Second Date Update - Misinformed
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00:00Right now, we're in the middle of our second date update, and we're trying to help out Sam, who reached out to us.
00:04He's been on two dates with Jamie.
00:05The first was just a happy hour.
00:08The second one actually involved his friends.
00:10They all hung out and went to Big Storm in Clearwater, which is a brewery.
00:15And he said, listen, I was a gentleman.
00:17My focus was on her.
00:18Not the TV, not sports, didn't drink too much.
00:21Everything was good.
00:22And he gave her a ride home, and that was it.
00:24After dropping her off, he has not heard from her since.
00:26So we're going to call her right now and see if we can get her on the phone.
00:30Hello?
00:46Hi, good morning.
00:47Is this Jamie?
00:48Yeah, this is Jamie.
00:50Who's this?
00:50Hey, Jamie.
00:51This is J.R., Lana, and Kevin over here at 995QIK.
00:55How are you doing?
00:57Okay.
00:58Hey, good morning.
01:00That's the proper response.
01:02Hey, listen, we want to talk to you for a second.
01:03If it's okay with you, we'd be on the air.
01:06Just ask you a couple questions.
01:08And it's actually about someone who really admires you and really thinks you're an awesome person.
01:14Would that be cool if we just talked to you for a second?
01:16On the radio?
01:17Yeah.
01:18Is that okay?
01:19Okay.
01:20Okay, so we want to talk to you about this guy, Sam, that you went on a date with.
01:25You've actually been on two dates with him.
01:27We heard about your date for Happy Hour, and then we heard about the date at the brewery.
01:31And he thought things went really well, and the connection between both of you were great,
01:36and you guys were hitting it off.
01:37And this was definitely going to lead to a date three.
01:39But that has not happened, and he has not heard from you.
01:43And we were just seeing if we could figure out why that is.
01:45So what happened?
01:47Wow.
01:49Well, yeah.
01:52You got everything right.
01:53Like, we went and hung out with his friends at Big Storm.
01:59But the thing is, like, he went off to the bathroom, and I got to talking with one of his friends,
02:04and his friend kind of revealed something about him that I really just was not into.
02:11Oh, one of his guys said something.
02:13What'd he say?
02:14Well, his buddy said that he was pretty much just looking for a hookup,
02:21and, you know, he was in there, you know, every, like, every week with another girl going out
02:29and just getting a hookup.
02:30And his friend was really candid with me, and he says, you know,
02:34you seem like a really nice girl, and I don't want to see you get hurt,
02:38and, you know, you just need to know this about him going into it.
02:41Geez, his own buddy said that.
02:44Yeah, that's crazy.
02:45Wow.
02:45I'm thinking, was his buddy, did his buddy then turn around and hit on you?
02:49No.
02:50No, not at all.
02:50He was just like, you seem like a nice person, and I just, you know, I just need to let you know this.
02:57Wow.
02:58Well, if you're getting the heads up from his friend like that, that's, uh...
03:02Yeah.
03:02I can see how that would scare you off.
03:03You guys don't do that, though, do they usually?
03:05It just happened.
03:06You just heard it.
03:06Well, I know, but that's not normal, though, for guys to say that about their other guy friends.
03:10And I was just like, you know what, if his friend is going to kind of break the bro code and say something to me, this is really a thing.
03:20All right.
03:20Well, I understand now, Jamie, why you would not be getting back to him.
03:23That makes sense to us.
03:25We do have Sam on the phone with us, though, I want to tell you that.
03:28And I'd like to bring him back on, if that's cool with you.
03:30Just ask him some questions.
03:32Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.
03:34Okay.
03:35All right, thank you.
03:36Sam?
03:37Yeah, um, I don't know, I'm confused.
03:40Which one of my friends said that?
03:43You know what, I'm not here to tattletale on your friends.
03:48I'm just telling you that one of your friends took me aside and told me that you're just in it for a hookup, and that's not what I'm into.
03:56I'm just kind of, like, blown away that they would say that, like, why would I introduce you to my friends if I was just, like, looking for a hookup?
04:04Like, why would I want to bring you into, like, my inner circle if I was just there trying to hook up?
04:10Like, it's weird that I would call the radio station if that was, like, my goal.
04:13I just don't understand.
04:14No, I, it seems like you've met your dates before.
04:18And so, you know, I'm not trying to start drama with your friends, but, you know, if somebody's going to break the bro code like that and tell me, then that's a huge red flag, Sam.
04:29And it's just, it's just a no for me.
04:31I mean, it's definitely a red flag with my friends just, like, saying nonsense.
04:35I'm not, I'm not even playing.
04:36I really like you.
04:37I just want another chance.
04:39Here's what it sounds like to me.
04:41It sounds like you want what you can't have.
04:44And now you're trying real hard, and I'm just not, I'm just not a hookup.
04:50I agree with you.
04:51You're not, you're, you're way more than that.
04:53We went on two dates, and I never even tried to push the issue of trying to hook up with you.
04:57I wanted to get to know you.
04:59Like, we had great dates.
05:01I haven't done anything that has made you think that that's, that was my plan, just to hook up.
05:07I really just want another chance.
05:08You didn't push.
05:09You, you're right.
05:10You didn't.
05:11I mean, I guess that's a good sign.
05:13I mean, would you be willing, Jamie, to.
05:15Yeah, I mean, if he was just looking to hook up, he wouldn't be calling us.
05:17Yeah, but it's up to you, Jamie.
05:19I mean, whatever vibe you got.
05:20Yeah, we can't excuse what his friend said, but I mean, would you be willing to give him another shot?
05:27If I, if I say yes, we're going to slow play this.
05:32I got to be sure that this is, that you're, what you're telling me is the truth.
05:37Of course.
05:39And so, okay.
05:41Can we get the friend on the phone?
05:43Let's get the, let's get the friend on the phone.
05:46Sam needs to talk to his buddies.
05:48There's no doubt about that.
05:48Jamie, what, what, what friend was the one who told you?
05:51She's not starting drama right now.
05:53You're, you're, you're going to have to talk to your friends.
05:55I'm not going to be, you know.
05:57Yeah, that's going to be an awkward thing.
05:59Yeah, but now you get to rub it in his face, Sam.
06:01Yeah.
06:01Ha ha.
06:01No, no, it's not like that.
06:03I don't even want her to be involved in that situation, but I feel like I lost a friend somehow.
06:08Well, listen, the good thing is she said yes to another date.
06:11This is great.
06:12All right.
06:12Yeah.
06:12Yay.
06:14And we are going to set this up.
06:16We are going to pay for your date and we want you to keep us posted on everything.
06:21Okay.
06:22I'm 100%.
06:22Oh, wow.
06:22You're paying?
06:23Yes.
06:23Okay.
06:24Well, let's get some more expensive then.
06:25We got you.
06:27All right.
06:28Hang on for me.
06:28We'll get y'all hooked up.
06:29Okay.
06:30Okay.
06:32I love that.
06:33He's definitely going to have an awkward conversation trying to figure out which one of his friends
06:37said what.
06:38I know.
06:38That sucks.
06:39I can't imagine a guy would say that unless he was interested in the girl, maybe himself,
06:44but didn't sound like his friend had tried to contact her at all.
06:48So what's the point of saying that?
06:50Would you have given him another shot?
06:51We want to know.
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