Second Date Update - Party Goals
Category
😹
FunTranscript
00:00Right now, though, it is your second date update.
00:02We are trying to match two people up on another date.
00:05We talked to this guy, Ryan.
00:06He really wants to see this girl, Becca, again.
00:09But he can't seem to get a hold of her.
00:12And we got her on the phone, and she agreed to talk to us,
00:15which I'm kind of surprised by because she didn't seem that into it at first
00:18when we talked to her off the air.
00:20But let's do it.
00:20Let's bring her on right now.
00:22Becca, are you there?
00:23Hi.
00:24Becca, thanks for agreeing to do this.
00:26We wanted to talk to you about your date, as we told you, with Ryan.
00:30And we heard you guys went to Grillsmith and Wesley Chapel.
00:33And I'll tell you what, this guy really likes you
00:36and had a lot of nice things to say about you.
00:39Thought you had a good time.
00:40He had a good time.
00:41But since that date has heard nothing
00:43and is just kind of really confused on what's going on.
00:46So what's the deal?
00:47Why are you not getting back to this guy?
00:49When you guys first mentioned his name, I was like, are you kidding me?
00:52Like, seriously?
00:53Honestly, I'm just going to be honest with you.
01:00Being on the date with him was like being on a date with my dad.
01:05Oh.
01:06Why?
01:07Yeah, how so?
01:09Like, he was sitting there and he was talking about, like, his goals
01:12and, like, his 401K and, like, all these different, his job.
01:17And I was just like, can't we just live for the moment?
01:19Like, I'm so sick of hearing about all this boring stuff.
01:22It took, like, everything in me to not, like, fall asleep on this date.
01:27It was awful.
01:28Well, I mean, don't, but don't you care about somebody who's got, like, a plan
01:33and who has, you know, see...
01:35No, like, live for the moment.
01:36Like, literally stop talking about your 401K.
01:40It was insane.
01:42Wow.
01:42That's not a fun date.
01:43It's boring.
01:44But you want to be with somebody who's got, you know, a good 401K
01:48and plans for retirement someday, don't you?
01:50Or just someone with goals in general, right?
01:53But, like, not now.
01:54Like, I want to have fun.
01:55Like, why do I want to listen to what you have planned for the next 10 years?
01:59She wants to know what's going on Friday.
02:01I just want to, yeah, I just want to know what's going on during the weekend.
02:04Well, at least you're honest, I guess.
02:07I don't know if we can actually hold us against this guy for having a plan with his life.
02:12But, okay, well, I guess that's it right there.
02:15So, because he was a little bit more...
02:18Dad-like.
02:19Yeah.
02:20Yeah, but he's very serious.
02:22So, he was too serious for you?
02:23Yeah, yeah.
02:25Okay.
02:26A little confused.
02:28Becca, we do have Ryan on the phone.
02:30I'd love to bring him back on just to get his side of things.
02:33Would you mind if we'd talk to him, too?
02:35That's fine.
02:37Ryan.
02:38Yeah.
02:39You heard what she had to say?
02:40I'm going to just kind of let you respond.
02:42I did.
02:43I did.
02:44I mean, I'm confused because just because I have goals doesn't mean that I'm not fun or
02:53I don't like to do fun things.
02:57It was a literal snooze fest.
02:59I'm not sure if he picked up on that.
03:01Apparently, he didn't.
03:03Um, no.
03:04It seemed like the conversation was going well.
03:08I, you know, I'm sorry.
03:10I'm like, I'm a fun person.
03:11I do like to go and do things and live in the moment, as you said.
03:17So, I just, I don't know.
03:18I think that's a little unfair to base it on one interaction.
03:21Yeah, it seems like you have the next 10 years planned out and I'm just not, you know, I
03:26like people who are spontaneous.
03:28And also, I don't care about your 401k.
03:31Like, I don't care about your job.
03:32Like, um, I, I, I, okay, I just have like some, some problems with like what you said.
03:39Number one, you know, I was just trying to make conversation and, you know, make sure
03:43you felt comfortable about things.
03:45And, you know, if you wanted to talk about, you know, doing fun things, like why didn't
03:49you bring that up?
03:51Because you were too busy, like, planning out your next 10 years at the table.
03:55So, I didn't, so what you're saying is I didn't allow you, I didn't allow you to talk.
03:59I did not care.
04:01Yeah, I don't think you're allowing each other to talk now.
04:04You know, honestly, that, that's fine.
04:06I mean, you could have at least returned my phone calls instead of ghosting me.
04:10You could have gotten the hint when I didn't return the phone calls.
04:13Uh, yeah, see, that's just very immature.
04:16So, that just kind of tracks everything that you're talking about.
04:19It sounds like you're still in Peter Pan land, Neverland.
04:22Oh, at least I'm having fun and you're like a frog worm.
04:27A part of being an adult is having the balance between having fun and also taking on responsibility.
04:34So, good luck with you.
04:35Good luck.
04:36Yeah, no, it is.
04:37Okay, I'll have fun.
04:38Bye.
04:41Well, it looks like this is not going to be a match.
04:43No.
04:44I'm sorry.
04:45Well, Ryan, you now know why Becca has not gotten back to you.
04:49So, I guess we solved that for you.
04:52But, Becca, thanks for coming on with us.
04:54Have a great day.
04:55And, Ryan, thanks for your time, man.
04:57I'm sorry we didn't work out.
04:59No, it's all for the best.
05:01All right.
05:01You guys have a great day.
05:02Bye-bye.
05:03Bye.
05:05How do we hold out against him that he has a plan for his life?
05:08I don't understand that.
05:09We don't.
05:10And then, but she just wasn't, that's, this girl doesn't care about any of that stuff.
05:14All she wants to do is go to the biggest party, go to the next big thing, and have fun.
05:18All right, let's hear what you think about this.
05:21800-992-1099.
05:23800-992-1099.
05:26Hit us up.