Second Date Update - Overexposure
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00:00Sounded like a fun date.
00:01Actually, two dates.
00:02They went for a little happy hour.
00:04They hit it off well.
00:05So he invited her out on his boat.
00:07Yeah, with a bunch of his friends.
00:09And we, you know, right off the bat said, hey, you know, did you drink too much?
00:12Did you have boat etiquette, like cleaning and helping with everything and bringing stuff?
00:16And she's like, yep, yep, yep, all that stuff.
00:18I don't know what happened.
00:19But he has not texted or called her or anything, and she wants to know what's up.
00:23So you know how this goes.
00:24We actually have him on the phone with us, and we want to bring him back on right now.
00:29Sean, you there?
00:30Hey, yeah.
00:31Hey, thank you for agreeing to talk to us, man.
00:33I know it's a weird ask and probably not your favorite thing to do,
00:37but we wanted to ask you about this girl, Allison, who's really into you
00:40and had a lot of nice things to say about you.
00:42And it sounded like you guys had a great time, and you invited her out on your boat,
00:46and she said that it was just a great day out on the water.
00:50She loves being on the water, so you knocked it out of the park with that.
00:52But she hasn't heard from you since.
00:55Where did it go wrong?
00:56I mean, yeah, she definitely had a good time on the water.
01:00I guess I just don't know where to really start talking about why I'm not calling her back, you know?
01:06Well, from the beginning, maybe?
01:07I don't know.
01:08I mean, come on, man.
01:09What's going on?
01:10I don't know.
01:11She got really inappropriate on the boat.
01:13It just wasn't classy, and, like, I don't know.
01:16It just kind of left a bad taste in my mouth, you know?
01:19Well, what do you mean by that?
01:20Well, yeah, we're having a good time on the water.
01:23Like, we anchor up.
01:24We're hanging out with my friends and having fun.
01:27And so, yeah, so as soon as we get anchored up, she heads to the back of the boat to lay out, right?
01:33And I turned to look, and, you know, I was going to see if she needed anything.
01:38And I realized she was missing part of her bathing suit was gone, you know?
01:43Oh, what?
01:43Like, the top part of her suit was no longer on her.
01:46Oh, she took it off?
01:48Yeah, uh-huh.
01:49Oh, man.
01:50Wow.
01:51And she's just laying there.
01:52Yeah, she's just laying there, just, you know, soaking up some rays, I guess.
01:56But also was soaking up a lot of gazes from my friends, yeah, attention.
02:02And other people, I'm sure, too.
02:04Well, there weren't, like, a ton of other people around.
02:06But it was, you know, me and some of my closest, like, guy friends, right?
02:09So they were not, some of them were not super shy about appreciating the view.
02:16That would be super awkward.
02:18That would be.
02:19That you bring a girl out and that happens.
02:21Well, did you say something to her?
02:22No.
02:23Like, I was like, what do you even say to that?
02:26Like, you know, there's nothing that doesn't sound like controlling and, like, get back in the boaty, you know?
02:31Yeah.
02:31I kind of pretended it wasn't happening, but.
02:35Wow.
02:35And this is the second time you hung out over there?
02:37Second time.
02:38And, like, it wasn't even something, like, I had seen on my own.
02:42And, like, definitely wasn't the situation for me to be seeing it for the first time.
02:45It was super difficult.
02:46It wasn't the situation for my friends to be seeing it, you know?
02:49Right.
02:50Oh, that's it.
02:50They are loving it.
02:51Well, okay.
02:52What kind of boat do you have?
02:53No, I'm kidding.
02:55Well, Sean, I understand how that would be a really awkward situation.
02:59We actually have Allison on the phone with us.
03:02I know that might be a little bit of a surprise to you, but I have to ask her about this.
03:05Allison.
03:07Yeah.
03:07Hey.
03:08What are we doing?
03:09I don't see what the problem is.
03:11I mean, I got to the back of the boat.
03:14Yeah, I laid out.
03:15I don't really like sand lines, so I undid the back of my suit, and then eventually I rolled
03:21over.
03:21It's not like there were families around.
03:23It's not like nobody else in the world has.
03:26Well, yeah, but his friends are around.
03:28Yeah.
03:29Yeah.
03:29And, like, you always get out there for everybody to see.
03:32Yeah, but we're all grown adults.
03:34Like, you know, it's not a big deal.
03:36I, like, love my body, and I have respect for the human body, and I think that it's beautiful.
03:43I don't understand what the big deal is.
03:44But you have respect for your body and the human body, but, like, it's disrespectful to, like, me and, like, the beginnings of our relationship, you know?
03:53Like, show a little class.
03:55You didn't say anything, or no one seemed to be troubled by my lack of top.
04:01No, they weren't troubled at all.
04:03Like, that's the problem, you know?
04:05Is this something you do a lot, Allison?
04:08I mean, yeah, you're on the boat.
04:09It's part of the boat life.
04:11You're already scantily clad to begin with.
04:13I mean, I've been to beer can.
04:14I've seen it.
04:15But more for a passage key thing.
04:18A lot of the lay of the land here.
04:20Ah, thank you.
04:21Okay, so, but do you understand, Allison, how that can be very embarrassing for Sean?
04:26Because he's like, all right, I brought this girl, and then now, oh my gosh, everybody gets to see this girl in this way.
04:32I mean, I don't really see how it's embarrassing.
04:34Most guys would be thrilled to have that be on their boat, you know what I mean?
04:39Not all guys.
04:40I don't know.
04:41Most guys, like, wouldn't be thrilled for any of their guy friends to see their girl.
04:46That's not something that everybody should be seeing.
04:48It doesn't sound like it's a big deal to you, but it's kind of a huge deal to me.
04:52Like, I'm looking for a woman long-term who's a little more modest and, like, aware of her surroundings.
04:58I understand you're looking for someone a little more prudish.
05:00It's just not me.
05:01That's, um, I understand.
05:03I'm not saying prudish.
05:04I'm just saying someone who has decorum, you know?
05:07But, like, gosh.
05:09I mean, everything was very classy, so I just don't agree.
05:13I don't see what you're seeing, so.
05:15Well, you guys are obviously fundamentally not seeing each other's sides to this.
05:19Let me ask you this, Sean.
05:20Is this going to be a deal-breaker, or if Allison, you know, kind of handles the situation differently next time, would you be willing to see her again?
05:27Yeah, I mean, it sounds like it's kind of a fundamental problem.
05:30She doesn't see it as a class issue, and I just don't see, I don't see that changing.
05:34Like, it seems, it's kind of a deal-breaker.
05:36Okay.
05:37All right, Allison.
05:38Well, we got an answer for you.
05:40Bold move on your part, but, hey, if that's how you roll, that's how you roll.
05:45That's how I roll.
05:45Yeah.
05:46Well, I appreciate you coming on with us.
05:49Sean, thank you for your time.
05:50You guys have a great day.
05:52Thanks, Sean.
05:53Thanks.
05:54I mean, are you kidding me right now?
05:57Could you imagine?
05:58Why did she think that was a good idea?
06:00Why?
06:00How could she not know that was the reason he wasn't calling her hello?
06:03Yeah.
06:03Well, I mean, hey, listen.
06:05I think she thought that would be a reason that he would call her.
06:07But listen, there are guys that'll be like, oh, heck yeah, this is awesome, but there
06:12are a lot of guys that are like, uh-uh, no way.
06:14Second time hanging out with him?
06:16Weird.
06:16Right in front of his friends?
06:18That's odd, in my opinion.
06:20But let's see where you're at.
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