05Seriously?
01:06This is us, yeah.
01:09Okay.
01:10Well, I'll just ask you straight up.
01:12We want to see if we can talk to you on the air about a date you recently went on.
01:17And it's just a couple questions.
01:19Oh, my God.
01:22Sure.
01:22Okay, thank you so much.
01:24We're actually talking about a guy named Blake that you went on a date with.
01:27We heard you guys went to Red Mesa.
01:30Yeah.
01:31You remember Blake?
01:32Oh, yeah.
01:33Okay.
01:33So, yeah, we'll just let you know what we know.
01:36We heard you guys went to Red Mesa, and you guys seemed to have a great time.
01:40He was very into you.
01:42He did admit that he's kind of out of practice when it comes to dating, and now he wants to
01:46see you again, but can't get a hold of you.
01:48We're just trying to figure out what's up.
01:49So, is there a reason you're not reaching back out?
01:55Yeah.
01:55This is so weird, because I just...
01:58He doesn't really seem like he's in a good place to be dating right now.
02:02So, I'm just all set.
02:04Why?
02:05Why would you say that?
02:06He just doesn't really seem like he's over his ex, like, at all, and I just...
02:13I'm all set.
02:14Like, I'm just going through my own stuff.
02:16I don't need to be involved in anybody else's drama, you know?
02:21Well, why do you think he's not over his ex, and why were you guys talking about your exes?
02:26Right.
02:26You're not supposed to do that.
02:27I mean, that's a question for him.
02:29We went out.
02:31We went to this nice restaurant, and, you know, we were just kind of...
02:36talking, and, you know, and he starts, like, going off about his ex, and he was talking
02:46about all this stuff, like, that she is, like, slandering his name to his friends and his
02:55family and his co-workers and trying to take all of his money, and it was just...
03:03I mean, he was getting so heated about it that I, like, almost felt like he was yelling
03:08at me, which, obviously, I have nothing to do with it.
03:12And any time, like, I'd try to steer the conversation towards, like, a more positive and fun topic,
03:19he would just, like, find a, like, a point to, like, turn it back around, like, oh, my ex
03:26did that, or my ex liked to do that.
03:28Everything I said, he would turn it back to her.
03:31He seemed really, like, like, obsessed with it and obsessed with talking about it.
03:36So, I'm all set.
03:38Like, I don't even know why he had such a good time with me, because he was talking the whole
03:43time.
03:43And, you know, I just got out of a terrible relationship, and I don't want to be in another
03:49one, so...
03:50All right.
03:50Well, that's fair.
03:51Definitely fair, and obviously, when exes are talked about the whole time, that's not
03:56fun for either party.
03:58Jessica, here's the deal.
03:59We have Blake on the phone with us.
04:01Oh, God.
04:02Okay.
04:03And I want to bring him back on.
04:04Blake!
04:05Hey, I just got to say, right off the bat, like, how dare you, like, judge me about how
04:11I'm reacting?
04:12You know, you don't understand what I'm going through, and you have no idea what it's like
04:16to have lies, like, lies made up about you and things like that.
04:20And you asked me...
04:21Okay, well, you need to tell your therapist.
04:23How do I feel about this thing?
04:24That's somebody that you're trying to, like, date.
04:25That's...
04:26I mean, it was not an enjoyable night for me to be your punching bag.
04:33Like, this lady, your ex-wife has nothing to do with me, so I think you need to, like,
04:38head right on on a board of therapy and tell someone else about it.
04:41And not...
04:42That's really, like, offensive.
04:44Like, I can't believe you're judging me and not calling me back.
04:46I'm not judging you.
04:47I just don't think you're ready to date.
04:49See, this is the problem with women.
04:51In general, you act...
04:53Oh, God.
04:54You literally are starting to act.
04:54Here we go.
04:55You sound just like my ex.
04:57Blake, Blake, Blake, Blake, Blake.
04:59You know, I take you out, I treat you nice, and you asked me to be honest, and I opened
05:03up to you.
05:04I can't believe this is the type of person you are, that you bring me on the radio and you
05:07act like this.
05:09Well, you kind of...
05:09I didn't bring you on the radio.
05:11You called me, you idiot.
05:12Yeah, that's true.
05:15Blake, you called us first, remember?
05:17I mean, she's just really, like, she told me to tell her the truth, so I did.
05:22And I was, like, she literally sounds just like my ex right now.
05:25She's, like, just start blaming me.
05:26Why are you talking to me?
05:29I think you should find someone who enjoys hearing about someone's ex for hours upon hours.
05:36Yeah.
05:36It's not me.
05:38All right.
05:39Well, Jessica, thank you for coming on with us today.
05:41Now we know why you have not gotten back to Blake, and I appreciate your time.
05:44Yeah, I think it's pretty clear, right?
05:47Well, I appreciate you coming on.
05:50Thanks.
05:50Bye, guys.
05:51All right.
05:52Blake, it just sounds like things maybe got a little heated, or maybe some emotions got
05:56a little raw on the date, and it is what it is.
05:59Well, that's not how it was on the date, you know?
06:01I don't know.
06:02I was just being honest about how I feel.
06:04Okay.
06:05All right.
06:06Well, I'm sorry it didn't work out with Jessica, but, hey, man, I hope the next date works
06:11out better for you, and I appreciate you reaching out to us.
06:15Okay.
06:16All right.
06:16Well, thank you.
06:16Sorry, man.
06:17Now I know, I guess.
06:18All right, man.
06:18Take care.
06:20The worst thing you could ever do is tell your new girlfriend that she either sounds like
06:26or reminds you of your ex.
06:28Right.
06:29You're right.
06:30And then the other thing is, what do you tell him?
06:32Other than, like, hey, don't talk about your ex.
06:34He's like, well, I was just trying to be honest, and, like, those raw emotions can come up.
06:38I totally get that, but you got to be able to pick your spots when it comes to that, too.
06:43I mean, it's natural you're going to want to know about history and all that kind of
06:46stuff, but we always say not on the first date.
06:49Right.
06:49Would you have judged him for that?
06:51Would you have made that a deal breaker for yourself?
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