Second Date Update - Just A Kiss
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00:00Right now, we've got to dive into this second date update a little bit.
00:02We're trying to help out Hannah and get her set back up on another date with Ian,
00:06which sounded like a good first date, and, you know, it could be risky if you think about it,
00:11but it seemed like it went well because it was kind of a group date.
00:14She said it was so much fun.
00:17She's like, my friends were having a good time with his friends.
00:20His friends were having a good time with my friends.
00:22She goes, we just had a ton of fun.
00:24And she's like, I was totally being attentive to him, and we were really hitting it off.
00:28And she's like, I don't understand.
00:30We were having a great time.
00:32She hasn't heard from him since their date.
00:34We actually have him on hold right now.
00:35Ian is the mystery guy that's kind of disappeared, so we're going to talk to him right now.
00:41Ian, you there?
00:42Hey, yeah.
00:43What's up?
00:44Hey, man.
00:44I appreciate you agreeing to talk to us today.
00:47I know you talked to Kevin, and he told you this was about a date you went on,
00:51but it was kind of a group date, and we're talking about Hannah,
00:53and she told us that you guys had a great time together.
00:57Went bar hopping in South Tampa, and your friends were there.
01:01Her friends were there, and it just was a smooth night.
01:04But she has not heard from you since that date and is just kind of confused on what's going on.
01:09So we thought we'd ask you straight up, what's going on here?
01:14You've got to be kidding me, right?
01:15She doesn't know why I didn't respond to her?
01:18No, she doesn't.
01:19No, uh-uh.
01:19Did she tell you about the guy she made out with in front of me?
01:23Oh, boy.
01:24No, that didn't come up.
01:26Yikes.
01:27Yeah.
01:28What was that situation?
01:31I mean, we were out, and like she said, all our friends were hanging out together.
01:34It was a decent time.
01:35And then one of her friends, just out of nowhere, dares her, offers her 50 bucks if she goes and makes out with a stranger,
01:43some dude at the bar who just happens to be there.
01:46And she did it?
01:47Yeah, she's a couple drinks in, you know, and she's spilling loose, and she goes and does it.
01:52What did you say?
01:53And I'm like, I mean, everyone's laughing and having a good time.
01:56What could I do?
01:57I just kind of smiled and went with it.
01:59But inside, I'm thinking, you know, this is your first impression to me?
02:03That's a good point.
02:04This is crazy.
02:05That's crazy.
02:06So she just went and did this and then walked back over to your group and acted like nothing happened or what?
02:11Oh, yeah, she came back to the table, sat down, got her 50 bucks from her friend, and ordered another round like nothing had happened.
02:18My goodness.
02:20Wow.
02:2150 bucks, that's it?
02:23Wow.
02:2450 bucks is 50 bucks, Lana.
02:25That's right.
02:26A couple of drinks, yeah.
02:29All right.
02:30Well, I could see why that would be a turnoff, obviously.
02:33She did not tell us that.
02:35We do have her on the phone with us, though.
02:37Ian, I'd like to bring her back on and really listen to what she has to say about this, if that's cool with you.
02:42I mean, I guess I'm already here, right?
02:43Yeah.
02:44All right.
02:44Here we go.
02:45Hannah, are you there?
02:46I'm here.
02:47Hannah, is that how things went down?
02:49You got dared to go kiss some dude, and you did it?
02:52Yeah, I did.
02:53And, oh, my God, Ian, I cannot believe that that's why you're not returning my calls.
02:58Like, that is so, so miniscule.
03:00You can't believe it?
03:01You were, it was fun.
03:03I was, I mean, it's not something that I always do, but you were there.
03:06You saw my friend dare me.
03:07You were into it.
03:08Your friends were into it.
03:10Your friend high-fived me afterwards, you know?
03:13Like, I don't understand, like, what's the actual?
03:17I was not into it.
03:19No, I wouldn't go that far.
03:20I might have smiled and tried to get past it, but, yeah.
03:24You were laughing.
03:24And we're on our first date.
03:26It was, like, I mean, yeah, but it was, like, a preliminary date, and you didn't, you know,
03:30protest when you heard the terms or anything.
03:33You weren't, like, actually, that's really out of line, or, like, that sounds like a bad
03:36idea.
03:37It was, like...
03:38Well, what am I supposed to do?
03:39Like, I met you 20 minutes ago.
03:41What am I supposed to start telling you what to do?
03:44I'm not that guy, okay?
03:45It was about an hour and a half into the night, and, I mean, we're bar hopping.
03:49This is, you know, I mean, kind of a little bit of a bar culture thing.
03:53I mean, it was...
03:54It just doesn't seem, like, that big of a deal.
03:56We weren't dating, you know?
03:57Like, we weren't exclusive.
03:59We were on a first date, and you made out with a stranger in front of me for money.
04:04But I didn't, like, linger there.
04:06I didn't, like...
04:06He didn't become my date.
04:08I went...
04:08You saw me walk to the other side of the bar, make out with this guy, come back, high-five
04:12your friend, collect 50 bucks, and then buy us another round and, like, continue gallivanting.
04:19Hey!
04:19He spent the money on you, Ian!
04:21Exactly!
04:22I reinvested in our date.
04:25Reinvested.
04:26Hey, I gotta ask, Hannah, was the guy you made out with, was he, like, good-looking?
04:31Was he cute?
04:32I mean...
04:32Why does that matter?
04:33It kind of does.
04:34Why does it matter?
04:35Because if he's better-looking than Ian, then it's an issue.
04:37If not...
04:38Ian's not gonna sit here and say, yeah, the guy was better-looking than me.
04:40Or maybe if he was just, like, an older, you know, unattractive man, it shouldn't matter.
04:46You know, it matters.
04:47I don't care who the guy was.
04:48It matters to me.
04:49I can't tell if you're jealous or possessive or you're just lame.
04:52Like, that's what I want to know.
04:54Because ghosting somebody is, like, is really rude either way.
04:57But also not saying how you feel at the time of, you know, an occurrence or something or
05:02before an occurrence is also immature.
05:05You know what?
05:06I don't need any lectures about maturity from someone who makes out with other people on
05:09a first date and then gets mad that I don't respond.
05:12I'm not into this.
05:13Ian, I have a feeling I know the answer to this question, but this is obviously going to be
05:16a deal-breaker for you.
05:18Yeah, it's a deal-breaker.
05:19That's why I didn't respond to her.
05:21Yeah, I got it.
05:22Yeah.
05:23Okay.
05:24Well, Hannah, now you know why Ian's not getting back to you.
05:28But I appreciate you reaching out to us and I wish you luck, okay?
05:31All right.
05:31Well, thanks, guys.
05:33All right.
05:33Sorry it didn't work out.
05:34Thanks, Ian.
05:36Thanks.
05:37Yeah.
05:37I mean, I would be out in a heartbeat.
05:39I'd be like, all right, see ya.
05:41Well, yeah.
05:42And I think she was just playing off like it was just a fun night.
05:45And was it her friends or was it his friends that dared her to do that?
05:49No, it was her friends.
05:51Which is a bad move on her friends, too.
05:53Yeah.
05:55Well, yeah.
05:57She sounds like a ton of fun, though.
05:59Yeah.
05:59Her defense was, we're not dating.
06:02It just was 50 bucks and I threw the money on you.
06:04So, is that something that you could look past?
06:06We want her to know.
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