Second Date Update - Taking Care Of Business
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00:00You know, he's very confused.
00:01Nate is trying to stay optimistic when it comes to his date with Becca, 7-15, second date update.
00:08But it seemed like they had a good time.
00:11And he goes, I just want to make sure she's okay.
00:13That's what he said is her welfare.
00:14Right.
00:15And you're like, well, she's reading the text.
00:17And he's like, yeah, but maybe it's not her reading them.
00:19So I don't know where his head's going.
00:20But he said she kissed him at the end of the date.
00:24They seem like they had a great date.
00:26So he's like, what happened?
00:27He's like, I just would really like to know.
00:29But, Kevin, you motioned that you got her on the phone, right?
00:32I do, yes.
00:33That was a good motion by me.
00:37All right.
00:37So here's the deal.
00:38We are going to bring her back on right now because I guess we got a hold of her.
00:42And Nate was not able to.
00:44Becca, are you there?
00:46I'm here.
00:47All right.
00:48Well, Becca, it's good to hear your voice.
00:50You kind of know what we want to talk to you about.
00:51We want to talk to you about this guy, Nate, that you went on a date with at Seasons 52.
00:56Okay.
00:57Yeah.
00:57I know Kevin talked to you a little bit off the air.
01:00But, yeah, we wanted to ask you about your date with him.
01:03And also, we heard maybe that you guys shared a little kiss.
01:07And that seemed like a special time.
01:09He thought the date was very romantic at Seasons 52.
01:12He thought you had a good head on your shoulders, which is pretty cool.
01:16And now he's a little confused because I guess he did text you.
01:21He has called you a few times.
01:24Hadn't heard from you.
01:25He actually was worried about you to see if you were just okay.
01:29But we want to know why you're not getting back to Nate.
01:31I was wondering what was going on.
01:34I was like, what is happening?
01:36Why are they calling me?
01:38Well, I'm not going to waste my time because he's going to be gone in like six months.
01:44Is he in military?
01:45No.
01:46He's going to go get his master's.
01:48Really?
01:48Which I think is awesome.
01:50Yeah.
01:50We had such a fun time.
01:52We did connect, really.
01:54But when I heard that, I was like, oh, well, there's really no point at this.
01:58I mean, like, I'm done at this point.
02:01Well, so he's going out of state?
02:04Yeah, he's leaving to go get his MBA.
02:06Okay.
02:06So he'd be gone for, I don't know, a couple years.
02:08I've never gotten a master's before.
02:10How long does it take?
02:10Really?
02:15Well, but the point is you're not wanting to do any type of long distance.
02:18That's what you're saying.
02:19No.
02:20And I also, I don't want to get really involved with somebody and put all my attention and energy into somebody and then be gone.
02:29Where I'm at in my life, I just, I'm not there.
02:31Okay.
02:32Wait, wait.
02:33You're breaking up with me because I'm leaving for six months?
02:36Breaking up?
02:36Well, Becca, that's Nate.
02:38Wow.
02:38I see Nate thinks things are a little more serious than they might be.
02:43Oh, my goodness.
02:45Are you serious?
02:45What is happening right now?
02:47All right.
02:47So, Nate gave us your phone number, Becca.
02:49That's how we got you on the phone, obviously.
02:51And he obviously thinks things are a little bit more serious.
02:55Nate, obviously, you guys are not boyfriend and girlfriend after one date, right?
02:58We can get on that same page.
02:59No, no, no.
03:00We're not.
03:00I misspoke.
03:01But, I mean, we have six months.
03:04It's an entire summer.
03:05Do you know how much fun we could have in a summer?
03:08I mean, and then what?
03:09What do you mean, and then what?
03:11Then I'll go get my MBA, and I'm back in two and a half years.
03:16And so, I'm supposed to put my life on hold for this?
03:20No.
03:20You know what?
03:21No.
03:21Why does it have to be on hold?
03:22I'm sorry.
03:22You're really nice.
03:24No.
03:24Two and a half years go by so fast.
03:26That's like COVID.
03:28It's nothing.
03:28That's the pandemic.
03:33It went by fast, didn't it?
03:34Not really.
03:37But hold on.
03:38Hold on.
03:39She doesn't want to have a long-distance relationship, especially because she just met you.
03:42But on the other side, would it be worth hanging out some more, Becca, to see if maybe it might
03:47be worth having a long-distance relationship?
03:51No.
03:52You're saying, though, he's awesome, so maybe he's the one.
03:55Two years.
03:56At this point, I'm like, you gave my number to the radio station, and you just said you're
04:02breaking up with me after one date.
04:04Well, it's not like I put it on the bathroom call.
04:05No, maybe I am making the light good.
04:08I just can't do it.
04:09I'm not there.
04:10I'm just not there.
04:11I don't want to date somebody that's leaving in six months.
04:14I'm not wasting my time.
04:17Wow.
04:18Nate, I know that's not what you wanted to hear, but you kind of have to kind of understand
04:22what she's saying because she knows that you're going somewhere, which is great that
04:25you're chasing your masters and all that, but she's looking for someone that lives in
04:31the region and is going to be here kind of long-term.
04:34Mm-hmm.
04:36Yeah.
04:36Are you looking for somebody, Nate, that maybe to go with you or something?
04:40I mean, Becca, are you, like, flexible on your arm?
04:43I'm not going anywhere for anybody.
04:46No, I'm in a good spot here.
04:50Sorry, guys.
04:52That is kind of a lot to, I mean, Nate, to, you know, date somebody for the next six months
04:56knowing you're going to leave.
04:57Yeah.
04:58Are you sure you want that too, Nate, though?
04:59Because you're going somewhere to focus on getting your masters too, so do you...
05:03It's not like I'm going off the war.
05:06I'm like a two-hour plane flight away.
05:08Oh, my God.
05:09This is wild.
05:11Yeah.
05:12We're right there with you.
05:12Well, it sounds like, Nate, Becca's not interested in furthering any more of this relationship.
05:21Becca, we're going to let you go.
05:22I do appreciate your time this morning.
05:25Nate, now you know where she stands.
05:26I'm sorry.
05:27It wasn't the answer you're looking for, man.
05:29Yes, I do.
05:30I'm just glad that she's safe.
05:32Thank you, guys.
05:33Okay.
05:33You sound like a nice guy, Nate.
05:34Yeah, he sure does.
05:36All right, man.
05:37Thanks, guys.
05:39What are your thoughts on Nate?
05:40I mean, he did sound nice there.
05:42But what were your thoughts on Nate, Lana?
05:45I don't know.
05:45He started off saying that he wanted to make sure she was okay, and he didn't know if it
05:50was really her that was answering her text messages.
05:53Then we find out he's leaving in six months.
05:55Well, then he says she's breaking up with him.
05:59Yeah, wow.
06:00Okay, they just kept...
06:01What kind of business is he getting a master's in is what I want to know.
06:06You got to see if the juice is worth a squeeze there, I guess.
06:09All right.
06:09I would love to hear someone that's been in this situation, and if it was worth it, and
06:14if it worked out, or just what you thought of me.
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