Second Date Update - Making A Dent
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00:00Trying to help out Nick this morning on the second date update.
00:02He said his hopes aren't high, which is kind of a bummer.
00:04We want to make it happen for him.
00:07Yeah, he and his date, Sydney, they went to P.F. Chang's and he was all about it.
00:11He said they had a great time and he just wants to get some answers like what happened, what went wrong.
00:18Yeah, and they've got mutual friends too.
00:19So you would think they would be a good match if your friends are setting you up, you know.
00:23All right, so we actually have Sydney on the phone with us.
00:26I want to bring her back on.
00:27Sydney, are you there?
00:28Yeah, hi.
00:31Hey, Sydney, I know this is kind of a confusing phone call to get in the morning.
00:35You just heard us talking about this date you went on with Nick.
00:39And, you know, I'll just be honest with you.
00:41He's very confused because he thought things went really well between the two of you.
00:46And we were just wondering if you could maybe explain to us why you haven't gotten back to him.
00:52Yeah, I mean, I didn't know if it was like a date or a business event.
00:58Or a what?
00:59Like a business thing.
01:02He picked me up in his truck and I guess he owns like a dent and scratch repair company.
01:08And it was his work truck.
01:10Okay.
01:10After dinner, he's like, hey, do you mind if I take care of something real quick?
01:16And I was like, okay.
01:18And I kid you not, he like drove up and down the parking lot in his truck and he was soliciting people for business.
01:26He was like, I mean, he actually even went up to a woman and he was like, your car looks really all messed up.
01:32You know, maybe I can repair it for you.
01:33I mean, I was so embarrassed.
01:34I'm just sitting in the truck while he's drumming up work.
01:39I feel like there's a time and a place for everything.
01:42This is definitely not the time.
01:43Like we were on a date.
01:45Like I didn't want to sit there while he's trying to get customers.
01:48I mean, do that during work hours.
01:50It just felt super inappropriate.
01:51So he's just driving up and down the parking lot?
01:54With me in the truck.
01:56Oh.
01:56Wow.
01:57Oh, okay.
01:58All right.
01:59Well, what, did you say anything to him?
02:02I was like, I was like confused and I, and I was like, is this what you always do?
02:08And he's like, yeah, I got to sort of take advantage of, um, you know, I'm trying to build my business
02:12and, you know, we're here and there's all these dinged up cars.
02:15I was like, oh my God, what will we ever do on another date?
02:18We go to like house calls, like drive around bugging people.
02:23Oh, it wasn't, it was, it was not for me.
02:27Hey.
02:28All right.
02:28So this is a reason not to call this guy back though.
02:30I mean, he's, he's just like stirring up business here.
02:32But if that's what he does on a first date, I, you know, I just feel like it would all
02:36be about that all the time.
02:38I mean, did you admire the fact that he's a hustler?
02:42I, it just did not seem appropriate.
02:45It felt like it was, you know, all about him and his business and my time didn't matter.
02:49It just felt disrespectful.
02:51Okay.
02:51Okay.
02:52Well, Sydney, I want to let you know that we have Nick on the phone with us and I want
02:55to bring him back on.
02:56Oh, God.
02:59Nick.
03:00Yeah.
03:01Hey.
03:02Yeah.
03:02I kind of go where my business is at.
03:04I mean, you know, we talked, I'm a small business owner.
03:07It's nonstop almost.
03:09And I saw an opportunity cause we're in a big lot.
03:12I don't get why you're offended, but look, I understand if I did it for like three hours,
03:16I get that, but it was like five minutes, put out a couple of cars, talk to one lady
03:21and got you home.
03:22Like, I don't, I don't see the big deal.
03:25It wasn't five minutes.
03:26And it was totally weird to do that while I was sitting in the truck.
03:31Like we just met is our first date.
03:34I don't think that you go around like approaching people about how messy their cars are.
03:40I was there.
03:41I was embarrassed for that woman.
03:43I was embarrassed.
03:44I didn't want to be around.
03:46It was embarrassing.
03:47I mean, you're on a date.
03:48I mean, you're driving around a parking lot looking for people with what dents in their
03:53cars.
03:54Yeah.
03:54I mean, Brandon's a couple of towns over from where I live.
03:56So I'm not there a lot.
03:57So I just, you know, added five minutes.
03:59Maybe it was 10 max.
04:00Again, it was like a quick thing.
04:02And I don't know why you wouldn't be supportive of someone who's a hustler just trying to grow
04:06their business.
04:07Like you said, you're trying to get promoted at work.
04:09You know, I'm trying to grow my thing.
04:11I thought our goals were aligned there.
04:13And this is, I don't get it.
04:15But I'm, I'm doing it at work.
04:17I wasn't like doing my, I didn't like pull out my computer and paper and start working while
04:23we were sitting at the table.
04:25It was just after dinner, by the way.
04:27Yeah.
04:27Okay.
04:28All right.
04:29Maybe 10 minutes.
04:30I'm in a work truck.
04:30It's like full of stuff.
04:33It's like, I don't know.
04:35It just felt like it was, I was surrounded by, it was like it was in your office.
04:38And this all felt not the right time.
04:41I mean, why didn't you bring your work truck?
04:43That's the only car I have.
04:45Like, I don't know.
04:47I don't know what you want me to do.
04:48Rent a Ferrari for a first date.
04:50Like.
04:51That'd be awesome.
04:53You know, maybe if I could grow my business without people making me feel bad, maybe
04:58I could get a second car to have a work truck and a regular car.
05:00But like, that's where it's at right now.
05:03I just, it just wasn't for me to just sit there watching you do your work.
05:07It felt like my time wasn't being valued.
05:09And I just want to, I don't know.
05:12Good luck to you.
05:13I just don't think we're a match.
05:15Yeah.
05:15I don't think you guys are a match either, to be honest with you.
05:17I mean, not that it's my decision, but Nick, I mean, do you have an interest in going
05:21on with, out with Sydney again anyway?
05:23No, no, not, no, not how ungrateful you are.
05:26I did not see this side of you on the date.
05:30Look, you can say whatever you want.
05:31You can call me whatever you want, but just don't call me anymore.
05:35This is not going to work out.
05:36All right.
05:37Okay.
05:37All right, guys.
05:38Well, hey, Nick, now you know what's going on, man.
05:40Good luck with your business.
05:41I hope it blows up for you.
05:42And Sydney, thanks for your time this morning.
05:45You guys have a great day.
05:46Take care.
05:47All right.
05:48She's.
05:49I know, but I.
05:50I mean, she's, that's.
05:51I'm not siding with her.
05:54I don't know what else to say.
05:55She was not cool at all.
05:56I'm not siding with her.
05:58But I, but listen, you're on a date and all of a sudden the, your dates driving up and
06:02down the parking lot of a mall and handing out business cards.
06:06I mean, come on.
06:08I mean, we're all working all the time anyway.
06:10Now with, with our phones and email and stuff.
06:13He just has a different way of working, right?
06:15Yeah.
06:15But the way she's like laughing the whole time, like the whole, it's just, I just was
06:18like, lady, do you really care?
06:20Or are you just laughing this whole through this whole thing?
06:23And I just, I, I don't understand how you couldn't see that as like, all right, maybe
06:27not the time and place, but the guy's a hustler.
06:29He's erring on the side of a hard worker.
06:31Why would you be mad about that?
06:32I don't understand.
06:33Just wrong time.
06:35Let's see where you're at on this.
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