Second Date Update - Get A Room
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00:00Well, Darren, very mellow guy that we just talked to.
00:03Commercial-free New Country 99.5 QIK.
00:05It's our second date update.
00:07Went to a great spot with Kim.
00:09Yeah, they went to Ulele, which is right there on the river walk.
00:11He said they had a great meal, and then they were just kind of walking around
00:14and talking a little bit afterwards.
00:17Weather's great.
00:17He's like, but he's texted her a couple of times.
00:19He's called her since the date, and he's like,
00:21I don't know why she's not getting back to me.
00:23He goes, I'd love to take her out again, so who knows?
00:25Yeah, we want to make this happen, so we're going to try to call Kim ourselves right now.
00:30Hi, good morning.
00:46Is this Kim?
00:47Yeah, this is Kim.
00:49Hey, Kim.
00:50This is JR and Lana and Kevin over here at 99.5 QIK.
00:54How are you doing?
00:56I'm good.
00:57I'm sorry.
00:58Why are you guys calling me?
01:00Good morning.
01:01Well, hey, listen.
01:02We try to set people up on dates, and we call it our second date update.
01:07And the good news is it's someone that you know, all right?
01:09And it's someone that you've actually been out with already.
01:12And we're talking about Darren, and Darren told us that you guys met online,
01:17went to Ulele, had a great dinner, walked around a little bit after dinner,
01:21and now he wants to see you again.
01:23And we want to make that happen for him and you, but he can't get a hold of you.
01:27Yeah, so what's going on?
01:29Yeah, no, I'm good with that.
01:32That dude is so far out of line, I don't even know what he's thinking.
01:37Oh, what happened?
01:38He sounds like a very mellow, even-keeled guy.
01:41Yeah, I mean, that's how he comes off.
01:45The date was fine.
01:46It was good.
01:47We had great conversation.
01:48We went out to eat.
01:50Afterwards, we were walking around, and that was when it just got so awkward.
01:55He, I don't even know, like, how to even, like, articulate this.
01:59Like, I was so caught off guard.
02:01He literally asked me if I want to get a room at the JW, and he would pay for it.
02:07Wow, things must have been going well on the date then, huh?
02:12I guess, but I was so caught off guard.
02:14Like, I couldn't get out of there quick enough.
02:16And thank God that happened at the end of the date,
02:19because if he mentioned that in the middle of dinner,
02:21it would have been so awkward for me to just sit through that dinner with him,
02:25because it's just, who does that?
02:26It's a first date.
02:27We just met each other.
02:29Like, be a gentleman.
02:30So, I'm thinking, was there a lot of kissing going on?
02:32You guys must have been flirting with him?
02:33I mean, you guys must have really been into each other for him to say something like that.
02:37No, it wasn't, like, I mean, I didn't read it that way.
02:40Like I said, the dinner went really well.
02:42Like, it was a great day, but it's not like,
02:45I don't think I did anything to imply that I would go back to a hotel room.
02:49Like, is this what he does to the girls that he used online?
02:52I gotcha.
02:53Well, I can see how you'd be caught off guard by that.
02:56Kim, we have Darren on the phone with us.
02:58That's how we got your phone number.
02:59Oh, God.
03:01Darren, you there?
03:02Yeah, hi.
03:03Is that accurate, man?
03:04Did you kind of throw that idea out there?
03:07Yeah, I mean, I did throw it out there.
03:09I mean, it happens.
03:10You know, we're adults.
03:11It's 2023.
03:14People do hook up after dates.
03:16I have points in the JW, so I figured why not throw it out there.
03:20You know, maybe it was interesting.
03:23I didn't think it was that big of a deal to ask.
03:25She said no, which was fine, but I didn't think it would be a deal breaker.
03:30Well, for me, it is.
03:31I mean, that's just not how I roll, and you don't know me like that.
03:35To just assume that I'm that type of girl, that I'm going to go to a hotel room with you
03:39when I only met you in person like three hours ago, that's not cool.
03:44Like I said, you're an adult.
03:45I'm an adult.
03:45I don't think it's a bad thing to want to, you know, go back to a hotel room on a first date.
03:50I thought we were hitting it off.
03:51I didn't think it was a problem to ask.
03:53It's just really inappropriate, honestly.
03:55Like, I'm looking for a gentleman.
03:57I'm not looking for someone who's just trying to do something with me the first night.
04:01I thought we were going to get to know each other, and I thought, you know, this has potential.
04:05But that, honestly, that was such a turnoff for me.
04:08I mean, whatever.
04:10It's not that big a deal.
04:10You said no, which is fine.
04:12But I just didn't think it was that big a deal to ask you if you wanted to come back to the room with me.
04:16I didn't think it was a major issue or a deal breaker.
04:19Well, it was a deal breaker for me, and I was offended.
04:23That's just not the type of girl that I am.
04:25Okay, well, Darren, now you know what kind of girl Kim is, and you know she's really not interested in, obviously, doing that on a first date.
04:33Kim, is there any way that you would give him a second chance?
04:36Now he knows, like, where you stand.
04:38No, absolutely not.
04:39He had his chance.
04:41He showed his true colors.
04:42That's obviously the type of person he is.
04:45I'm the type of person I am.
04:46It's obviously not going to work out.
04:48And I don't know how many girls he's done this to before.
04:51But, you know what?
04:51Have fun with them.
04:53Oh, okay.
04:54Okay, wow.
04:54I mean, I am a gentleman.
04:56You said no, and that was fine.
04:59I didn't think it was that big of a deal.
05:01So you don't want to go on a second date and try this again?
05:05No.
05:06You don't give up.
05:07But the audacity to assume that I would want to do that is just too much for me.
05:13I'm good.
05:14Okay.
05:15All right.
05:15Well, we're going to respect what Kim wants here, Darren.
05:18I'm sorry it didn't work out for you.
05:20It's a little bit too forward for Kim.
05:22And Kim, thank you for coming on.
05:24And I wish you both luck.
05:25All right.
05:26Thanks, guys.
05:27All right.
05:27Thanks, Kim.
05:28Bye.
05:28I mean, you can't do that.
05:30You can't throw that out there like that.
05:32That's a bad read on his part.
05:34It's a bad read.
05:35I'm surprised he did because it didn't sound like they were hot and heavy all over each
05:39other.
05:39Now, if this girl had his tongue down his throat, I can see him saying that, but it didn't seem
05:45that way at all.
05:45That didn't happen at all.
05:47It's like, where, why would you throw that out there?
05:49I mean, she's, she was probably into you, but she wasn't like, yeah.
05:53All right.
05:54Well, this would have been a, no, I'm not saying that when I asked this question, would it be
05:57a deal breaker to go on another date?
05:59Obviously he was cool with her saying no, but would you go on another date with him?
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