Second Date Update - Play Ball
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00:00Lori has reached out today for the second date update.
00:02This is where we're trying to match her back up on another date with Jeremy.
00:06They've hung out one time.
00:07They went to Bonefish.
00:08She said things went great.
00:10He had great teeth.
00:11That was mentioned.
00:13Yes, it was.
00:14But she has not heard anything from him since this date.
00:17So we're going to try to call him right now.
00:30Hello?
00:37Hi, good morning.
00:37Is this Jeremy?
00:39Yeah, who's this?
00:40Hey, Jeremy.
00:41Sorry to bother you this morning.
00:42This is actually J.R., Lana, and Kevin over here at 99.5 QIK.
00:46How are you doing?
00:47Good morning, Jeremy.
00:50Good morning.
00:52Random for a radio station to be calling you this early in the morning or maybe ever.
00:57But we wanted to see if we could talk to you for a second.
00:59And we'd be on the air.
01:01And it's actually about someone who's really, really complimentary of you.
01:05Would that be cool if we just asked you a couple questions about that person?
01:11Sure.
01:12Okay, great.
01:13So we want to talk to you about this girl, Lori, that you went on a date with.
01:16We heard you guys went to Bonefish, had a great dinner.
01:19She, like I said, was very complimentary of you, wants to see you again, wants to hang out again,
01:25but has not been able to set that up with you.
01:27What's going on?
01:28Have you kind of been avoiding her?
01:30Is there something that happened?
01:34Yeah, I have been kind of avoiding her.
01:37It was a nice date.
01:39She's a nice, she's, she's, she's a nice date to go on, definitely.
01:43But it just got a little weird at one point, and it just not really hurts for me.
01:49What got weird?
01:50Yeah, what happened?
01:52Well, she asked me to donate money to her daughter's softball fundraiser or something,
01:57and it just got kind of weird.
02:00So this is on the date and at the table at Bonefish, and she's like, hey, by the way, do you mind donating?
02:05Yeah, and she was super, like, nonchalant about it.
02:09She, she was asking me to donate.
02:12She was like, just 50 bucks, come on.
02:13And she got kind of pushy, and I don't know, I was kind of taken aback.
02:1750 bucks?
02:19Yeah.
02:20I was like, you don't know this girl.
02:22Yeah, I thought it was kind of weird and a bit rude because, you know, I'm, I'm paying for the day and taking her out.
02:28I don't really know her.
02:29I, you know, I don't know her daughter, obviously.
02:31So, uh, I just thought it was weird.
02:34That is kind of weird.
02:35Yeah, I don't blame you.
02:37Did you do it?
02:38Yeah.
02:39No.
02:40Oh, okay.
02:41Well, good for you.
02:41Standing your ground, I guess.
02:42Yeah, that is kind of weird, though.
02:45I mean, why would she ask you to, you don't even know her.
02:47Yeah, I thought it was just a bit strange, and she was pretty pushy about it.
02:54Like, she asked me, she said, oh, come on, it's like, for a good cause, and I don't know.
02:58It just felt like a, like a boundary pushing kind of thing, and just kind of cut me off, if I'm being honest.
03:04Okay.
03:05Bye, Jeremy.
03:06Okay, here we go.
03:09Um, Jeremy, that's Lori.
03:11Yeah, no.
03:12Hey.
03:13Pushy, huh?
03:1550 bucks?
03:16You can't cough up 50 bucks to help kids on a softball team buy some equipment?
03:22What?
03:22I'm a little shocked.
03:24What?
03:25Well, I'm a little shocked that you're not letting this go, and now you're calling the radio about it.
03:29But here we are.
03:30Because the date was so perfect, and everything went perfectly.
03:35I mean, I didn't push you after you said, no, you didn't want to do it.
03:38I just thought, you know, you needed more time to think about it or something.
03:41But, I mean, if the Girl Scouts come to your door and sell Ben Mints, surely you don't turn them down, do you?
03:48I do, yeah.
03:49It's just not really, not really my thing.
03:51I don't usually give up money to people I don't, I don't know.
03:53So, I don't know.
03:55We were on a date, and you made me feel obligated.
03:59It just made me uncomfortable, and I don't know.
04:02I mean, with the Girl Scouts, you get something in return.
04:04Yeah.
04:04To, you know, just donating.
04:06Yeah, were they selling, like, popcorn and candy or anything, or is this donating to a fundraiser?
04:12It's a donate, but you get to see the equipment and photos of them.
04:15I would bring them to a game.
04:17Like, what's not to love?
04:19Is this something you do with all your dates?
04:22No, it just happened to be top of mind when we were talking.
04:26We were talking about sports.
04:27We were talking about our kids, and it just came up.
04:31It was very happenstantial.
04:33It wasn't, like, something I had in mind to say.
04:36Yeah, it just made me uncomfortable, and I also wondered if, like, maybe you are doing
04:40this with other guys, trying to get money for your daughter's fundraiser.
04:45Oh, my God.
04:46No, no.
04:48It was just in the moment.
04:50Maybe he's not into kids.
04:51Who knows?
04:52Okay.
04:53Well, I mean, he's paying for the date, and now he's paying, you know, you're asking
04:56him for money for your daughter's softball team.
04:58I mean, it's kind of a lot.
05:00It's a little forward, right?
05:01Can you see how he might take it that way?
05:03I mean, I hear it in his voice now, but at the time, I thought nothing of it, honestly.
05:09Okay.
05:09So, Jeremy, that's good.
05:12She's kind of getting where you're coming from.
05:14You did say it was a good date.
05:16Would you be willing to hang out with her again?
05:18Because, you know, she's not going to be hitting you up for money anymore, I don't think.
05:22You know, I just don't think we're a great match.
05:27All right.
05:28It's got to be kind of awkward after this.
05:30I agree.
05:31It's awkward.
05:32Well, Lori, you heard what he had to say.
05:34I'm sorry.
05:34It's not going to be a match for you guys.
05:37But good luck with the fundraising.
05:39Do you guys want to donate to the softball fundraiser?
05:43You know what?
05:44We got your info, so maybe.
05:47But for right now, we just want to say thank you for coming on, and we appreciate you.
05:51Appreciate you.
05:53Yes.
05:53Thanks, Jeremy.
05:55That's completely inappropriate.
05:57I don't blame her for trying, but there's a certain place and time for that.
06:01Yeah.
06:01If you have kids in sports, you deal with fundraising.
06:04Yeah.
06:05Absolutely.
06:05But just you don't do it there.
06:07On a first date.
06:08No!
06:09And then she tried to get us to commit.
06:11What was that?
06:13I don't know.
06:15She's got no shame, no doubt about that.
06:17But that would be an awkward situation, someone pressing you like that on a date.
06:20Oh, for sure.
06:21Okay.
06:22If you want to weigh in on this, hit us up.
06:24800-992-1099.
06:26800-992-1099.
06:29Maybe you don't think it was inappropriate.
06:30We want to hear from you.