Second Date Update - A Face In The Crowd
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00:00Well, Taylor sounds super sweet, and she's excited about her date with John.
00:04They went to Rocco's Tacos, and then she went to his softball game after that.
00:09And so they've kind of seen each other twice, but now there's been no communication.
00:14Right, because I asked her, I'm like, are you guys still texting back and forth?
00:17Is he communicating with you?
00:18And she's like, he was being super flirty over texts, and now she's like, nothing.
00:23Well, we do have him on hold right now, and he's kind of confused on what's going on, which I totally get.
00:28So let's bring him on right now and see if we can kind of clear some things up.
00:31John, you there?
00:33Yeah, hey, what's going on?
00:35Hey, John, thanks for hanging on there for a second.
00:37I know you're confused right now.
00:38I'm just going to kind of lay this out for you.
00:40We do something called a second date update, and we talk to people about dates they went on.
00:44And there's a date that you actually went on with this girl, Taylor.
00:49You guys went to Rocco's Tacos, we heard.
00:52And then she even came and supported you at your softball game.
00:55But now hasn't heard anything from you since that day.
00:58And is kind of confused on what's happening.
01:01This is nuts.
01:02I can't even believe you got me on the phone for this right now.
01:05This is getting to be way too much.
01:08What happened?
01:09Well, she...
01:10I mean, I understand this calling you is a weird thing.
01:12I get that.
01:13No, but this is even more over the top.
01:16She is just coming on way too strong.
01:19I mean, wow.
01:20Yeah, we did go out to Rocco's Tacos.
01:23We had a good date.
01:24It was nice, you know.
01:26But while we were at our date, you know, we got to talking.
01:29And I happened to mention that I play in a softball league on Monday nights.
01:33And it happened to be at a park near where she lives.
01:36You know, she told me where she lives.
01:37I'm like, oh my gosh, I play softball right by you on Monday nights.
01:40Well, fast forward to Monday night, and she just shows up at the softball game without
01:45letting me know or anything.
01:47I all of a sudden hear cheering from the fans, and I look over, and it's her, like, screaming
01:51my name in the middle of the softball game.
01:53It was so awesome.
01:54Number one fan.
01:56Yeah.
01:56But that's kind of a personal thing, you know.
01:58That's my Monday night with the guys.
02:00You know, I play softball, and, you know, I did invite her, and she just randomly shows
02:04up.
02:05Yeah, so there was no invite.
02:07There was definitely no invite.
02:08Absolutely not.
02:09And I just happened to mention that I play at a park.
02:12Maybe she thought it was an invite.
02:14Maybe she's like, maybe that was a hint.
02:16Because you did say to her, well, I play softball right down the street from where you live.
02:22Hint, hint.
02:24I'm just saying.
02:26It wasn't even just that, okay?
02:28So we did go to Rocco's Tacos on a date.
02:32While we were messaging, though, I did happen to mention, and this is before we had our first
02:37date, that I was a bartender, and I, you know, I work at a bar in town.
02:41Come to find out, my manager told me after I explained the whole situation and showed him
02:46a picture that she had come and tried to basically see me at the bar even before our first date.
02:53He recognized her and said, oh, my gosh, she was here the other night.
02:58She's kind of scoping out the scene.
03:00Yeah.
03:01So before our first date, she had come almost stalking me and was, like, looking at me and
03:08staring at me while I'm working.
03:11But she didn't say anything to you that night when she was coming by?
03:14No, and I guess at that point, you know, when it was just that, okay, you know, she's interested.
03:20She wants to make sure I'm, you know, a real guy and actually work where I say I work, you
03:25know, so I kind of just let it go.
03:27But then the softball thing, to show up uninvited to that, and, you know, my teammates are even
03:33asking, like, who is that?
03:35Is that your girlfriend?
03:36And I'm just like, no, that is not my girlfriend.
03:39Okay.
03:39There's a lot going on here.
03:41John, and I understand what you're saying about you finding out that she came to your
03:47work beforehand, and that wasn't a red flag to you at all?
03:50Not so much a red flag, just, I don't know.
03:53Again, I think maybe at the time, I thought she wanted to make sure I was who I said I
03:58was and actually had a job and was working and, you know, was just doing her reconnaissance,
04:03you know?
04:03Okay.
04:04Reconnaissance.
04:05All right.
04:05Well, listen, John, we actually have Taylor on the phone with us as well.
04:09And so I want to bring her on, just kind of get her take on this.
04:14Taylor, are you there?
04:16Yeah, I'm here.
04:17Taylor, I just want to get this straight.
04:19So before you guys ever went on a date, you actually swung by his work to see whatever,
04:24to see who he was or check him out, and didn't say anything to him.
04:28I mean, I wasn't sitting there like a stalker staring at him, like with, you know, staring
04:32daggers at him or whatever.
04:34It was just, I kind of want to check out who you're going to go out with.
04:37Okay.
04:37All right.
04:38Understood.
04:38And then you guys went to Rocco's Tacos.
04:40He said that was a great date.
04:42Yeah.
04:42But then you showed up kind of unexpectedly at the softball game?
04:46Well, it's right by my house.
04:47And I'm so confused right now because, like, I thought it'd be like a fun surprise.
04:51Like, I, you know, dressed up all cute.
04:52I thought it'd be kind of, you know, you said you wanted to see me again.
04:55So I was like, okay.
04:56So I just don't understand, like, why all of a sudden you're throwing around the word stalker
05:02when you said you play softball by my house.
05:04That was just in mid-conversation.
05:07You told me where he lived and it just, I was like, oh my gosh, that's right by the
05:12park that I play softball.
05:13In no way was that an invitation for you to just show up.
05:17I was showing interest and being supportive.
05:19And like, I'm like, why am I being vilified for that right now?
05:23Clearly you were showing interest, but I think just too much interest too quickly.
05:27Okay.
05:28So let me ask you this, John.
05:29I mean, you did say you had a great time at Rocco's Tacos.
05:32Okay.
05:32So you had a great date.
05:33So when you guys do hang out, it's a good time.
05:35Would you be willing to hang out with her again?
05:37And if it was planned and you knew what was happening?
05:40Was it behind your back?
05:42I think I'm just not interested.
05:44Well, after such a good date, you want to throw this away.
05:47It's weird.
05:48Like, we had a good time.
05:49Throw what away?
05:50Hey, we had one date.
05:54Okay.
05:55We've seen each other three times, only one of which we agreed to.
05:58That's kind of true.
05:59Is that not weird to you?
06:00That's debatable.
06:01So, John, is this going to be a no for you?
06:03Yeah, no.
06:04Just please back off, Taylor.
06:06Just don't call me again.
06:07Oh, my God.
06:08That's it.
06:09Whatever.
06:10All right, Taylor.
06:11We heard what John had to say.
06:13I'm sorry it didn't work out the way you wanted it to work out.
06:15John, thank you for coming on.
06:16I wish you both luck in your dating lives.
06:19And you guys have a great day.
06:20Yeah.
06:21Okay.
06:21All right.
06:23See ya.
06:23I almost feel kind of bad for her because it seems like her intentions weren't bad.
06:30But if you think about it, you know, showing up to his work before the date.
06:34Creepy.
06:35You know, then showing up to a softball game after the date.
06:39Not invited.
06:39Just the softball game and not the going to his work.
06:43I think he would have been okay with it.
06:45Where does she show up next?
06:46Right.
06:47That's kind of a big thing.
06:48Right.
06:49Anytime he tells her that he's doing something.
06:51Yeah.
06:52And then she just shows up.
06:52Does she show up every time?
06:53I don't know.
06:54Right.
06:54Would this have been a deal breaker for you?
06:56Is this creepy or is it cool?
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