Second Date Update - Three's Company
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00:00Well, Alexa sounds really bummed out, which is obviously not cool.
00:03She has not heard back from Kurt since their date.
00:06They went to Sparkman Wharf.
00:07Yeah, she actually kind of described the perfect date.
00:11She's like, he bought dinner, she bought some drinks.
00:13They were both talking about going out and coming up with ideas to do on a second date.
00:18So it makes me think that something had to happen after the date was over,
00:22because it sounded like the first one was perfect.
00:23All right, so we have Kurt on hold with us.
00:26We want to bring him on the phone.
00:28Kurt, you there?
00:30Yeah.
00:30Hey, Kurt, we appreciate you coming on with us, man.
00:33We know you talked to Kevin off the air for a little bit.
00:35I think he gave you kind of a snapshot of what we're doing here,
00:37but we want to talk to you about a date you went on.
00:39This is our second date update, and we talk to people every day about dates they go on,
00:43and there's a particular date that you went on with a girl named Alexis
00:47that we wanted to ask you about.
00:48I mean, would you have a couple minutes?
00:51Yeah.
00:52All right, so we heard you guys met online.
00:55You guys went to Sparkman Wharf.
00:56We were talking about this, is that she described, like,
00:59it sounded like a really fun, perfect date for the both of you.
01:03I guess you guys even talked about hanging out again.
01:06But since that date, there's been no more talk of hanging out again and no talk at all,
01:12and she's just trying to figure out what's going on.
01:14And we were hoping you would fill us in on this.
01:16Yeah, well, I mean, first off, gosh, listen, she was a great girl.
01:24She was super pretty, and I did have, like, a great time on the date, right?
01:30But at the end, just before we're getting ready to leave, go our separate ways and everything like that,
01:36I guess, you know, she'd had a couple of drinks, and she just kind of offhandedly was like,
01:39yeah, no, I have to get home.
01:41I've got to sit her with the kids.
01:42And my mind immediately went, wait, what?
01:46Oh, did you not know she had kids?
01:48No.
01:49No.
01:50She, you know, like, that's the thing with online dating is that, you know,
01:54everybody kind of leaves some stuff out of their profile and stuff like that,
01:57and she didn't say anything about it.
01:59And she didn't say kid.
02:01She said kids, right?
02:03Is that something you care about?
02:05Do you care if she has kids?
02:07I don't mind kids, but I found out when I started asking about it, she has three kids
02:13by three different men, which that threw up an immediate red flag for me.
02:20I was like, no, uh-uh, no.
02:22So has she been married before then?
02:25Actually, that came up.
02:26She has never been married before.
02:28Okay.
02:28So I'm thinking to myself, okay, you've got three kids by three different guys.
02:32Can't keep a man.
02:34None of them have ever married you.
02:35Anything like that, like, that's a pretty clear red flag.
02:39She is the common denominator for all of that stuff, right?
02:44So, like, what kind of woman is she that she's, you know, been, you know,
02:50she's had three kids with three different guys, and she doesn't mention it up front, right?
02:56Like, she didn't put anything about that, you know, anything like that,
02:58her profile or anything.
02:59So, I mean, she didn't forget she had kids when she made her online dating profile.
03:04So, clearly, she's trying to, like, slide something in.
03:08And that just, that was a huge red flag for me.
03:10I was just, like, not a thing.
03:11Did you guys have a great date up until the point that you found out about that information?
03:16It sounds like you guys are on your way to having a second date, though.
03:21Well, yeah, but I'm sure she had great dates with those three other guys up until the point
03:25where she had kids with them, and they broke up, and she went on to do that with another guy.
03:30So, you're just like, nope, once you heard that, you're done.
03:34Yeah, I was out.
03:35Okay.
03:36Right there.
03:37Kurt, Alexis is on the phone with us.
03:38That's how we got your phone number.
03:40And I want to bring her back on because I want to get her side of things.
03:43I don't want to pass any judgment here.
03:45Alexis, you there?
03:47I'm here.
03:48Okay, you heard what Kurt had to say.
03:49I'll just kind of let you respond to him.
03:51Yeah.
03:52Here's the thing.
03:53Yes, I have three kids, three different dads.
03:56That is my past, and the fact that he's holding that against me never mentioned anything.
04:01I mean, I'm making assumptions that, like, oh, what did she do to get rid of them?
04:05Like, the reason I don't put it on my profile is because people make assumptions without asking
04:10the situation.
04:11Yes, I went in, had relationships, had kids.
04:16They didn't work out.
04:17It's better than staying with someone that I'm not happy with.
04:20I don't regret, you know, having my children.
04:23And so the fact that someone would just make these assumptions about me and not even ask
04:27me about it and just ghost me, like, that's not fair.
04:32Like, I don't understand what assumptions you're worried about people making.
04:35Like, the assumption is that you're with me.
04:39Guys, none of the relationships, doubt.
04:41You had kids with all of them.
04:43Like, that's upfront information.
04:46You're the common denominator.
04:47Like, what's the commitment issue?
04:49Look, not everyone has the best judgment.
04:51There are a lot of bad men out there.
04:53And maybe I did not make the best decisions in relationships.
04:56But had I told you that at the beginning of the date, we wouldn't have had an amazing
05:00date because you would have prejudged me.
05:01And we had a great time and a great connection.
05:04And I had hoped that when you found this out, you would be like, oh, you know, we had a really
05:07great connection.
05:08So let me just see what's really going on as opposed to making the assumptions that you
05:13made.
05:13Hey, Alexis, I have a question for you.
05:15Are all these guys still in your life?
05:18Like, are they a part of your kids' lives?
05:19Absolutely.
05:20Okay.
05:20I'm a great mom.
05:22I have great relationships with their fathers.
05:25It did not work out.
05:26Like, I'm not like this evil person that just manipulates men to have a child.
05:31Like, I don't understand what is happening.
05:34I mean, Kurt, you said up to that point you did have a good time on the date with her.
05:40Yeah.
05:40You should give her another chance.
05:43I mean, what do you think about maybe hanging out again?
05:46Well, no.
05:47Okay.
05:47Up to that point, I had a good date with her because she was wanting to me through the
05:51entire date.
05:52I was not lying.
05:53It did not come up.
05:54If I told you that at the beginning of the date, I guarantee you would have found a way
05:59to get out of it.
06:00Yeah.
06:00Am I right?
06:01That's not a situation I want to be involved in.
06:03You know, guys, I'm going to jump in real quick.
06:05I'm going to jump in.
06:06Listen, Alexis, there's no judgment coming from here, from this studio.
06:11I will tell you this, though.
06:12It is a specific situation that someone's going to be down for, and you're going to
06:17want someone who is down for it.
06:19And Kurt is just not that guy.
06:21No.
06:22You know, I think you're getting that message.
06:25I'm sorry we can't make it work out with Kurt.
06:27I do appreciate you reaching out to us.
06:29Kurt, thank you for coming on the phone with us, and I hope you have a great day.
06:34You got it.
06:35See ya.
06:35Yeah, I mean, you got to have someone who is okay with that specific situation, because
06:39that could be a hard one.
06:41I was just thinking about, I mean, we have to split, you know, the times, and hey, can
06:46I pick him up later?
06:47Can you drop him off later?
06:48Because I have this going on.
06:49Can you imagine trying to juggle that with three different...
06:52Tough.
06:52Yeah.
06:53That would be a nightmare.
06:55It would.
06:55But she was able to go out on a date, so she's got some kind of a system, I guess.
07:00All right.
07:00Where are you at on this?
07:01We want to know.
07:02Alexis and Kurt.
07:03800-992-1099.
07:05800-992-1099.
07:06Hit us up.
07:07amment.
07:07Damn.
07:07All right.
07:08Utah.
07:09Yeah.
07:17Let's go.
07:22Okay.
07:24Let's go.
07:31Okay.