Second Date Update - Oh! Snap
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00:00All right, it is the second date update right now.
00:02We have two people that we are trying to match back up on a date.
00:06And Lance has reached out, but he cannot get Brie on a first date.
00:10Yeah, I know.
00:11So he wants our help to see if we can maybe, you know, try to see if she'll go out with them.
00:15He says he's brought it up, but she just keeps pulling back and going out with them.
00:19So we're trying to figure out what's up.
00:21Yeah, they've been talking online and he's been trying to nail down this first date.
00:25It hasn't happened.
00:25So we did get Brie on the phone with us.
00:28We got her number.
00:30Brie, are you there?
00:31Hello.
00:32Hey, Brie.
00:33Thank you for agreeing to talk to us today.
00:35I think you know who we're talking about.
00:37We're talking about Lance.
00:39Yeah.
00:40Okay.
00:41So Lance, straight up, wants to see you, wants to hang out with you, wants to get a first date with you.
00:46And he can't seem to do that.
00:49We want to know why.
00:51Yeah, I have no problem talking to you about why.
00:54Okay, let's hear it.
00:55Um, I, we, we met online, Lance, and I kind of hit it off.
01:00And, um, I was really enjoying talking to him until things got weird.
01:06And, um, he just refused to move messaging over to text.
01:11He only wanted to communicate through Snapchat.
01:13Oh, you guys talk on Snapchat?
01:16Yeah.
01:16So we've been, we've been messaging back and forth on Snapchat for a while now.
01:22And, you know, he kind of hinted at wanting to take things to the next step.
01:26And, um, I'm lucky that you all were able to get him on the phone.
01:29I was like, no problem.
01:30You know, here's my number.
01:32How about, let's, let's start texting so we can, you know, be a little bit more direct with our communication.
01:38And he refused.
01:42He just wouldn't text at all.
01:44He wouldn't, wouldn't get on the phone.
01:46I'm not even convinced that Lance is his real name.
01:48Like, I feel like he has to be hiding something, right?
01:51Like, have you tried to text him, though?
01:53Well, he wouldn't give me, he wouldn't give me his, his number.
01:56It just didn't seem like a big deal to him.
01:58Oh.
01:58He was like, wow.
02:00And while we can't keep this on Snapchat, like, I do everything through Snapchat.
02:04Like, everything, all of my messages and all of my, my conversations and things is just organized through there.
02:11It's just a little bit easier.
02:12Can we leave things on Snapchat?
02:13It just felt really shady to me.
02:15Yeah, okay.
02:15Because, like, Snapchat, when you message for a while, your messages disappear.
02:20Photos that you send that you disappear.
02:21If he likes her, why won't he give her his phone number?
02:24That's kind of, that's strange.
02:26That's a big red flag right there.
02:27Okay.
02:28Well, we obviously get what you're talking about, Bree.
02:31We have Lance on the phone with us, too.
02:33That's how we got your number, obviously.
02:35Mm-hmm.
02:36I want to bring him back on.
02:37Lance, you there?
02:39All right.
02:39I just want to kind of put this out there.
02:41If it's, that's not my intention at all.
02:43Like, I wasn't, I'm not using Snapchat to hide anything.
02:46I'm not using it to be shady.
02:48I'm using it because that's what I majority use.
02:52Like, you know, me and my boys are on Snapchat and the family.
02:55So, it's just like, Snapchat is just more convenient for me.
02:58I was just using it because of, you know, everything about it.
03:01I just didn't understand why you were so unwilling to text.
03:06Like, especially when you can't keep up with messages and we're still getting to know each other.
03:10Like, there's detailed information in there that is actually, like, important for me to keep referring back to.
03:17And I don't, I, it just seems like we can make so much more of a direct connection if we were to actually use each other's phone numbers.
03:24Yeah, are you against that, Lance?
03:25Talking to her via text?
03:28No, no, no.
03:28I'm not against that.
03:29I mean, again, if that's the, if that's a really, really huge deal for you or a deal breaker, then I would do it.
03:36But it'll, it'll just be for you.
03:38I mean, Snapchat got the emojis and the filters.
03:40The emojis.
03:42I really don't get that.
03:46Like, text that bad, too.
03:49Yeah.
03:50I'm a little confused, man.
03:51Like, why do you only want to keep this?
03:53I mean, a girl gives you her number and then your thought process is, ah, I'm just going to keep Snapchatting her or not.
03:58Yeah, that's not.
03:59Texting her.
04:00That's like, that's why I feel like he's got to be, like, he's got to be hiding something.
04:03Like, you must be, like, there's got to be, like, other girls or, like, you've got a family or, or something.
04:10No, it's not like that.
04:11I just, I thought, you know, getting a girl's number or a girl getting my number nowadays is more of a formality.
04:17But we have so many other options for, for, you know, for communication, I just chose Snapchat for me.
04:25Do you have a problem?
04:26It's not making sense at all.
04:29Will you give her your phone number?
04:30Whoa.
04:32Yeah, I mean, she, she has it, you know, I, I, you know.
04:37What?
04:37No, no, you never, you never gave it to me.
04:40You just kept, you just kept messaging me back on Snapchat.
04:43Like, you kept talking with me, but.
04:45I apologize.
04:46If, if, if that's a big deal, I, I'll definitely give you my number and we can just, we can message each other.
04:52That, that's it.
04:53But I'm, I'm not hiding anything.
04:55Uh, Bree, is this somebody you'd be willing to go out with if he gave you his phone number and actually, you know, uh, reached out via text or phone call?
05:05No, absolutely not.
05:06It's a, it's a no for me.
05:07I don't know.
05:07It's just, it's just felt really sketched up until this point.
05:10Matter of fact, I, can you just go ahead and block me on Snapchat?
05:14That, you don't have to go to that extreme.
05:16I think that's pretty extreme.
05:17We don't have to do that.
05:18Like, we can, we can communicate.
05:20You want to do the texting or the phone thing?
05:22We can do that.
05:24I'm willing to do that.
05:25For real.
05:26No, I'm, it's a no for me, but.
05:29Okay.
05:30All right.
05:30Uh, Lance, you heard what she had to say?
05:32This is just not her thing.
05:33Bree, thanks for your time today.
05:35Lance, thanks for your time.
05:36I wish you both luck, okay?
05:37Yeah.
05:38I guess.
05:39Sorry it didn't work out.
05:40Yeah.
05:41I don't blame her.
05:42I would not be wanting to hook up with a guy who wouldn't give you his phone number and only communicate it through Snapchat.
05:48Yeah, it seems like very sketchy.
05:50Yeah.
05:50Something's going on there.
05:51What stuff disappears?
05:52There's no trace of it.
05:53And it's like, all right, how many other girls are you doing this with?
05:56Very good point.
05:57That is.
05:58Well, this has been a deal breaker for you.
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