Second Date Update - Went The Distance
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00:00All right, trying to help out David this morning on the 7-15 second date update.
00:03He's confused about his date with Haley, and we were able to track Haley down.
00:08We've got her on the phone.
00:09She has not talked to him since their date, so we're going to see if we can get some answers.
00:13Haley, are you there?
00:15Hi, I'm here.
00:16Hey, Haley.
00:17Thanks for hanging on for us, and thanks for agreeing to come on with us.
00:21We wanted to ask you about this date you went on with a guy named David.
00:26Oh, gosh.
00:28Uh-oh.
00:28Uh-oh.
00:29What happened on the date?
00:31We know that you guys went to Bar Louie, and we know you guys, he said you guys hit it off
00:36and had a lot of the same interest, talking about family.
00:38I think he talked about mountain climbing.
00:40You guys are both into that.
00:41It's awkward in Florida, but whatever.
00:44But there's indoor places.
00:45Okay, I got it.
00:46Yes.
00:46But anyway, you haven't gotten back to him since the date, and he's just trying to figure out
00:51what's going on.
00:51I guess he's reached out a few times.
00:54Oh, I don't even want to think about this date.
00:57It was a disaster.
00:58Okay, so you know a little bit, I guess.
01:03Yeah, that's pretty much what we know.
01:04He kind of gave us some bullet points.
01:05A disaster?
01:06That's kind of...
01:07Okay, well, first of all, I live in Sarasota, and I thought that we were going to meet
01:14halfway, because he lives in Newport Ritchie.
01:17But a couple of days before the date, he said, oh, I got to be honest.
01:22I have a suspended license.
01:23So would it be cool if you came up here, and then I Uber and meet you?
01:28And he said, I was really embarrassed to tell you, but I just have to be honest.
01:32And I was like, okay, interesting, but sure.
01:37So I drive an hour plus to meet him at International Mall.
01:42And, you know, we went to Bar Louis.
01:44We met up.
01:45And he just wants to have drinks, like happy hour, but no dinner.
01:51And so our date was only like an hour long, because how long are you going to sit there
01:55and drink?
01:56I had to drive forever to get back home, right?
01:58And my drive was longer than the date.
02:01Man.
02:03Did you...
02:03Wait, so was the plan originally to have dinner?
02:06One would assume if you're driving an hour to go meet somebody, Uber.
02:11Yeah, that's...
02:12She drove all that way for an hour for some drinks and no food?
02:17Yeah, and he didn't offer to sit down and talk.
02:20And finally, I'm hungry, so I order myself an appetizer.
02:25And he...
02:26It was just so rude.
02:27It was weird.
02:28Like, first of all, your license is suspended.
02:30That's very weird.
02:31And you have me drive all the way up, and then you don't offer to buy me dinner.
02:36Like, it's just...
02:37It's crazy.
02:38It's rude.
02:39So, yeah, no, I haven't talked to him since.
02:41And it's just weird.
02:43Yeah, I mean, that's not cool.
02:44I think you accommodated him by coming up here from Sarasota.
02:48Absolutely.
02:49Buy the woman a meal.
02:51Lana's on your side.
02:52Yes.
02:55All right, well, here's the deal, Haley.
02:57We actually have David on the phone with us, and I want to bring him back on, because
03:00I get what you're saying.
03:01I get why you'd be frustrated by that.
03:03Hold on a second.
03:04David, you there?
03:05Yeah, I'm here.
03:07Haley, I'm sorry.
03:07I don't have to tell you.
03:08You know, I was trying to keep it casual.
03:10I apologize.
03:11Uh, okay, thank you.
03:18That's a good start.
03:20Well, but what's the reason?
03:21I mean, besides keeping it casual, I mean, you can have a casual dinner, right?
03:25Yeah, I mean, I guess I just, you know, I didn't think that, you know, I didn't think
03:28we were trying to, you know, do all that, and, you know, dinner's more of like a time
03:32commitment.
03:32You know, usually when I go on a first date, it's usually just drinks, you know, so if
03:36we don't hit it off, you know, it's easy to just say goodbye.
03:39But, you know, I thought we did hit it off.
03:42Okay, you said it's too much of a time commitment.
03:44I committed time.
03:45Do you realize that when I drove over an hour to see you and then over an hour back, which
03:50is gas money and time and effort.
03:53So it's a little bit of a commitment for me.
03:56And so I don't think dinner is unrealistic.
03:59Like, we were at a bar with food.
04:02We were surrounded by restaurants.
04:04That's true.
04:05Right next to Rocco's taco.
04:06You know, I'm sorry, I just, I didn't realize, I didn't realize that you wanted to eat.
04:11And, uh, you know, that's, that's on me.
04:13That's my bad.
04:15Okay, well, what if he was willing to take you out on a, on a more formal date where there
04:21was dinner?
04:21Would you be willing to go out, out with him again, Haley?
04:25No, because I want to date a guy who knows how to treat a lady.
04:28I don't want to have to how to treat a lady on a first date.
04:31Like, you're a grown up, we're all grown ups.
04:33You tried, you failed, I'm sorry, I'm done.
04:35Is there anything I can do to change your mind?
04:37I mean, you know, like I, I bought you drinks.
04:39I, you know, I paid for my Uber, like, you know.
04:43Oh my gosh, you're such a big boy.
04:45You paid for your own Uber.
04:46I actually paid for the gas to put in my car to drive.
04:50Cause I pay for my car.
04:51Cause I don't have a weird legal issue.
04:53I don't know what your deal is, but congratulations that you paid for your Uber and a couple of
04:58drinks, but no, it's a deal breaker.
05:00Like, I didn't call you back on purpose.
05:06All right.
05:06I got, yeah, David, I think this one's a loss here.
05:10Yes, it is.
05:11All right.
05:11Well, listen, I'm sorry.
05:13It didn't work out for you guys.
05:15I appreciate you, David, coming on with us.
05:17Haley, thank you for your time as well.
05:19You guys take care.
05:21All right.
05:21Hey, thank you guys.
05:24He's a little clueless, right?
05:25Yeah.
05:26I don't, I don't blame her at all.
05:28I mean, if I was driving over an hour and I was even going to get a meal, I mean.
05:33What was the first date?
05:34And the thing is she was accommodating him.
05:36Yeah.
05:36So wouldn't you go the extra mile?
05:38Absolutely.
05:39You should.
05:40I would think.
05:41All right.
05:41Let's see where you're at on this.
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