Second Date Update - My Demands
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00:00Don has reached out to us this morning on the 715 Second Date Update.
00:03We're trying to help her out.
00:05They went to a place that you and I both love.
00:06Lana loves, too.
00:07Rocco's Tacos.
00:08Yeah, it's delish.
00:09Come on.
00:10Let's get that table side guac going.
00:12But the thing is, she hasn't heard from her date, Cameron, since.
00:16And that's why we are on the Second Date Update right now.
00:19Because we're trying to figure out what happened to this guy.
00:21You've talked to him off the air, right?
00:23I have.
00:23And he's cool with coming on?
00:25He's cool with coming on.
00:26All right.
00:26So let's bring Cameron back on and see if we can get some answers from him.
00:30Cameron, you there?
00:31Hey, what's up, guys?
00:32Hey, man.
00:33I have a few minutes before work.
00:34Okay.
00:35What's going on?
00:36I know.
00:36I totally get it.
00:37Big ask.
00:38And you've got things going on.
00:39Here's what I'll just say.
00:40This is our Second Date Update.
00:42And we talked to people about dates they went on.
00:44And we want to talk to you about a date that you went on to Rocco's Tacos.
00:48You went with a woman named Dawn, who had a lot of great things to say about you.
00:53Thought you had a lot in common.
00:54Said that you had a lot of the same goals, both driven when it comes to your career.
01:00I guess you texted her to make sure she made it home okay.
01:03She loved the fact that you had great manners.
01:05And thought the date went really well.
01:08But I guess has been trying to keep the conversation going and try to, you know, get another date established with you.
01:15But hasn't heard anything and wants to know what's going on.
01:17So, sounded like a great date.
01:19What happened?
01:20Um, well, maybe for her it was a great date.
01:24I don't know what to say.
01:25But it was pretty bad.
01:27It was pretty bad.
01:28All right.
01:29Well, now we're on completely opposite ends of the spectrum here.
01:31Yeah.
01:32It didn't sound bad.
01:33Where did it go wrong for you?
01:35I mean, well, you know, she, first of all, she had to control everything.
01:39So, she controlled the conversation the entire time.
01:42She was basically dictating, you know, pretty much everything the entire time.
01:47Well, we had to go to Rocco's Tacos, for example.
01:49Or, I mean, she had to have, what, certain appetizers, you know, kind of little things.
01:55And, you know, all these red flags are kind of popping up that she's just not even, I don't know, she was just a little too much.
02:01And then, of course, she has this moment where she pulls her phone out.
02:05And then she's like, I should tell you now.
02:07These are my requirements for dating me.
02:11What, she's reading from, like, her phone's notes section or something?
02:13Yeah.
02:14Yeah.
02:14And she starts reading from her notes.
02:16It was insane.
02:17Wow.
02:17She has, like, a whole list.
02:19And she says, reading this list to me.
02:21And I'm just standing there kind of in shock.
02:24We're on a first date.
02:25Like, we don't even know each other.
02:26And you're already reading your demands.
02:29I know.
02:30What kind of things are on this list?
02:33God, I worry.
02:34What was she?
02:36She, like, she gets a say in what I wear.
02:38Really?
02:41She, uh, she, all right, she said you get two date nights.
02:44She needs two date nights a week, minimum.
02:48So.
02:49That's expensive.
02:51Oh, I, I, she said I have, I have to pick up every time she calls.
02:55That's a rule.
02:55I have to always pick up the phone.
02:57Oh, man.
02:58So, I have to, all right, I have to call her babe, like, in front of her friends.
03:03These are very specific demands.
03:05They are.
03:05Yeah, right?
03:06I can't even believe I remember so many.
03:08It was, all right, all right.
03:09Her birthday had to be more than one day.
03:12Her birthday celebration had to be a minimum of two days.
03:16That uncommon for women, I don't think.
03:19But I can't believe she said that to you.
03:21Dude, was she joking around?
03:23No, she wasn't joking.
03:25Because I feel like if someone was saying this to me, I'd be there going, all right,
03:28you're messing around with me.
03:29Obviously, this is funny.
03:30I was, I was.
03:31I kept waiting for her to be like, I'm just joking.
03:33And number seven, I'm just joking or something like that.
03:35But no, uh, yeah, it was never like that.
03:40And she just kept going on and on.
03:41I just kept thinking to myself, she's crazy.
03:43There's no way.
03:44I mean, you've just met me and you're already listing requirements of me, your expectations.
03:49And it was, it was too much.
03:51Well, dude, I'll tell you right now, if somebody was reading off demands to me on a first date,
03:55I would definitely be turned off by that.
03:57So, um, I get what you're saying.
04:00Um, I will tell you that we called you on, uh, Don's behalf and we have her on the phone
04:05with us.
04:05I want to bring her back on.
04:06Is that cool if we talk to her with you on the phone with us as well?
04:09Yeah, why not at this point?
04:11Okay.
04:12All right, Don.
04:13Yes.
04:14Did you really read off a list of demands?
04:16Is that right?
04:18Okay.
04:18First of all, I'm not, basically, I don't want to waste anyone's time.
04:23I'm tired of playing games with dating.
04:25I know what I want at a relationship.
04:27I know what kind of person I want to date.
04:29And I like to be specific in the beginning because why waste either one of our times?
04:33Both of us are busy people.
04:35And what's wrong with scheduling two dates per week?
04:38Now I know I don't have to play games like I am now.
04:40Like, is he going to, is he going to text me back?
04:42Are we going to go out again?
04:43No, I know.
04:44If you want to date me, then we'll go out twice a week.
04:47I, you know, it's like, yes, I'd like my birthday to be a big deal.
04:50You know, like all of these things I think are important.
04:52And it's like, I think a guy should know how to treat a lady like a lady.
04:56And that's who I am.
04:58But this is why you're single.
05:01All right.
05:02Yeah, but I'm being specific.
05:03Do you want me to pretend to be somebody else?
05:06Has anybody ever said, oh, wow, thank you so much.
05:09Thanks for the gift.
05:10Hey, Don, did you say things like, hey, I want to have a say in what he wears and all that?
05:16Yeah, because I want, you know, I want to make sure, like, we can go out to nice places or, you know,
05:21so I can't assume he owns the nice clothes.
05:25It would be nice that he dresses in them so that when we're ready to go, we go.
05:29You can't do this to people.
05:30Nobody wants to hear your 20 commandments or whatever it is.
05:35Seriously.
05:3520, man.
05:36Then you should have said something at that moment because then we could have ended the date.
05:40Again, this is the games.
05:42These games are the ones that I'm trying to avoid.
05:44You guys called me, okay?
05:46I didn't.
05:47We did.
05:48Right?
05:48Yeah, and look what I had to do to hear from you.
05:50I don't want to ever.
05:51No, I was happy to go away.
05:53Nobody wants to hear this.
05:54I never want to hear this from you.
05:55You're crazy, okay?
05:56I don't want to ever hear about your list again, okay?
06:00I was hoping to never speak to you again, but please, lose my number in the future.
06:04Don't ever call me.
06:06Okay.
06:06All right?
06:07Well, listen, Don, it sounds like he's not interested in any quote-unquote demands that you have
06:13or a list that you have.
06:14So, hey, if those really are your requirements for dating you, he's not meeting those requirements.
06:20So, I guess we got an answer in the fact that he's not the right guy for you, right?
06:24Right.
06:24Absolutely.
06:25Obviously, I can bring it, but I guess he can't bring it.
06:27So, you know, I'll find somebody eventually who will fit my list.
06:30All right.
06:31Hey, thank you, by the way, Cameron, for coming on with us.
06:34You have a great day.
06:35I know you got to get to work.
06:36Yeah.
06:36I appreciate it.
06:37Yes.
06:37All right, guys.
06:38All right.
06:38Thank you, guys.
06:39Have a great day.
06:40Dude, I understand getting what you want and knowing what you want.
06:45Yes.
06:45But reading a list and saying things that are super specific like that.
06:50Yeah.
06:50How could that not be a turnoff for somebody?
06:52Gotta be.
06:53It was.
06:55It was.
06:55They are not going back out again.
06:57Oh, man.
06:59I don't know if there's anybody that would back her up on this.
07:03But I would like to know.
07:04I would want to know right now.
07:05And I just want to know where you're at in general on this 800-992-1099, 800-992-1099.