Second Date Update - Don't Rock the Boat
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00:00Well, Tyler has reached out today about his date with Marissa, and it sounded like a super fun date.
00:05It's a commercial-free New Country 99.5 QYK, and apparently they went out on the boat.
00:09And went to the sandbar, and it sounds like they were hugging and kissing on each other and having a great day out in the sun.
00:16And he's like, I don't know what happened.
00:17He goes, we were taking all these pictures and selfies, but for some reason, she is not responding because he tried to get a hold of her the next day to take her up for lunch.
00:24Yep, never heard from her, trying to figure it out.
00:27We actually have Marissa on the phone.
00:28Kevin has tracked her down.
00:30She knows a little bit about what we want to talk to her about.
00:32So, Marissa, good morning.
00:35How are you?
00:36Good morning.
00:37I'm doing well.
00:38How are you?
00:38Good.
00:39Well, we heard all about this date that you went on with Tyler.
00:43Sounds like you guys invited him out on your boat or your friend's boat.
00:47I'm not sure who it was.
00:48And you guys had an awesome day.
00:51He said you guys were taking selfies and laying in the sun and floating around.
00:54And he's described it as one of the best dates he's been on.
00:57And for some reason, he has not been able to get in touch with you since the date.
01:01So, what happened?
01:04He seemed really nice.
01:05And I did like him.
01:07So, I was looking forward to it.
01:09But he showed up and he didn't bring anything.
01:13He just showed up.
01:14Like, he didn't bring alcohol.
01:16He drank all of ours.
01:17He didn't bring food.
01:18He ate all of ours.
01:19He didn't offer money for gas or anything.
01:22Like, I don't know.
01:24It just felt so rude.
01:25And then when we got back to the dock, he just dipped.
01:30Like, within two minutes, he's like, okay, bye.
01:32Like, thanks for everything.
01:33Bye.
01:34Oh, that is the worst.
01:35When you take somebody out on your boat and they don't offer to help clean up.
01:38I know.
01:39He didn't even offer.
01:41I mean, we have to, like, wash out the cooler.
01:44We have to, like, wash the boat.
01:46I mean, there's a lot of work to do when you get off the boat.
01:49Yes, I know.
01:50So, I just had this really bad taste in my mouth.
01:53And I'm like, nope.
01:54I guess he's not who I thought he was.
01:57I was really hoping he'd just, like, bring something, you know?
02:00Or just offer to help anything.
02:02Right.
02:03Yeah, if you're a boat owner, you just want to hear somebody offer to help out.
02:06Especially if they've been hanging out and eating your food and drinking your drinks all day long.
02:11Marissa, here's the deal.
02:12We got your number from Tyler.
02:14And we have him on hold right now.
02:16We want to bring him back on so we can, you know, ask him about this.
02:19Tyler, are you there?
02:21Yeah, really?
02:23I mean, we met up the night before.
02:26We, like, started meeting up at, like, 9.
02:28Probably got done at midnight.
02:30And it was super late.
02:31And you're, like, want to come out on the boat tomorrow?
02:34But you got to beat her at 9 a.m.
02:36Like, when am I going to?
02:37And I offered to bring something.
02:38But you're, like, no, we got everything.
02:39And I don't have time to go shopping.
02:41And you're, like, no, don't worry about it.
02:43You don't need to bring anything.
02:43And then, like, you sit there and you're mad at me when I was literally, like, can I get anything?
02:49And you're, like, no, we got food.
02:50Plenty of alcohol.
02:51Just come.
02:52Yeah, but that's what, like, people say.
02:54That's what everyone says.
02:55You still go above and beyond.
02:57Like, places are open at 7 a.m. or 8 a.m.
02:59You could have done something or you could have at least offered money.
03:02You just didn't do anything.
03:04You did.
03:05Yeah, what about you?
03:06What about you taking off when they got back to the marina?
03:09I had to get home.
03:10I had a dog.
03:11I have a dog.
03:12Like, we were out there all day.
03:13I didn't think we were going to be there that long.
03:16And, like, my poor dog has been inside for, like, 12, 14 hours.
03:20I didn't want him exploding on my rug.
03:25Yes, yes.
03:25Never good.
03:26I don't know.
03:27It's so rude.
03:27You could have even, like, been, like, I have a dog.
03:30What can I do to help?
03:32I don't have much time.
03:33But you didn't do anything.
03:33You're just like, thanks so much.
03:34Bye.
03:35It's kind of rude, Tyler.
03:36I mean, you show up with nothing, and then you bail when the boat's docked.
03:40I mean.
03:41I offered before.
03:43I said thank you.
03:44We had a nice time.
03:46I was going to take you to lunch and pay for it the next day.
03:48Like, I don't know.
03:53Marissa, I mean, he was going to take you to lunch the next day.
03:55I mean, he had to get home because of a dog situation.
03:58I can understand that.
03:59Yeah, I mean, you and I both have dogs, and I get that, too.
04:02But, Marissa, is this something maybe you can look past and maybe can make this up to you?
04:06On your next date?
04:08No.
04:08Just overall, it was a bad taste in my mouth.
04:11Like, there's just etiquette, and that's not who I want to be with.
04:16I mean, that's whatever.
04:17But it's like, you expect something when you say, don't bring anything.
04:21Like, that's different from my friends.
04:23If they say, yeah, bring something, I get it.
04:25And if they don't, I'm like, all right, we're good today.
04:27Like, you're creating something out of nothing.
04:30But, all right.
04:31Well, I'm not your friend.
04:32I'm someone who you're trying to date.
04:34I mean, first impressions.
04:36You kind of blew that one, it sounds like Tyler.
04:39I think you're, the two, you're not, like, understanding I offered and nothing.
04:45So, like, then if I do break something, oh, you didn't listen.
04:48He can't listen.
04:49Like, you're setting me up, lose, lose.
04:51All right.
04:52Okay.
04:53Well, thank you both for coming on today.
04:55I'm sorry we couldn't match you up for another date.
04:58Looks like a little miscommunication here.
04:59Tyler, Marissa, you guys have a great day.
05:02I mean, I can't really, but at least I got my answer.
05:04You got your answer.
05:05So, I appreciate you helping.
05:06You got it.
05:07You guys have a good day.
05:08Thanks.
05:09Bye.
05:10All right.
05:10See ya.
05:11I mean, if you've never been on a boat before, maybe you make that mistake.
05:15But it sounds like that was his first time ever being on a boat.
05:18But, yeah, you always, I mean, you're a hero if you show up with a six-pack.
05:22Anything.
05:23Yeah.
05:23I think just the rule of thumb, if somebody invites you over or invites you out or anything,
05:29you just, you should show up with something or offer.
05:32If you don't have anything, like he said, it was late.
05:34I mean, they were at the bar late the night before.
05:36I mean, it was maybe hard for him to get that.
05:38But, hey, here's, you know, come up with cash and say, hey, here's, you know, 50 bucks for gas or something.
05:44Well, sure.
05:45Definitely.
05:46Because, I mean, boating is expensive when it comes to launching a boat, cleaning a boat, and also gas and everything.
05:51Oh, the gas itself is, you know, almost six bucks.
05:53You want to make sure that you are definitely offering something.
05:56I mean, even if they weren't on a boat, like you said, like if they're just going over to her house or whatever or going out or offering to pay for a dinner, the offer is what is the big deal.
06:05Because, like, people that I go out all the time that, you know, and if we go out on the boat, people will offer to, like, hey, let me help you clean the boat.
06:11Let me give you some gas money.
06:13And a lot of times I go, no, I got it.
06:14It's all good.
06:15But I just appreciate the offer.
06:17Right.
06:17But this guy is like, you told me now, so I didn't do anything.
06:20He took it very literal when he said, don't bring anything.
06:22But I don't know if it should have been a deal breaker.
06:24Maybe he's just new to the whole boating life.
06:27I know.
06:27She said she liked him.
06:28I mean, she liked him enough where she met him and then the next day, you know, wanted to spend the afternoon with him and invite her on her friend's boat.
06:36So, I don't know.
06:38Maybe she missed out.
06:39Well, where do you stand on this?
06:40It's Tyler's side, Marissa's side, 800-992-1099, 800-992-1099.
06:45Hit us up.