Second Date Update - Occupational Hazard
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00:00Rob's buddies told him to call us because he heard that we did the second date update.
00:04And we do.
00:05Yeah.
00:05Commercial free new country 99.5 QYK.
00:08We want to set him back up with Aubrey after their date.
00:11They went to Dunedin, got some dinner.
00:13Great place to hang out.
00:15And now he is looking for a second date, but can't seem to close it.
00:20We're going to see if we can do that for him.
00:22Aubrey has agreed to talk to us.
00:24So I'm pumped on that.
00:25Aubrey, you there?
00:26Yeah, I'm here.
00:27Aubrey, thank you for coming on.
00:28I know that's a weird ask to say, hey, you want to go on the radio with us?
00:32But thank you for being cool about it.
00:34And we want to just ask you about this guy, Rob, and why you're not talking to him anymore.
00:40Because he seemed like a normal guy and he seemed like someone that, you know, you could get to know a little bit better.
00:45And for some reason, you have not tried to hang out with him again.
00:49Yeah, I mean, you know, we went on dates, had a good time.
00:52And then he, you know, casually mentioned to me that he works with his ex every single day.
00:58He works with his ex.
01:00And I was just like, what?
01:02Like, that is so weird to me.
01:05And I just was like, I don't want to spend every day thinking about, like, are they flirting?
01:10Do they still have feelings?
01:11Like, I just think it's so inappropriate to try to have a relationship with somebody else when you work with your ex.
01:18Okay, but, I mean, does he own his own company?
01:20Is it something that he can control?
01:22No.
01:22I mean, I would think someone would want to get another job.
01:26Like, I feel like there has to be feelings if they both stay in that job.
01:30There's no reason he can't leave.
01:33All right.
01:33Well, I can guarantee you that was not what Rob was thinking when he called us.
01:36He did not know why you were not getting back to him.
01:39But I want to let you know that we do have him on the phone with us, Aubrey.
01:41And I just want to get his take on this.
01:45Rob, you there?
01:46Yeah, I mean, I can't believe because I work with my ex, you aren't calling me back.
01:50Like, you didn't even talk to me about that.
01:52Why wouldn't you say anything when we were talking or after I said it or maybe after the date?
01:57Like, why didn't you tell me that that was an issue?
02:00I mean, I don't really think I owed you that.
02:02And the fact that you don't think you should get another job is really weird to me.
02:07Like, what else do I have to explain?
02:09I mean, like, I don't have any feelings for her at all.
02:13Like, and I don't understand why quitting my job is the only solution.
02:16We work in completely different – we work on different floors.
02:20We work on completely different departments.
02:22I'm over in sales.
02:24She's in customer service.
02:25We do not interact.
02:27How do I know that?
02:28I don't want to spend my days thinking about it, worrying about it.
02:31That's just not how I want to live my life.
02:34I mean, I get that, but why couldn't have this been a conversation?
02:38I mean, I guess you don't owe me anything, but that would have been, like, a little bit of decency to, like, hey, we have this great date and then just nothing.
02:45I mean, the fact that you already don't think to switch jobs, I mean, I feel like you wouldn't have understood anyway.
02:53But I guarantee most women would agree with me.
02:57Well, Aubrey, do you think it's a lot to ask somebody after a first date to switch jobs?
03:01I mean, he should have done it before we even went on a date.
03:05Like, no one wants to be with someone that works with their ex.
03:08That's just crazy.
03:09I mean, I view success regardless of environment.
03:13Like, you know, I mean, I've got a good job.
03:15I make really good money.
03:16And, I mean, we could have – if dates went well and we started dating and we actually had some communication, we could have eventually discussed me transferring somewhere.
03:24But, I mean, it's not – it's going to be whatever is best for me and whoever I'm dating, not just to cater to your insecurities.
03:33It has nothing to do with being insecure.
03:36It's just –
03:36Really?
03:37You just said that you would be sitting at home, woe is me, thinking all day, oh, no, this man is cheating on me.
03:44Whatever shall I do?
03:45That's exactly what you just said.
03:47How do you know she doesn't have feelings for you still?
03:50What would that matter?
03:51I don't talk to her.
03:52I don't ever see her.
03:53Whatever goes on in somebody else's mind that's completely irrelevant to me has no impact on me.
04:00I mean, you can say all these things, but reality would be otherwise.
04:05Well, I think we have very different realities here.
04:07Yeah, I would agree on that for sure.
04:09All right, yes.
04:09So, are you saying that this is going to definitely be a deal-breaker for you, Aubrey?
04:13Because it sounded like you guys did have a good date.
04:16Yeah, 100% deal-breaker.
04:17Okay.
04:18Man, that's fine by me.
04:20I'm big on communication, and so, like, after the first date, I can't get communication.
04:25I'm out, too.
04:26It's all good.
04:27I really appreciate you guys calling in and doing this for me.
04:29I just kind of wanted an answer because I really liked her, and I thought everything went well on the date,
04:34but I didn't know I had been to a therapy rabbit hole, so I'm good, too.
04:40All right, guys.
04:41Well, I will let you both go.
04:43I appreciate your time, and you guys have a great day, okay?
04:46You too, bud.
04:47All right.
04:47See you.
04:48All right.
04:49I got a few thoughts on this, but I want to get yours first.
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