Second Date Update - Not A Good "Look"
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00:00Well, we're trying to help out Tommy this morning on the Second Date Update,
00:02commercial-free New Country 99.5 QYK, and, you know, he had a great time with Michelle.
00:08They basically did some bar hopping at the beach.
00:10Yeah, they got set up by mutual friends that figured that the two of them were going to get along,
00:15and sounds like they did, and she ended up going back to his house afterwards
00:18and ended up staying the night.
00:20Yeah, but nothing happened.
00:21No, uh-uh.
00:22They just were being safe, and she just ended up crashing on the couch, is what we were told.
00:26We were able to get a hold of Michelle, because he has not heard from her since.
00:30Let's bring her on.
00:32Michelle, you there?
00:33Yeah, hi.
00:35Hey, Michelle.
00:36You just heard us talking about your date with Tommy.
00:38Sounded like a good time.
00:40I will say that he said that once you guys went back to his house, he was very respectful.
00:46I guess you just passed out on the couch, which is cool.
00:49What kind of confused us was the fact that you had mentioned to him that,
00:53hey, give me a call.
00:54I want to hang out again.
00:55And I guess he's tried doing that and hasn't heard anything from you.
00:59So what's going on?
01:00Because we want to set another date up for you guys.
01:02I mean, gosh, I feel like I'm just kind of, like, wasting my time talking about this.
01:07Like, you know, we had fun.
01:11We had a ton of fun.
01:13Like, it was the best time.
01:15I definitely, like, had, like, a little too much.
01:17Like, too much to drink and not enough to eat and, like, in the sun, you know, all that stuff.
01:21Right.
01:21And so, like, we went back to his place and, like, I, like, passed out on his couch.
01:25Like, he was super nice about it.
01:27Like, wasn't weird.
01:28Like, nothing, like, super sketch or anything like that.
01:31Except, like, he took a picture of me when I was passing out on the couch and sent it to our friends.
01:38Oh, boy.
01:39Aww.
01:40Oh, well, how'd you find out about that?
01:42I found out about it, like, I don't know, three or four days after the date when my friend mentioned it.
01:48And so then all of a sudden it's, like, I see this picture where it's, like, it's not flattering.
01:52Like, I'm not, I don't usually do that.
01:55Like, I never usually get, like, that.
01:57Like, I don't know.
01:58And he just sent it to, like, my friend and his friend, like, people who set us up.
02:02And I just, it's, like, floating around now.
02:04And how can I, like, trust him in this picture?
02:06Or, like, if I had to, like, no.
02:07Oh, hey, Michelle, come on.
02:08I thought you had, like, a better sense of humor than that.
02:11Okay, hold on.
02:13Michelle, that is Tommy.
02:16Tommy, I got to be honest with you, man.
02:17That's kind of a college move, right?
02:18You know, your buddy passes out.
02:20You take a picture of him.
02:20Ha, ha, ha.
02:21I mean, you did that to a lady, though, for real?
02:24I mean, my friends asked me how was it going.
02:27And I was like, hey, this is how it's going.
02:29You know, like, I just thought it was funny.
02:31And they did, too.
02:32I mean, it's not a big deal or anything like that.
02:35You don't do that to a girl.
02:36You don't understand it is different.
02:38When pictures like that of, like, women get, like, sent around, like, it is so different
02:43than just two bros getting hammered.
02:45Like, double standards.
02:46Like, it's just rude.
02:48It's not cool.
02:48Well, that's what I'm saying.
02:49Double standards.
02:49Like, if it was a dude, it'd be fine.
02:51So that goes against what you're saying.
02:52I'm not a dude, so it's not fine.
02:55You just said double standards, right?
02:57Yeah.
02:57So it's fine for a dude.
02:58Unfortunately, that's the world we live in.
02:59It's just not cool.
03:00Like, I'm pissed about it, honestly.
03:03Awesome.
03:03I didn't post it on, like, Instagram or anything like that.
03:05I just sent it to our beautiful friends.
03:06What about your buddy?
03:07Your friend could have.
03:08Your friend could have sent it to somebody else.
03:09I don't know.
03:11Not a big deal.
03:12It's not like some incriminating photo.
03:14I mean, it's just kind of funny.
03:16Yeah, but nobody looks good sleeping in a picture.
03:19Except for my dog.
03:21I don't know.
03:23I mean, I didn't realize this was the big hang-up.
03:25I mean, if I would have known, then I wouldn't have taken a photo or sent a photo.
03:30But I didn't realize he'd be so sensitive about it.
03:33Okay.
03:33He doesn't get it.
03:35So, like, this is pointless.
03:36What?
03:36I'm literally wasting my time right now.
03:38Tommy, I understand you were trying to be funny.
03:41But, you know, you know how girls are with photos.
03:44Oh, my gosh.
03:44They have to approve everything.
03:46She's got to approve it all.
03:47You do one when she's kind of at a vulnerable state here.
03:49I mean, you've got to understand why she'd be upset about this.
03:51Okay, well, then you should at least respond to my text when I call you and explain why.
03:58And now I have to call the radio station to figure this out.
04:00Yeah, I do have a question, though, Michelle.
04:01Why didn't you say anything?
04:02Why didn't you call him out about it?
04:04I mean, like, at that point, I was just so embarrassed.
04:07I, like, didn't want to invest any more time or energy into it.
04:10So, I just, like, I don't know.
04:11I just didn't.
04:12I just didn't do it.
04:14Yeah, okay.
04:14I got you.
04:16Well, I guess there's obviously a little trust thing going on right here.
04:19I don't think she's going to feel that safe around you as far as what's going on here, Tommy.
04:24But I will ask her, could he have an opportunity now that he knows he did something wrong to maybe make this up to you?
04:31No.
04:32Okay.
04:32Really?
04:33Wow.
04:34All right.
04:34Wow.
04:35We had a great date.
04:37I mean, red flags are red flags, so.
04:39Okay.
04:40Why?
04:40All right.
04:41Well, getting hammered is a red flag, too.
04:44All right.
04:44Okay.
04:45Here we go.
04:45Here we go.
04:46All right, guys.
04:49Before this gets too ugly, we're going to just go ahead and wrap this up.
04:51But thank you guys for coming on.
04:53You guys have a good day.
04:54All right.
04:56I mean, it may seem silly because it's just a picture, but if that happens to you and you
05:01let your guard down a little bit, obviously she did, and that happens to you, you could
05:05be super embarrassed about it.
05:07Well, obviously it sounds like she is, but I would have totally given him another chance.
05:10It sounds like they had a great date.
05:11Are you focused on all the day drinking or what?
05:15Well, that is fun.
05:17You took a picture of me when I was drunk.
05:19That's hilarious.
05:21And sent it to everybody?
05:22I'll go out with you again.
05:25I don't think that's happening.
05:29That's definitely not happening.
05:30All right.
05:31Where are you at on this?
05:32Kevin's fired up.
05:33You put it like that.
05:35I can't believe you would say, oh, I would.
05:37No, you wouldn't.
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