Second Date Update - Judgment Day
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00:00Right now, it is a second date update.
00:02We're trying to help out Trent this morning.
00:04And Trent's actually been on a couple dates with Sarah.
00:07And he said both went really well.
00:09Yes, he did.
00:10So we want to see what's going on now.
00:13Because for a third date, he's had no luck.
00:15And we did get her on the phone, right?
00:18Yes, we did.
00:19Okay, cool.
00:19We got Sarah on hold right now.
00:20Sarah, are you there?
00:22Yeah.
00:23Hi.
00:25Hey, that is the appropriate response.
00:27This would be a little bit hesitant to come on with us.
00:31I totally get it.
00:32But I just want to let you know, we're going to try to make this quick.
00:34I know Kevin was talking to you off the air that we wanted to talk to you about a date you went on.
00:39And it's actually a couple of dates with this guy, Trent.
00:43And he told us that you guys first had a lunch date and then decided to do a more formal dinner date where you guys went to the Lure and had a great time there.
00:52Had some sushi.
00:53Enjoyed each other's company, he thought.
00:55And the date ended with him walking you to your car, giving you a hug, goodnight.
01:01But that's the last he heard from you.
01:03And he's just super confused on what's going on now and wants to know why he can't get a hold of you for a third date.
01:10Well, I mean, I don't know if I should.
01:14It's just there's something I saw a side of him that I just I just didn't really like.
01:21I just it was really not my cup of tea.
01:26What what do you mean by that?
01:27Like you saw a different side of him.
01:29How so?
01:30Well, everything was fine.
01:32But then so he has a 12 year old daughter, which is, you know, I love kids.
01:36I don't have kids of my own.
01:38Not an issue at all.
01:40I love them.
01:41But there was some issue with her misbehaving and the sitter reached out to him.
01:49And so he had to, like, FaceTime her.
01:52And when he FaceTimed her, he proceeded to berate her in front of me and anybody near us, near our table.
02:00It was embarrassing.
02:01But I didn't like the way he was talking to her.
02:04It was like really angry and talking to his daughter or talking to the sitter.
02:09No, his daughter.
02:11Oh, wow.
02:12You were talking to her.
02:13I was like, wow, this guy sounds mean and angry.
02:17And it just it was like I saw a completely different side of him.
02:22And it just it seemed like a real big red flag to me.
02:25I thought if this is how he talks to his child, then how is he going to talk to me?
02:30How does he talk to other people?
02:33You know, I was like, this is not a good first impression.
02:37So you kind of just thought his parenting skills were a little harsh.
02:40Yeah, it was such a turnoff to me to see that.
02:44And also, he didn't leave the table.
02:46Like, I had to sit through that.
02:49So he just kind of after the phone call, he just kind of hung up and just went back to your guys' date like nothing happened?
02:55Yeah, and it just it was really uncomfortable.
02:57And I just I made up my mind.
02:59I thought, wow, this is not a side I like.
03:03All right.
03:03Well, Sarah, I can understand where you're coming from.
03:06I want to let you know this.
03:07We got your number from Trent.
03:09I think you probably figured that out by now.
03:11Yeah.
03:11And we do have him on the phone with us.
03:13I'd love to bring him back on to get his side of things.
03:16Would that be cool if we just talk to him for just a second?
03:19I mean, OK, I guess.
03:22OK.
03:23Trent, you there?
03:25Yeah.
03:26So wait a minute.
03:28You're critiquing the way that I parent?
03:30You don't even have kids.
03:31I don't need to have kids to know what it feels like to have somebody talk to you like that.
03:38Like, that was awful.
03:39You were so harsh.
03:41She's 12.
03:43Yeah, she's 12.
03:44Exactly.
03:45And she was out of line.
03:46And I've known her for her entire life.
03:50And I put her back in line the way that I know that my daughter needs.
03:55It wasn't appropriate for you to do that at the table with me.
03:59Like, I don't like the way you talk to your daughter.
04:01Well, it has nothing to do with you.
04:04Oh, but you, it may, the way you talk to your daughter and reprimand her is none of my business.
04:10But you made it my business.
04:12That wasn't cool.
04:13Puts you through it?
04:14It was a conversation with my daughter.
04:16You know, my parenting style works for me.
04:18In front of me at the table.
04:19Yeah?
04:20You've never seen somebody parent before?
04:23I'm not parenting you.
04:24We barely know each other.
04:25I'm parenting my daughter.
04:26You don't even know my daughter.
04:27Yeah.
04:28But I know you now.
04:30Because of what I saw.
04:32You, you shouldn't, I don't even know you.
04:35I haven't even met your daughter.
04:36Yeah, that's a good point.
04:37And you're sitting there yelling at her in front of me?
04:39You don't know me.
04:39You don't know my daughter.
04:40Who are you to tell me how I should parent my kid?
04:43Well, you made it my business when you did it in front of me at the table.
04:47So anytime any parent does anything in front of another person, that person can then just say like,
04:52well, I think you should parent this way, even when they have no experience parenting?
04:57It has nothing to do with experience.
04:59You shouldn't have done that in front of me.
05:01If you did that in front of me in person, I would have walked away.
05:05Imagine what that felt like for her.
05:07I did do it in front of you in person.
05:09We were in person.
05:10I meant if your daughter was standing there.
05:13Look, I don't like the way you talk to your daughter.
05:15What's the difference if someone's standing in front of you or if you're in FaceTime?
05:19You're humiliating her in front of me.
05:20So you just walk around and you just have an opinion about every parent that you see?
05:23Like if a kid has a meltdown in a store, you're one of those people who is like,
05:27oh my God, what a terrible parent.
05:29Yeah, maybe you should take them outside.
05:31You just walk your life that judgmental?
05:33It's not being judgmental.
05:34You made me part of that situation.
05:37I didn't want to be.
05:38You're not being judgmental right now.
05:40I just want to be clear about that.
05:42Yeah, I'm judging you.
05:44What you did was not you.
05:44So you're being judgmental.
05:46All right, guys, let me ask you a question.
05:48It sounds like you're very far apart as far as, you know,
05:51I think we've got to agree to disagree on this one.
05:54I don't think this is going to be a match, Trent.
05:56I think Sarah kind of just was taken back by everything that went down.
06:00So maybe we just kind of wash our hands of this one and just go our separate ways.
06:05Yeah, definitely.
06:07Okay.
06:07Definitely.
06:08All right.
06:08Well, Trent, thanks for reaching out.
06:10Sarah, thanks for your time.
06:11And I wish you both luck, okay?
06:13All right.
06:15Yeah, thanks a lot.
06:16All right.
06:16Take care.
06:18Wow.
06:19A lot going on there.
06:21But he's right, though.
06:22He doesn't, I mean, she doesn't even know him.
06:25So you're saying that he's right because she doesn't have kids?
06:30Well, she doesn't know the relationship between the daughter and the father.
06:35She doesn't know, I mean, sometimes parents have to speak like that to their kids to get
06:40them to listen, especially around 12 years old.
06:42That's true.
06:43A 12-year-old daughter?
06:44That's true.
06:45But do you do that right in front of somebody at a table on a date?
06:48Or do you excuse yourself and walk outside?
06:50I mean, probably could have excused himself, yeah.
06:53But, I mean.
06:55All right.
06:55Well, this will be interesting to see where people are at on this.
06:56That's 800-992-1099, 800-992-1099.
07:03Hit us up.
07:03Whose side are you on?
07:04I mean, I don't know.