Second Date Update - Up In Smoke
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00:00Well, Danny, he said he's heartbroken about his date.
00:03It's the second date update right now.
00:04Commercial-free New Country, 99.5 QYK.
00:07They went to Kona Grill, had a great time.
00:10Lana, there was some kissing going on in the parking lot after dinner.
00:12Yeah, he said she grabbed his hand and they started kissing.
00:16So they decided that they were going to go to another bar
00:20because they didn't want the night to end.
00:22And he's like, we'd already made plans, too, for a second date.
00:26And I guess something happened.
00:28And she went into the bathroom and all of a sudden walked out.
00:30She says, I have an Uber coming. I'm leaving.
00:32And he hasn't talked to her since.
00:34That's weird.
00:35So we're thinking maybe something, she got sick or something.
00:38We do have her on hold right now.
00:40And she has agreed to talk to us.
00:42So I think that's pretty cool of her.
00:44Let's bring her on.
00:45Lori, are you there?
00:46Yeah, I'm here.
00:47Hey, Lori.
00:48Hey, again, we definitely don't want to embarrass you
00:51if something happened where you got sick or whatever.
00:54But you just heard us kind of describe your date with Danny.
00:58And he's just really confused on why he hasn't heard from you since the date.
01:02And we were hoping maybe to shed some light on that.
01:04But he basically just told us that you guys had a great time.
01:07You went to Kona Grill.
01:08There was some kissing going on.
01:10Then you guys went and had some expensive drinks at a place right by there.
01:16And now nothing from you.
01:18So we kind of want to know what's up.
01:19Is everything cool?
01:21Yeah.
01:22And I'm not embarrassed at all.
01:24And I wasn't sick.
01:25So I need to say that.
01:27Oh, that's good.
01:27And also, well, the way you're describing these expensive drinks at this place we went to,
01:34the reason they were expensive is because it's to make up for the atmosphere,
01:39which is a freaking cigar bar.
01:42Oh.
01:42Oh, I know where you guys went.
01:44Okay.
01:44All right.
01:45Wait, where'd they go?
01:46Well, I don't know if I want to put the name out there.
01:48Oh, it's the one next to International?
01:50Yeah.
01:50Okay.
01:51It's right over there.
01:51Okay.
01:52So I'm guessing that's not the place that you want to hang out.
01:56That's not the place any woman wants to hang out on a first date.
02:00I mean, it's so gross.
02:03There's all these girls in, like, short dresses, flaunting their curves.
02:08Like, the fact that he thought it was okay to bring me into a cigar bar,
02:13which, by the way, he started smoking a cigar.
02:17It was just like, no, I'm not sitting here for 45 minutes for you to enjoy a cigar
02:23while I'm going to end up reeking.
02:27Yeah.
02:27It does take a long time to smoke a cigar.
02:29It does.
02:29Yeah.
02:30And you do get a smell on you.
02:32I mean, they're pretty good at ventilating.
02:34I've been there.
02:34You've been pretty good at ventilating the place, but, yeah.
02:36Yeah, but you get a smell.
02:37I got you.
02:38If you don't like cigar smoke, you're not going to like a bar like that.
02:40Oh, you're not going to like a cigar bar if you don't like cigar smoke.
02:42Right.
02:42Absolutely.
02:43That's for sure.
02:44Yeah, to the point where, too, when I got myself an Uber, got out of there, got home,
02:51I had to take my clothes off in the garage before I entered my apartment.
02:55Oh, is that bad?
02:56It was so bad.
02:57I just cannot believe that he would think I'd enjoy that in any way.
03:03All right.
03:03Well, here's the deal.
03:04I can assure you, Lori, that Danny didn't think you would have a problem with that, obviously.
03:09And he was confused.
03:10I'm glad you weren't sick, and I'm glad you're okay and all that.
03:13But I want to bring him back on, because we do have him on the phone with us, Lori.
03:16Hey, Danny.
03:17Yeah, look, it's not that big of a deal.
03:20It's not like I don't smoke cigars every day.
03:24I'm sorry.
03:24I guess I should have thought better about that, or I should have asked you or something.
03:28But I don't know.
03:29I wanted to celebrate.
03:29We were having a nice time.
03:31It's a great place.
03:32It's a really nice place.
03:33Those were very expensive drinks, very nice drinks.
03:36It wasn't being cheap or anything.
03:39But like I said, don't worry.
03:41I won't smoke cigars or anything.
03:43I don't think that should be a deal breaker.
03:46I think we could do this again.
03:48No.
03:48Here's the thing, though, too, is how do I know you don't smoke cigars when on our first date,
03:54this is who you're showing me you are, right?
03:56You think that's appropriate to do on a first date.
03:59I'm a guy that likes cigars.
04:01It's okay.
04:01I don't smoke them all the time.
04:03But you clearly smoke them.
04:05And that's not for me.
04:07It's really gross.
04:08The fact that you don't see why this was an issue to bring a woman to a cigar bar for a first date.
04:15And like I didn't have to.
04:15No.
04:15All right.
04:16All right.
04:16Maybe it wasn't the best move.
04:18It was like $27 on your bourbon.
04:20Like get over yourself.
04:22A majority of the guys hang out.
04:24A majority of the people in there are dudes hanging out, right?
04:27No.
04:28There's plenty of women that hang out there, too.
04:30Women can like cigars, too.
04:31No, I agree with you.
04:33But I'm just telling you from my experience of being there, it's a majority of guys.
04:36So maybe not the best place to take your date, right, Danny?
04:40I don't know.
04:40I didn't think it would be that big of a deal.
04:43I guess I should have known better.
04:45Because you smoke cigars.
04:46But like to somebody who doesn't like the smell of cigars, you know, sometimes you can handle one.
04:52But when you walk into a place and there's like 20, 30 people smoking a cigar, that's a lot.
04:57Yeah.
04:57It's, it's, they got high feelings.
04:59It's, it's well ventilated.
05:01It's not like a smoky little den.
05:03And like, it's not bad.
05:04Windows are cranked open.
05:05Yeah.
05:05It is a cigar bar.
05:07There is cigar smoke.
05:09My clothes reeked.
05:11I said, I literally had to change before I went into my apartment.
05:14Like, it's not the vibe.
05:16And for you to think that that was okay to, like, we had had such a great day.
05:21And then you're going to go do this?
05:23Like, go do that with your buddies once every.
05:26That's a nice thing to do.
05:28You're making it sound, you're making it sound way worse than it is.
05:31I think you're blowing this way out of proportion.
05:33Well, let me ask this.
05:34Okay.
05:35So, obviously, not the best move, Lori, to go get a drink at the cigar bar on a first
05:41date.
05:41We got that.
05:42Now, you were obviously hitting it off up until that point.
05:45Yeah.
05:46Big time.
05:46So, now that he said, hey, I should have rethought this, should have played it differently, he's
05:52acknowledging that.
05:53I mean, would you be willing to go out with him again?
05:55No, because he also just said, I'm blowing this out of proportion.
05:59Like, this is how I feel.
06:00It was inappropriate.
06:02It was gross.
06:03We were around all those women who worked it.
06:06No.
06:07None of that was appropriate or okay.
06:09And the fact that you don't see it and aren't like, oh, my God, I'm such an idiot.
06:13Like, oh, forgive me.
06:14That's not happening.
06:15Like I said, I'm sorry.
06:17I should have been more aware.
06:19But, yeah, I think you're being a little harsh here.
06:22You can't say sorry and then add in a big old but.
06:26Oh, I'm sorry.
06:30All right, guys.
06:31Well, we're going to let you go.
06:33Lori, thank you for coming on with us again.
06:35Danny, thank you as well.
06:37I'm sorry it didn't work out.
06:38You guys take care.
06:39All right.
06:40We'll do.
06:40All right.
06:41Yeah, I mean, that's not a spot you take a first date.
06:43I'm surprised he didn't say, like, hey, there's a cigar bar right here.
06:47Let's go get a drink.
06:48They got great bourbon or whatever.
06:49Oh, he totally should have.
06:51Yeah.
06:51You can't just nonchalantly take somebody to a cigar bar.
06:54No.
06:54Yeah.
06:55Because you're either going to like it or you're not going to like it.
06:58And she obviously did not like it.
06:59But they had a great date up until that point.
07:01And he kind of did say sorry earlier on in the call.
07:04I thought they were going to for sure be able to reconcile this.
07:07I think we got a new country song title.
07:09You can't say sorry and put a butt in there.
07:12A big butt.
07:13A big butt in there.
07:15All right.
07:16Where are you at on this?
07:17Are you with her?
07:18Are you with him?
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