Second Date Update - No Pics Please
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00:00All right, it is the second date update right now.
00:02We are trying to match two people back up on another date.
00:04Brian has reached out to us today.
00:06He really wants to see this girl, Rebecca, again.
00:08They had a good time.
00:10I mean, a really good time because they were kissing and making out in the parking lot after their date.
00:15Yeah, and afterwards they were texting a lot, so he doesn't really understand what's going on now.
00:19All right, so let's talk to Rebecca.
00:22Kevin, we got her on hold right now?
00:23Yes.
00:24All right, let's do it.
00:25Rebecca, are you there?
00:26Yep, I'm here.
00:28Okay, great.
00:29I know this is kind of confusing.
00:31I know that you talked to Kevin off the air, and he kind of told you that we wanted to talk to you about a date you went on.
00:37We're obviously talking about this guy Brian that you went out with to Whiskey Joe's.
00:41And it sounded like things really went well for you guys.
00:44I mean, he kind of told us how the date ended, and it sounded like it kind of ended hot and heavy.
00:50And you guys were texting a couple days after that date, and then things just dropped off between the two of you.
00:55And he's super confused by that.
00:57And we were just wondering if you could fill us in on why that would happen, because it sounded like the date went really well.
01:04Yeah, well, the date went well.
01:06But then, you know, we were texting a little bit, and he was really sweet.
01:10And then I saw I got a Snapchat message from him.
01:14A Snapchat message?
01:15Yeah.
01:16Let's just say he sent me a photo that did not leave much to the imagination.
01:23Oh.
01:23Do you know what I mean?
01:24Oh, yeah.
01:25I think I do.
01:27Really?
01:28Yeah.
01:29Yes.
01:29I did not ask for that.
01:31I did not expect that.
01:33And honestly, like, it was just kind of shocking and surprising and inappropriate, in my opinion.
01:43Okay.
01:44Oh, wow.
01:45So, yeah, I just, it was just way too much too soon, you know?
01:50Okay.
01:50He was kind of alluding to the fact that your texts were getting kind of flirty.
01:55Absolutely, yeah.
01:56Flirty is one thing, but to unexpectedly open a photo that's not suitable for work and that was not requested, you know, I did not consent to seeing that.
02:07And I just thought it was kind of disgusting after one date, honestly.
02:12All right.
02:13Well, I think we all know what you're talking about.
02:15Yep.
02:16Rebecca.
02:17And I can see why you'd be caught off guard by that.
02:21But let me just tell you this.
02:22We do have, I think we just bring him back on.
02:24Oh, yeah.
02:25We have Brian on the phone with us, and I think he obviously didn't tell us that part.
02:29And that's the reason you're not getting back to him.
02:32So, I guess that answers his question.
02:34But I want to talk to him real quick.
02:35Do you mind if we bring him back on, Rebecca?
02:38No, let's go for it.
02:39Okay.
02:40Pull the Band-Aid off.
02:41Okay.
02:42Brian, are you there?
02:43Yeah, I'm here.
02:45I'm just going to let you respond to Rebecca, I guess.
02:49Yeah, I mean, people do that.
02:51It's, like, so common to send pictures.
02:54You know, we were getting kind of high and heavy with a text message.
02:58The text messages weren't, like, you know, I mean, we were getting kind of, like, sort of, you know, intimate.
03:06And then, you know, so I thought the next step was to show you a picture, you know, because we were, like, getting hot and heavy and just kind of getting personal.
03:16Yeah, I get it.
03:17I get it.
03:18We were flirting.
03:18But the next step is going on a second date.
03:22Yeah, but you weren't innocent.
03:24You were saying, I wish I could see you.
03:28I don't know if she meant that, though.
03:29See, like, we were on the same page on our date, but then afterwards, I think that you really misinterpreted my intention.
03:41Maybe my texts were off, but I just think it's, like, flirting is one thing, but to send a photo when I didn't ask for that is just crossing a line.
03:49You were saying, I wish I could see more of you.
03:52Like, that's what I thought you meant.
03:54Again, it's just crossing a line, and, like, how many people do you send this to?
04:01You know what I mean?
04:01Like, it's just gross.
04:03Rebecca, come on.
04:04You know this is common.
04:05Don't make me seem like I'm a pervert.
04:07Like, this is common knowledge in, like, dating world.
04:10Like, you know it.
04:11Like, I didn't know you were, like, a nun.
04:13Okay.
04:13Well, Brian, obviously, this is not what she wanted.
04:16No.
04:16I apologize for offending her.
04:18Like, I didn't, that's not my intent.
04:20Okay.
04:21I appreciate that.
04:22Rebecca, it's just going to be something that, I mean, he apologized.
04:26You said thank you for that.
04:27If he didn't do this again, and you did have a good date, things were flirty and all that,
04:32I mean, would you be willing to see him again?
04:34Honestly, a picture is worth a thousand words, and I think I've seen enough.
04:39Okay.
04:39So, I'm going to pass.
04:42I also wouldn't want to date anybody who makes me want to walk in eggshells, so it's very mutual.
04:49Okay.
04:50All right, guys.
04:51Well, I'm sorry that it's not going to work out between the two of you.
04:54Rebecca, thanks for your time this morning.
04:56Brian, thanks for coming on.
04:58Now you've got your questions answered.
04:59I wish you both luck.
05:02Sorry it didn't work out, guys.
05:03Yeah.
05:04See you guys.
05:04Take care.
05:06Well, I mean, I feel like that's pretty black and white right there.
05:08Yeah.
05:08It is, but, I mean, they were making out.
05:11They were flirty texting.
05:12I mean, where does it go next?
05:16Another date is what she said.
05:18I guess so.
05:19Not just throwing out photos that were unsolicited, I guess.
05:23All right.
05:23Where are you at on this?
05:24Let's hear what you think.
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05:31Amen.