Second Date Update - The Ex Factor
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00:00All right. Diana sounds very sweet. She really wants to see Cole again. This is the second date update. This is where we try to help out. It's commercial free new country 99.95 QYK. Let's do this. We are going to try to call Cole and get him on the phone. And if he answers, we're going to ask him straight up. What's going on? Let's do it. All right. Let's call him.
00:30Hello. Good morning. Is this Cole? Yeah. Hey, Cole. Sorry to bother you this morning. This is actually J.R. Lon and Kevin over here at 99.95 QYK. I'm sorry. What? Good morning. Good morning, man. Good morning. Hey, random. I know we're probably catching you off guard right now. Do you have a couple of minutes? We want to see if we can talk to you actually on the air. Okay. Okay. Cool, man.
00:58We want to talk to you actually about a date you went on with this girl, Diana. Oh, okay. You remember going to Doc Ford's with her on the pier? You remember having a great connection with her? She sounded very sweet to us. Was that your impression as well? Yes. I went. I had a great time. But yeah, things are complicated. With her? No, not with her. With me.
01:24I, uh, so I, I, I basically, I ghosted her and I feel terrible about it, but I have, this crazy thing happened. After the date, a girlfriend from, for like four years, ex-girlfriend, uh, hit me up and we started talking and she wants to patch things up and I'm not ready for it, but I also don't know if I'm ready for dating again. And yeah, it's a really complicated situation.
01:51Wow. Oh man. Yeah. So this is what happens. You start dating and then an ex comes out of the woodwork. Yeah. Why don't you just tell Diana about it? That's an awkward conversation.
02:02Yeah. I, that was the mistake. I should have, I should have definitely responded. I just kind of panicked and I don't know what I'm doing right now. And it's, yeah, I, I'm sorry that I did that.
02:12Well, do you have an interest of maybe getting back with your ex?
02:16I don't know. That's the thing. I'm in a really weird place right now because it wasn't the best relationship, but it's, you know, it's something I'm used to and it was like easy. And, but I, I think I should move on. You know, I just very, I don't know.
02:33All right. Well, the one person that's in the dark about this and was in the dark about this was Diana. And obviously she didn't do anything wrong. You had a great date with her. We have her on the phone with us right now, Cole.
02:44Oh, okay. I figured.
02:45Diana.
02:46Hi.
02:47Hi, Diana.
02:49So you're kind of hearing what he has to say. What are your feelings right now, Diana?
02:52Yeah, I'm sorry. I'm really sorry.
02:53No, I mean, it's okay. I wish you had just told me, like, we can totally just talk about it or figure things out. You don't have to disappear or worry too much about it.
03:04Wow.
03:05You know what? Thank you. That's actually very, that's, that's big of you because I really screwed up. And, you know, I do, I had a great time and I really do like you. And I don't want to drag you into this whole mess, but I definitely should have at least told you, you know?
03:21Yeah. I mean, we can be adults about it. I don't, it's not ideal, but I think we had so much fun or clicked like so well that I'd really like to still be able to talk about it before just moving away completely.
03:34Really?
03:36Yeah. I mean, I don't know. We just had a really good time. And I, whenever I go out, I don't have that much fun with people or clicked so well. Plus you were just so nice and respectful.
03:46It was really, it was really fun, honestly. Um, you know what? Um, well, hold on here. Are you, this is something that you're going to be walking into here, Diana? Are you sure that you want to?
03:56Yeah. He's talking about getting back together with an ex.
03:58Yeah. He's, he's kind of on the fence about it. Are you, this is something that you want to be involved in, Diana?
04:04I mean, I just think it's still worth like talking about or exploring. Plus, if he goes out with me a couple more times, he probably won't be wanting to get together with her anymore anyway.
04:13Okay. There's the confidence. Wow. I'm taking it back. Um, yeah, let's, okay. Let's, let's hang out. We'll just hang out. And, uh, yeah, it'll happen. Yeah.
04:28Okay. Diana, I mean, you could be setting yourself up. You could be wasting your time. Just want to throw that out there, girl.
04:34I know. I mean, I hear you. I just, I'm going with my gut on this one.
04:40Here we go. Wow. That's a good thing to go on. Okay. All right. Well, listen, we're going to put you guys on hold. We'll set up another date for you. We will pay for it. And we want the best for both of you. So we're wishing the best for both of you. All right. So can you guys hang on?
04:55Yeah, of course.
04:57Yeah, sure.
04:57Wow. Oh, she sounds so sweet. I feel so bad. I don't, I don't feel good about them going out again.
05:06Hey, you know what? She said she was going with her gut and obviously she feels something and she felt a connection. Maybe it's there. I mean, it stinks that this ex-girlfriend's walking back in, but maybe he's going to realize an ex is an ex for a reason.
05:19All right. Where are you at on this? Is this a good idea or not? 800-992-1099, 800-992-1099.