Second Date Update - In The "Works"
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00:00Well, this can get a little dicey.
00:01Steven and Rebecca worked together.
00:03Commercial-free New Country 99.5 QIK.
00:06It's our second date update.
00:07But things seem to really go well on their date.
00:10Yeah, there was a kiss at the end of the date.
00:13So that is a good sign.
00:15And then he said when he saw her at work,
00:18they hung out and talked in the break room a couple of days after that.
00:22So everything was fine.
00:23But then now the communication has stopped.
00:25And he feels like she's avoiding him a little bit.
00:27Right.
00:28All right, so we actually have her on hold right now.
00:30Let's bring her back on with us, see if we can get some answers.
00:32Rebecca, are you there?
00:34Yeah, hi.
00:35Hi.
00:36I know this is probably confusing, but we want to talk to you about Steven.
00:40I think we mentioned that to you off the air.
00:42Yeah.
00:43So we want to ask you about that date you went on with Steven.
00:46We heard you guys went to Grillsmith in Sarasota.
00:50And we know you guys worked together.
00:52And he said that the date even ended with a kiss.
00:56And that seemed to go well.
00:57Then he saw you at work a couple of days later.
00:59And you guys were bantering and everything seemed to be normal.
01:03But now it feels like you're avoiding him.
01:05And we want to know if that's true.
01:07And also, if so, why?
01:10I mean, I can't believe this is happening right now.
01:14I mean, you know, he's having you guys call and ask.
01:18You know, basically, Steven, he represented himself differently.
01:22I just, I found out some things from co-workers and it was honestly a huge turnoff.
01:29What kinds of things?
01:31Like, I don't know if he told you.
01:34We work for the same company.
01:36We're on different floors.
01:37We're not in the same department.
01:39But I found out, actually, that I am not the first girl he asked out at work.
01:45And I found this out by going, you know, and telling some other girlfriends at work.
01:50And I went on a date with, you know, Steven, et cetera.
01:53And they were all like, you're kidding me.
01:56Ew.
01:56Oh, my gosh.
01:58He asked out so-and-so and so-and-so.
02:01And I was like, wait a second.
02:03That's so weird.
02:04Like, because I've been there longer.
02:06And I just feel as though, oh, so I'm like the third or fourth choice.
02:10You know, I don't know how many others that he asked out.
02:14It's really weird.
02:16And it just turned me off completely.
02:21I have no romantic feelings for him.
02:24And all of this after the date, even though you had a good time and kissed him on the date?
02:29Yeah, it's just like, oh, my gosh, I'm the third choice or fourth choice.
02:33Or maybe I'm the fifth choice at work.
02:35And it's just like you're just going around, like, asking every girl out.
02:39Is he going out with all these girls?
02:42No, they turned him down.
02:43Oh, they turned him down and you didn't.
02:47They turned him down.
02:48And I didn't.
02:49And I was just like, oh, weird.
02:51So he's just kind of making his way down the list, I feel like.
02:55All right.
02:56Well, Rebecca, I can see how that would be an awkward conversation to have with your co-workers, for sure.
03:01We have Stephen on the phone with us.
03:03I want to bring him back on.
03:04Shocker.
03:05Stephen.
03:07Yeah.
03:07I'm just going to let you talk to Rebecca there.
03:09It sounds like maybe you have a little bit of a reputation.
03:12Serial dater at work?
03:14Honestly, I never went out with other people at work.
03:18I'm a single guy.
03:19I've only been working there a little bit.
03:22And I'm just kind of honestly trying to make friends.
03:26I'm not trying to just, like, go out with girls to date them.
03:28I'm trying to, like, I'm new in town, as I told you.
03:31And where you work is, like, your network.
03:34And I'm just asking people to be friends.
03:36This guy's just trying to look for friends.
03:39Yeah.
03:39Yeah, that you kiss at the end of the night.
03:41It's just so weird.
03:42Okay, so first of all, I never actually, no one ever actually followed through with me.
03:49I might have asked people to hang out, but I never went out with anybody.
03:53The only person I've ever kissed in that building is you.
03:56Oh.
03:57Lucky you.
03:58And you know what?
03:59It's like, when I found that out, it kind of made my stomach turn quite a bit.
04:03And I just, I have zero interest in going out on another date.
04:07And honestly, I ask you if you could please just, you know,
04:11obviously we work for the same company, you know,
04:14let's just keep things coothed and you're a nice guy.
04:19But like I said, it was just, I just, it was kind of a deal breaker when I found that out.
04:24But like, you're going around asking all the girls out at work.
04:27And I don't know.
04:29I just have zero interest.
04:30I just ask you, please, please just, you know, I'm not asking you, actually.
04:36I'm telling you, leave me alone.
04:37Wow.
04:38Wow.
04:38Okay, well, I apologize if you were offended, but that was not my intention.
04:45And that's it.
04:46I apologize.
04:48No, yeah, no.
04:50Apology accepted.
04:51I just don't know if it bodes well for you professionally to be, you know,
04:56going around the office asking girls out.
04:58It just.
04:59Well, look, if you want to talk about this over some Froyo, let me know.
05:03Froyo.
05:04I don't know that's going to happen.
05:08Yeah.
05:09I can.
05:10It's just, I have zero interest in going on another date.
05:14And I, you know, wish you well.
05:16And it's, it's, I think it worked out that like we're on different floors and, you know,
05:22I know what it's like to not have big network yet or big community yet.
05:26But, and I think maybe some outside activities, like outside the office.
05:32All right.
05:32Okay.
05:32I don't need a, I don't need a therapist.
05:34I just wanted to get some, some food.
05:38All right.
05:39Well, here's the deal, guys.
05:40I'm going to jump in right here and say, Rebecca, you've made your feelings known.
05:44And, Stephen, we're going to, got to respect that and, you know, keep things all good at
05:50work and not awkward or anything.
05:52And so I appreciate you coming on with us, Stephen, Rebecca, thank you for your time as
05:56well.
05:56And I wish you both luck.
05:58Yeah.
06:00All right, guys.
06:01Now, Lana, let me ask you, would that bother you if you found that out?
06:05My first husband and I worked together, so obviously not.
06:09Had he asked out other people in the office though?
06:12He dated other people.
06:14He in the office?
06:15At the station, yeah.
06:16Wow.
06:16Oh my goodness.
06:18And now I'm hearing it.
06:19I'm like, yeah, I should have never gone out with them.
06:24All right.
06:24Well, let's see.
06:25I mean, did Stephen do anything wrong?
06:26We want to know.
06:27800-992-1099.
06:29800-992-1099.
06:31Would you have reacted the same way as Rebecca did or not?